In this new episode, I am joined by trauma specialist Dr. Ken Huey for an honest conversation about men’s mental health, emotional expression, trauma, and healing.

Dr. Huey brings over two decades of experience in behavioral and mental health, with a strong focus on trauma and attachment particularly within the adoptee community. Drawing from both his professional work and personal journey as an adoptee, he shares how his lived experiences shaped his passion for helping individuals with deep trauma histories learn how to build healthy relationships, regulate emotions, and function successfully in society.

We also get into what it really looks like to work in trauma care exploring both the emotional challenges and the deeply rewarding moments. Dr. Huey speaks candidly about the heartbreak of watching clients struggle with self-destructive behaviors, as well as the joy of seeing them grow into more stable, connected, and thriving individuals over time.

Our central focus in this episode is the stigma surrounding men’s mental health. We unpack why so many men are conditioned to suppress their emotions, avoid vulnerability, and “power through” pain. Dr. Huey explains how societal expectations, cultural norms, and even biological tendencies can contribute to emotional suppression while also emphasizing that emotional expression is a skill that can be learned and developed with practice.

This episode also explores:

● Why many men struggle to recognize or admit they need help

● How stoicism and emotional shutdown often show up in relationships and behavior

● The importance of safe spaces and trusted relationships when opening up

● Dr. Huey’s powerful reflections from his own life navigating trauma, learning how to build lasting relationships and finding healing through openness, safe connections, and personal growth

● Addressing internal stigma and fear around vulnerability in men

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In this episode of Rough Edges Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Mary Ruth Hackett an Educational Psychologist, author, and speaker to explore the powerful intersection of faith, identity, and psychology. With a background in parenting and identity development, Mary Ruth shares her personal and spiritual journey from her early desire to be a stay-at-home mom to becoming an author, podcaster, and voice helping others navigate intentional, faith-filled living.

Throughout the conversation, we cover the importance of pursuing knowledge with humility, integrating faith with developmental psychology, and making intentional parenting decisions rooted in both research and spiritual truth. Mary Ruth also reflects on her journey into podcasting and writing, the role of community and discernment in following God’s calling, and how her family has been part of that process.

We also talk about what it truly means to embrace your identity as God’s beloved daughter inspired by her book Daughter by Design. Mary Ruth opens up about how writing the book deepened her relationship with God, particularly in understanding and connecting with Him as a loving Father. She also shares how prayer, surrender, and obedience have shaped her spiritual life and influenced her work.

If you’ve ever struggled with identity, felt distant from God, or wanted to grow in both faith and self-understanding, this episode offers practical encouragement and a reminder of the beauty of being fully known and loved by God.

This episode also explores:

● How to build a deeper, more personal relationship with God as Father

● The role of reflection, prayer, and intentional living in spiritual growth

● How Daughter by Design helps readers reconnect with their identity and heal from

broken perceptions of fatherhood

● The importance of aligning your vocation with God’s calling

● The value of slowing down, reflecting, and actively engaging with what we consume

Resources and links mentioned in the episode:

● You can find Dr. Mary Ruth Hackett on social media through her INSTAGRAM!

● Purchase Dr. Mary Ruth Hackett’s book Daughter by Design HERE via Amazon on her website

● Check out her new book Discernment of Spirits for Beginners HERE

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In this episode of Rough Edges, I am joined by Renee Firth, a mental health advocate and founder of ASD Mum Club, an online community dedicated to supporting mothers raising autistic children.

Renee shares her personal mental health journey including experiencing PTSD, anxiety, and depression after a traumatic car accident and how she rebuilt her life by developing practical tools to manage and protect her mental well-being.

We get to discuss the importance of stepping back and reassessing life during overwhelming seasons and why prioritizing mental health is a strategic decision rather than a sign of weakness.

Renee opens up about her experience as a mother to an autistic child, the mental and emotional toll caregiving can take, and how easily mothers can neglect themselves while trying to meet their child’s needs.

The conversation also explores the heart behind ASD Mum Club on why Renee created a calm, supportive space specifically for mothers, and how it helps them move from burnout and overwhelm to feeling more in control of their mental health.

Renee also addresses common misconceptions about parenting autistic children, emphasizing that mothers deeply love their children and are not wishing for a different life, but rather need support to navigate the challenges.

In this episode, we cover:

● Renee’s mental health journey and recovery after PTSD

● The realities of parenting an autistic child

● How caregiving impacts a mother’s mental health

● The inspiration and mission behind ASD Mum Club

● Common misconceptions about autism and parenting autistic children

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

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● Find out more about the ASD Mum Club HERE on their website

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Hello everyone! Welcome to another episode of Rough Edges. In this episode, I sit down with stress-management expert and author Lolita Guarin to explore what it truly means to live a life rooted in peace, presence, and self-alignment.

Lolita shares how traveling across the world shaped her understanding of happiness, and why so many people who “have everything” still feel overwhelmed and unfulfilled. We talk about the emotional and physical impact of long-term stress, the importance of reclaiming rest, and learning to be instead of constantly doing. Lolita also breaks down her C.A.L.M. method, a practical approach to managing stress and creating sustainable well-being in everyday life.

In this episode we talk about:

● Lolita Guarin and her work as a stress management expert and author

● Why people with “everything” can still be stressed and unhappy

● The way constant stress affects health over time

● Tips for managing stress like taking small breaks during the day (Pomodoro-style but flexible)

● Generational conditioning especially for women being taught to constantly give, care, produce, and never rest

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

● Connect with Lolita on ⁠⁠INSTAGRAM⁠⁠!

●Learn more about Lolita’s CALM process ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠!

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Welcome back to part 2 of our episode topic. In this episode I continue my conversation with Jesse Mercury, host of the Major Pain Podcast on chronic illness, mental health, and the stigma surrounding men's emotional expression. Jesse shares his experience navigating an undiagnosed chronic illness throughout his thirties, the emotional and physical challenges that came with it, and the eventual gratitude he developed in learning to manage his condition.

He speaks openly about anger, fear, depression, and the importance of developing coping tools and support systems. The conversation shifts toward men’s mental health and the societal pressure placed on men to remain stoic and suppress emotional needs. Jesse reflects on how harmful messaging including being told to “tough it out” or being dismissed by doctors impacts the journey of seeking help. He emphasizes the importance of therapy, self-advocacy, and redefining strength as vulnerability and honesty.

In this episode we talk about:

● Living with chronic illness: losing years (the “lost 30s”) and learning to play catch-up

● Stigma around men expressing emotions and the damage of “tough it out” messaging

● Importance of therapy (finding a therapist who understands chronic illness; CBT tools)

● Gratitude that emerged from surviving/learning to manage illness

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

● Connect with Jesse Mercury on ⁠INSTAGRAM⁠!

● Find out more about Jesse’s Creative website ⁠HERE⁠!

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Hi everyone! In this episode of Rough Edges, I sit down with my uncle, Dr. Stephen Fox, to talk about his journey of faith, military service, education, and mental health. Dr. Fox shares how he first came to faith as a child, how his walk with God shifted during his military service, and how prayer and spiritual community kept him grounded over the years. He also opens up about traumatic experiences he encountered during his time in the Army including the aftermath of the 1995 Oklahoma City bombing and surviving a serious car accident that resulted in post-traumatic stress.

Dr. Fox discusses how counseling, grounding strategies, and leaning into his faith helped him process trauma and continue serving others, particularly children, through his work in early childhood education and instructional leadership. This conversation highlights the importance of support systems, faith, mental health resources, and representation in education and sheds light on the often-overlooked emotional realities faced by veterans.

In this episode we talk about:

● Why Dr. Stephen Fox chose to pursue elementary education especially as a male educator

● Understanding the mental health challenges and suicide risks among veterans

● How Dr. Fox approached earning his doctoral degree and contributing to curriculum development

● The importance of faith, therapy, and emotional support in healing

Mental Health Topics Mentioned:

● Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

● Trauma processing and triggers

● Veterans’ mental health challenges

● The role of counseling and coping strategies

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

● Check out our faith based women of color ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠shop⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ here where you can get a variety of products from T shirts, tote bags, crewnecks, journals and many more

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Today is the fourth anniversary of the podcast, and I'm so excited because this not only marks a very grand milestone of four years of podcasting, but it also shows that Rough Edges is valuable and that my voice does matter in the long run. So for this episode, I'm going to do four different chapters of the podcast. I'm going to talk about how Rough Edges started, and I'm also going to talk about how I found my voice, and I'm also going to go over the why of Rough Edges.

I also share how my journey with bipolar 1 disorder and my walk with faith led me to create a space where mental health can be spoken about honestly, especially within communities of color and faith-based circles. This episode explores the evolution of Rough Edges from an idea meant for a written blog to a podcast that has reached listeners around the world, supported healing conversations, and encouraged others to embrace their stories.

Finally, I share what’s ahead and how I plan to expand and strengthen my voice in future seasons. This episode honors growth, healing, and the courage to speak openly about mental health within faith-based spaces.

In this episode I cover:

● Why Rough Edges was created

● How my bipolar 1 diagnosis shaped my calling to share my story

● How I transitioned from a blog idea to full podcast

● How community support helped me find confidence in my voice

● Plans for the next chapter, including collaboration and new platforms

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Hi everyone! In today’s episode of Rough Edges, I sit down with Jesse Mercury, who is the host of the Major Pain podcast. He shares his personal journey with mental health, self-discovery, and hope. Jesse opens up about his experience living with chronic illness, his path toward healing, and how creativity has been a grounding force through it all.

We talk about what it means to embrace your diagnosis without letting it define you, the importance of community and compassion, and how faith and music can coexist beautifully in the midst of struggle. This conversation is honest, heartfelt, and full of moments that remind us that healing is never linear but always possible.

What I Hope You Take Away:

Healing doesn’t mean having it all figured out it means learning to live fully and freely, even in the uncertainty.

In this episode we talk about:

● Jesse’s journey with mast cell activation syndrome (MCAS) and small fiber neuropathy and how it has shaped his understanding of himself

● The power of creativity as a tool for expression and emotional grounding

● How faith and self-compassion play a role in recovery and acceptance

● What it means to find purpose and beauty even in the midst of mental health challenges

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

● Connect with Jesse Mercury on INSTAGRAM!

● Find out more about Jesse’s Creative website HERE!

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