In this powerful episode of Run to the Hard, host Curtis sits down again with longtime friend and pastor Tristan Borland to delve deeper into the journey of grief and the search for hope. Both Curtis and Tristan have endured profound personal losses, and their discussion centers on how faith, community, and finding purpose can help navigate the dark seasons of life. Tristan shares his experiences as a pastor counseling grieving families, how his own loss of his daughter,Maria brought him to a new understanding of boundaries, and the ways his congregation ministered to him in his time of need.

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01:30 Tristan's Pastoral Story

03:17 Managing Grief and Boundaries

05:12 The Role of Community in Healing

07:40 The Weight of Grief

11:24 Helping Others Through Grief

24:27 The Theology of a Three-Year-Old

29:52 Jesus Loves Me

34:46 Two Different Lives

39:15 Love as a Multiplying Force

43:32 Pain into Purpose

49:08 The Cosmic Story of Redemption

51:25 Amen

This audio podcast is for grievers who have experienced loss of a child and the devastating impact of grief on a young family.

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CHAPTER

01:00 Tristan & Curtis's Connection

04:39 A Grief Conversation with a Friend

07:55 Experiencing Sudden Loss of a Child

13:00 Therapy Writing that Turned to a Book

18:25 Forced to Postpone Daughter's Funeral

19:30 Welcoming a New Baby With No Joy

23:08 A Profound Metaphor Describing Grief

26:45 The Awkwardness of Grieving

32:28 Theology of Suffering

37:22 The Reality of Doubt

40:32 The Messiness of Grief

42:00 Responding To Weird Comments

46:36 The Risk of Loving Again

49:06 Sacred Relics

59:10 Redeeming Pain

01:02:59 Everything is Uncomfortable

01:06:35 Giving Hope Through Tristan's Book

01:10:00 Joy in Sorrow

01:12:10 Closing

In this episode, Chris and Curtis delve into the profound journey of grief, exploring how to find motivation amidst loss.

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CHAPTERS

00:60When Did Curtis Find Motivation in Grief?

03:40 Was There a Turning Point?

06:49 What is God's Purpose For Us?

11:33 Why You Shouldn't Alienate Others

17:51 Griever's Responsibility in Healing

20:48 Celebrity Stories

21:13 Deion Sanders

22:20 Darryl Strawberry

22:56 Hulk Hogan's Story

23:41 The Common Denominator

27:01 The Message of the Gospel

28:10 What is Spiritual Laziness?

33:55 Laziness Vs Brokeness and Living to Our Full Potential

36:25 Why Can't I Find Motivation in Grief?

39:59 A Prayer for the Grieving

In this episode, Chris interviews Curtis, particularly focusing on the transition from the first to the second year after the loss of his wife and the lessons he has learned.

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TIME STAMPS
01:20 Navigating Grief: Year One vs. Year Two
08:40 Taking Charge of Grief
13:40 Building Supportive Friendships
19:54 Setting Boundaries in Grief
26:43 Gaining Perspective Through Loss
30:26 Finding Purpose in Tragedy
31:18 A Heart for Helping Others
35:42 Living Out Our Purpose
39:33 Living with Eternal Perspective
42:28 Responsibilities of the Church and Community
52:24 How To Find Support
56:15 The Michal Foundation: A Legacy of Love
58:32 Concluding Thoughts and Prayers

This episode is from Curtis's interview on Wendell Browns podcast Tragedy Into Triumph.

This interview is a great recap of Curtis & Michal's story from the perspective of a pastor who saw them through many tragedies and triumphs of their own.

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Time Stamps:

03:00 The Facade of the Perfect Family

09:00 The Hard of Divorce & Singleness at Fifty

12:00 A Season of Deep Spiritual Growth

14:00 "Who You Marry Matters"

23:00 Comparing Your Old Marriage

27:00 An Unexpected Tragedy

37:00 Michal's Response to Hard Things In Life

40:00 "Am I Dying Well"?

45:00 Michal's Last Words To The World

50:00 Where is The Hope In This Tragedy?

52:00 Run To Hard In Other People's Lives

57:00 The Run To The Hard Podcast Origin Story

01:01:00 Support The Grief Foundation

In this heartfelt conversation, Chris walks Crystal and her new love after loss through their current experiences as they date after losing their spouses.

They explore the complexities of navigating the emotional roller coaster that comes with healing and how their kids are reacting to the news.

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In this conversation, Curtis leads podcast listener, Crystal through an incredible journey through loss, abandonment, and the challenges of navigating life after loss of her husband. Throughout the episode, the emphasis is on running to the hard places of life and allowing God to work through those experiences for healing and growth. This conversation explores the profound journey of Crystal as she navigates through significant health challenges, the impact of a life-altering diagnosis, and the resilience required to support her family.

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In this conversation, Co host Chris, invites his wife Johnna on the podcast to breathe out their personal and fresh journey of walking through a late miscarriage in January 2024. They share a new perspective on their hospital experience as well as the awful timing of the loss, the lies the enemy attacked Johnna with and the questions of why God allowed them to walk through this hard after they prayed for God's will in family expansion.

04:00 Terrible Timing For a Miscarriage

07:00 "The Baby Has No Heartbeat"

12:00 Deciding Between Induction or a D&C

18:00 The Unexpected Hospital Perspective

24:00 Answered Prayers For Mercy

31:00 More Than a Clump of Cells

39:00 Learning it Was a Boy

41:00 Emotions Leaving The Hospital

41:00 Emotions Leaving The Hospital

49:00 Practical Challenges of Loss & Support

54:00 Chaos and No Time To Grieve

1:01:00 The Lies The Enemy Attacks Women With

1:09:00 Questioning God's Timing of Another Pregancy

01:14:00 How to Support Those Grieving a Baby Loss

01:21:00 How Can Men Support In Times of Trial?

01:30:00 Does God Waste Loss?

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