Your longings are the compass of your heart... start focusing on the these and you will go in the right direction

In this episode, Shawn will discuss:

- How to effectively say NO to porn

- Why just saying no to porn because its bad doesn't work

- Getting to the real heart issue

- Healing trauma and resolving your wounds

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This episode is based on this post I wrote in our DeepClean private community (learn more about Inner Circle):

Last week I was working 1:1 with a client to help him pinpoint some wounds from his past.

The challenge?
He didn’t know what happened to cause the wounds.

He knew something was there — he has struggles today to prove it — but he just couldn’t pinpoint what happened.

And honestly?
I see this all the time.

Guys want to really dial in the trauma story. It makes sense… we want clarity. But let me remind you —

👉 It’s not totally necessary.

The focus of healing isn’t about perfectly remembering what happened. It’s about recognizing what still lives inside you.

• The emotions you felt that never got processed (the ones you still wrestle with)

• The thoughts you had that never got shared (the ones you still carry)

• The needs you had that never got met (the ones you still seek to fill in unhealthy ways)

When you focus here, you may discover the full story — or maybe not.
Either way, you’re working directly with the part of trauma that can actually heal.

If you can name those 3 things — emotion, thought, and need — you now have real clarity on what you’re up against.

Then comes the good part: learning how to work through X emotion, Y thought, and Z longing.

That’s my super simple approach to recovery — and I love seeing how it changes men’s lives, time and time again. 💪

This episode is all about unpacking this idea and helping you make recovery simple!

Maybe you still feel stuck, not knowing how to apply this?

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The Czech Republic has some staggering challenges when it comes to sexuality. Stats show us that they are top in the world in porn creation, sex trafficking, and some other difficult things to make sense of...

I brought Pete Lupton on the show today to talk about his incredible mission to help a country start to understand that porn at the very least can be a problem

Pete also shares about his journey of recovery, going through 10 years of what doesnt work so he could finally find what does work. Now he spends all of his time making sure more people learn the truth and develop the tools that really work to say no to porn and get sober from sexual struggles.

While listening, you may feel a nudge to get some help and a part of the solution to this problem rather than continue to give into the problem... if so

Check out secrethabit.ca to get connected to Shawn and his coaching with the DeepClean Program

Topics we cover in this episode:

- Passion behind a mission to change the narrative behind pornography

- What does not work in recovery

- What does work in recovery

- Hope for whats available in Jesus

- Czechs views of porn, sex and religion

- Vision for the Czech Republic

- What God is doing through NePornu and how everybody can help

To get connected to Pete and NePornu, here are 3 ways to do so

Instagram: https://instagram.com/info_npcz

Website: https://nepornu.cz/

Donate (different ways per country below):

-https://nepornu.cz/podpor-projekt-financne/

- https://www.jaron.org/ministry-team/pete-lupton/

- https://www.darujme.cz/projekt/1202617?locale=en