You’re about to meet my friend Sabrina Schroeder, who is single, smart, adventurous, athletic, hilarious, a cat lover, defiantly carnivorous, a beer enthusiast, and a million more things. 

Oh yeah, she’s also disabled.

In this episode, we talk about what it’s like to date when you’re disabled. How she meets people. What it’s like to have sex when you have disabilities. How she navigates the always complex dating world, and the hilarious way she’s rebelling against her parents.

You’ll never guess in a million years.

Nearly 1 in 4 adults in the United States has some type of disability. Very focused on the importance of representation, in this conversation, Sabrina shares great advice about acceptance, honest communication, and best practices for dating someone disabled.

Spoiler Alert: Her advice is great for everyone regardless of ability.

Although this is a very funny conversation at times, whatever your personal circumstances or relationship status may be, there’s a lot to be learned here. As Sabrina says on her blog,

“By recognizing the diverse range of disabilities, both visible and invisible, we can work towards a more inclusive society that values and respects the experiences and needs of all individuals.”

You can find out more about Sabrina and contact her through her website: BeyondBarriers.net

She’s on Instagram @sabrina_schroeder93 and on Facebook.

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Thanks, as always, for listening.

May was National Masturbation Month! Did you spend all 31 days dialing your rotary phone?

I certainly hope so.

You may not realize this, but one of the keys to stronger, longer lasting orgasms is a healthy pelvic floor. But what is a pelvic floor, and does it require a cork underlayment?

Sorry…I watch a lot of home improvement shows.

On this episode, I talk to Dr. Rachel Gelman. With over 15,000 hours of clinical practice under her belt (pun intended) Rachel is a leading expert on pelvic health. For the next half hour, she’s your guide to, as she calls it, the “cave of wonders.” We learn the ins and outs of these true core muscles and how painful sex, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and many other issues are often signs you should see a pelvic health expert.

We talk about the Kegel industrial complex, menopause myths, and why you should not be afraid to see a pelvic health expert.

At 20:04 Dr. Gelman offers simple tips to help you maintain tip top pelvic health, and even reveals the $25 late night infomercial product that might be the solution to everything.

I am not shitting you! (Hint, hint.)

Absolutely delightful, brilliant and dedicated to ensuring the success of your downstairs business, Rachel Gelman treats people of all genders in her San Francisco office.

She also offers telehealth appointments.

Find out more about Rachel Gelman or book an appointment at https://www.pelvicwellpt.com

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Sex Ed The Musical is available on iTunes, Stitcher, Podtail, IHeartRadio, Podbay, Spotify and more.

Please share and follow Sex Ed The Musical wherever you enjoy podcasts.

Also, if you’d do us a solid and leave us a 5-Star Review on iTunes, we’d ever so gratefully appreciate it.

Again, if there’s anything or anyone you’d like to hear on this show, or if you have any questions, feel free to email me at info@sexedthemusical.com

Thanks, as always, for listening.

See you next time!

Having sex with someone new can be a potentially stressful situation.

“How do I measure up with their other partners?”

“What do they think of my body?”

“Am I pleasing them?”

Now, imagine you’re in bed with a professional SEX COACH whose job is to teach people how to enjoy the most fulfilling sex and pleasure possible.

That is A LOT of pressure. For you…and them.

On this episode I speak with Wendy Perkins, a trauma-informed orgasm, and neuro-pleasure coach. An author and sought-after expert who’s been featured in BuzzFeed News, Wendy hacked her own ADHD, and now helps people discover unique pathways to take ownership of their pleasure.

Oh yeah… she’s also single and dating.

As you could imagine, when potential sex partners find out she’s an orgasm and pleasure coach…well, the reactions she gets are pretty surprising.

Wendy reveals how male potential sex partners typically fall into one of three categories when they learn about her job. Female potential sex partners have a completely different reaction. Plus, there are the folks who flat-out expect a free sex masterclass every time she gets in bed with them.

Yeah not so much.

She also shares pro tips on how to “guide” a partner in bed without making it seem like a lesson, and the best thing to say to get out of a night of terrible sex.

There’s a lot to be gained from this fun conversation.

Wendy Perkins can be reached for private coaching and more at Owning Your O and can be found online @owningyouro.

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Sex Ed The Musical is available on iTunes, Stitcher, Podtail, IHeartRadio, Podbay, Spotify and more.

Please share and follow Sex Ed The Musical wherever you enjoy podcasts.

Also, if you’d do us a solid and leave us a 5-Star Review on iTunes, we’d ever so gratefully appreciate it.

Again, if there’s anything or anyone you’d like to hear on this show, or if you have any questions, feel free to email me at info@sexedthemusical.com

Thanks, as always, for listening.

See you next time!