If you intend to lose weight, get up earlier, travel or stop or start something in your life, this quick episode is for you!

Good intentions are grand ideas without a plan. How do you change those ideas into actions? Practice!

This episode is me, Tanya, with few life-changing thoughts about being Sober on Purpose. There is no magic pill! Finding your way takes Purpose and Practice.

Get ready to discover what life can look like on the other side of addiction! 🥰

👑 Want to be a cherished wife? 🌸

💖 Do less, connect more with your family.

🏆 Create a legacy of love and joy for generations.

🚫 Say goodbye to addiction's grip on your family life forever!

🌈 Join our supportive community:

👪 Rise Above Addiction Private Facebook Group:

🔗 Join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/soberonpurpose

📧 No Facebook? No worries! Receive updates by email:

💌 Sign up here - https://www.tanyagioia.com/2cc6a4a1b2

Do you feel powerless against addiction's grip on your family? 💔

Transform your family dynamics in just 12 weeks. Learn to let go of the fixer role and embrace true, earnest love. 💖

Click here to explore the Grace & Recovery Framework. https://www.tanyagioia.com/84d5544e

Want to escape the chaos of addiction? 🚫

Discover powerful strategies to help yourself and your loved ones break free. Get ready to find God amidst the chaos—join the waitlist for the upcoming Blessed Family Recovery Summit in October 2024. Sign up here. https://www.blessedfamilyrecoverysummit.com/

Is your marriage feeling strained? 💍

Reconnect with your husband, rediscover your identity as a Christian woman, and revive your marriage both physically and spiritually. 🙏

Click here to get daily prayer nuggets delivered to your email. https://www.tanyagioia.com/prayers5days

Struggling to maintain boundaries in your relationships? 🚧

In just 7 days, learn to create, communicate, and stick to boundaries that lead to healthier, happier connections. 🌱

Check out our Empowered Boundaries Mini-Course. https://www.tanyagioia.com/empoweredboundaries

Trust in God, clean your house, speak the truth.

Blessings, Tanya Gioia. 🌸

The relief of you or the loved one getting sober lifts a momentous wait off the family. Now everything is going to be OK. He, she or they will stop doing whatever they were doing that caused the family so much harm. For years, the families desperate mantra for sobriety may have gone something like this:

• IF he would just … stop using drugs, pron, spending money, working 90 hours.
• IF she would just.. stop nagging, drinking, shopping, yelling.

Our expectations breed more expectations. We expect a whole new person after the addictive behavior stops. What we often get is a confused, fragile person trying to sort out their lives.

When our expectations are not meet we can get frustrated or even angry. This creates an endless no-win cycle. A child quickly learns that; if you can’t ever win, why play. #soberlifehappylife #soberonpurpose

Jerry and I discuss the dangerous fantasy land of expectations after you become Sober on Purpose.

Get ready to discover what life can look like on the other side of addiction! 🥰

👑 Want to be a cherished wife? 🌸

💖 Do less, connect more with your family.

🏆 Create a legacy of love and joy for generations.

🚫 Say goodbye to addiction's grip on your family life forever!

🌈 Join our supportive community:

👪 Rise Above Addiction Private Facebook Group:

🔗 Join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/soberonpurpose

📧 No Facebook? No worries! Receive updates by email:

💌 Sign up here - https://www.tanyagioia.com/2cc6a4a1b2

Do you feel powerless against addiction's grip on your family? 💔

Transform your family dynamics in just 12 weeks. Learn to let go of the fixer role and embrace true, earnest love. 💖

Click here to explore the Grace & Recovery Framework. https://www.tanyagioia.com/84d5544e

Want to escape the chaos of addiction? 🚫

Discover powerful strategies to help yourself and your loved ones break free. Get ready to find God amidst the chaos—join the waitlist for the upcoming Blessed Family Recovery Summit in October 2024. Sign up here. https://www.blessedfamilyrecoverysummit.com/

Is your marriage feeling strained? 💍

Reconnect with your husband, rediscover your identity as a Christian woman, and revive your marriage both physically and spiritually. 🙏

Click here to get daily prayer nuggets delivered to your email. https://www.tanyagioia.com/prayers5days

Struggling to maintain boundaries in your relationships? 🚧

In just 7 days, learn to create, communicate, and stick to boundaries that lead to healthier, happier connections. 🌱

Check out our Empowered Boundaries Mini-Course. https://www.tanyagioia.com/empoweredboundaries

Trust in God, clean your house, speak the truth.

Blessings, Tanya Gioia. 🌸

Hey, this is Jerry with the first short workin´ it minisode. Just my opinion on who you can and cannot control in the addiction recovery process.

Maybe you have been sober a while or maybe you are new to sobriety. Tanya and I want to do these short mindset focused minisodes between the longer Sober on Purpose episodes to give you a quick minute or two of support.

Often one thing said by one person in a recovery group or by a trusted advisor can turn my mind around.

I hope these little shorts trigger healthy thoughts and bring you day up.

Hey, remember to trust God, clean house, and tell the truth. Plus we would love it if you leave us an iTunes review!!

Get ready to discover what life can look like on the other side of addiction! 🥰

👑 Want to be a cherished wife? 🌸

💖 Do less, connect more with your family.

🏆 Create a legacy of love and joy for generations.

🚫 Say goodbye to addiction's grip on your family life forever!

🌈 Join our supportive community:

👪 Rise Above Addiction Private Facebook Group:

🔗 Join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/soberonpurpose

📧 No Facebook? No worries! Receive updates by email:

💌 Sign up here - https://www.tanyagioia.com/2cc6a4a1b2

Do you feel powerless against addiction's grip on your family? 💔

Transform your family dynamics in just 12 weeks. Learn to let go of the fixer role and embrace true, earnest love. 💖

Click here to explore the Grace & Recovery Framework. https://www.tanyagioia.com/84d5544e

Want to escape the chaos of addiction? 🚫

Discover powerful strategies to help yourself and your loved ones break free. Get ready to find God amidst the chaos—join the waitlist for the upcoming Blessed Family Recovery Summit in October 2024. Sign up here. https://www.blessedfamilyrecoverysummit.com/

Is your marriage feeling strained? 💍

Reconnect with your husband, rediscover your identity as a Christian woman, and revive your marriage both physically and spiritually. 🙏

Click here to get daily prayer nuggets delivered to your email. https://www.tanyagioia.com/prayers5days

Struggling to maintain boundaries in your relationships? 🚧

In just 7 days, learn to create, communicate, and stick to boundaries that lead to healthier, happier connections. 🌱

Check out our Empowered Boundaries Mini-Course. https://www.tanyagioia.com/empoweredboundaries

Trust in God, clean your house, speak the truth.

Blessings, Tanya Gioia. 🌸

Getting sober often leaves us and our families with a long list of hurt feelings. We can resent people, organizations and ourselves.

Hanging our hats on resentments, holding them close and nurturing them only serves to feed them. Just like expectations, resentments tend to repopulate given the chance. They grow and grow and grow bigger like a balloon.

The long slim needle of truth about a resentment is they are a recycling of old negative feelings that we choose to reboot in our minds over and over again. How do addicts and their families pop the resentment balloon?

Get ready to discover what life can look like on the other side of addiction! 🥰

👑 Want to be a cherished wife? 🌸

💖 Do less, connect more with your family.

🏆 Create a legacy of love and joy for generations.

🚫 Say goodbye to addiction's grip on your family life forever!

🌈 Join our supportive community:

👪 Rise Above Addiction Private Facebook Group:

🔗 Join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/soberonpurpose

📧 No Facebook? No worries! Receive updates by email:

💌 Sign up here - https://www.tanyagioia.com/2cc6a4a1b2

Do you feel powerless against addiction's grip on your family? 💔

Transform your family dynamics in just 12 weeks. Learn to let go of the fixer role and embrace true, earnest love. 💖

Click here to explore the Grace & Recovery Framework. https://www.tanyagioia.com/84d5544e

Want to escape the chaos of addiction? 🚫

Discover powerful strategies to help yourself and your loved ones break free. Get ready to find God amidst the chaos—join the waitlist for the upcoming Blessed Family Recovery Summit in October 2024. Sign up here. https://www.blessedfamilyrecoverysummit.com/

Is your marriage feeling strained? 💍

Reconnect with your husband, rediscover your identity as a Christian woman, and revive your marriage both physically and spiritually. 🙏

Click here to get daily prayer nuggets delivered to your email. https://www.tanyagioia.com/prayers5days

Struggling to maintain boundaries in your relationships? 🚧

In just 7 days, learn to create, communicate, and stick to boundaries that lead to healthier, happier connections. 🌱

Check out our Empowered Boundaries Mini-Course. https://www.tanyagioia.com/empoweredboundaries

Trust in God, clean your house, speak the truth.

Blessings, Tanya Gioia. 🌸

Comfortably Unhappy

I hate this concept. It is the golden cage of work, home and play. The sound for comfortably unhappy is “meh” ( expressing a lack of interest or enthusiasm).

Just saying it makes me cringe--MEH. It is that chocolate chip cookie that is not good but not bad it is just a cookie. This is why I don’t eat cheesecake. It is sweet and creamy, but for my taste, it is just meh at the cost of a whole lot of calories.

Don't waste your sober on purpose life on comfortably unhappy relationships in work or play.

Get ready to discover what life can look like on the other side of addiction! 🥰

👑 Want to be a cherished wife? 🌸

💖 Do less, connect more with your family.

🏆 Create a legacy of love and joy for generations.

🚫 Say goodbye to addiction's grip on your family life forever!

🌈 Join our supportive community:

👪 Rise Above Addiction Private Facebook Group:

🔗 Join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/soberonpurpose

📧 No Facebook? No worries! Receive updates by email:

💌 Sign up here - https://www.tanyagioia.com/2cc6a4a1b2

Do you feel powerless against addiction's grip on your family? 💔

Transform your family dynamics in just 12 weeks. Learn to let go of the fixer role and embrace true, earnest love. 💖

Click here to explore the Grace & Recovery Framework. https://www.tanyagioia.com/84d5544e

Want to escape the chaos of addiction? 🚫

Discover powerful strategies to help yourself and your loved ones break free. Get ready to find God amidst the chaos—join the waitlist for the upcoming Blessed Family Recovery Summit in October 2024. Sign up here. https://www.blessedfamilyrecoverysummit.com/

Is your marriage feeling strained? 💍

Reconnect with your husband, rediscover your identity as a Christian woman, and revive your marriage both physically and spiritually. 🙏

Click here to get daily prayer nuggets delivered to your email. https://www.tanyagioia.com/prayers5days

Struggling to maintain boundaries in your relationships? 🚧

In just 7 days, learn to create, communicate, and stick to boundaries that lead to healthier, happier connections. 🌱

Check out our Empowered Boundaries Mini-Course. https://www.tanyagioia.com/empoweredboundaries

Trust in God, clean your house, speak the truth.

Blessings, Tanya Gioia. 🌸

Turkey Day is upon us. No one wants to struggle with Family Holidays. After recovery from addictions, the Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays may trigger unwanted feels and emotions.

Here are our Top Ten Tips for staying Emotionally Sober during the Holidays.

Designed to help you accept the things that you can't change and the courage to stay sober and addiction free during high-stress times.

Got some strategies of your own? Share it with us in the Sober on purpose facebook group!

Get ready to discover what life can look like on the other side of addiction! 🥰

👑 Want to be a cherished wife? 🌸

💖 Do less, connect more with your family.

🏆 Create a legacy of love and joy for generations.

🚫 Say goodbye to addiction's grip on your family life forever!

🌈 Join our supportive community:

👪 Rise Above Addiction Private Facebook Group:

🔗 Join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/soberonpurpose

📧 No Facebook? No worries! Receive updates by email:

💌 Sign up here - https://www.tanyagioia.com/2cc6a4a1b2

Do you feel powerless against addiction's grip on your family? 💔

Transform your family dynamics in just 12 weeks. Learn to let go of the fixer role and embrace true, earnest love. 💖

Click here to explore the Grace & Recovery Framework. https://www.tanyagioia.com/84d5544e

Want to escape the chaos of addiction? 🚫

Discover powerful strategies to help yourself and your loved ones break free. Get ready to find God amidst the chaos—join the waitlist for the upcoming Blessed Family Recovery Summit in October 2024. Sign up here. https://www.blessedfamilyrecoverysummit.com/

Is your marriage feeling strained? 💍

Reconnect with your husband, rediscover your identity as a Christian woman, and revive your marriage both physically and spiritually. 🙏

Click here to get daily prayer nuggets delivered to your email. https://www.tanyagioia.com/prayers5days

Struggling to maintain boundaries in your relationships? 🚧

In just 7 days, learn to create, communicate, and stick to boundaries that lead to healthier, happier connections. 🌱

Check out our Empowered Boundaries Mini-Course. https://www.tanyagioia.com/empoweredboundaries

Trust in God, clean your house, speak the truth.

Blessings, Tanya Gioia. 🌸

This minisode Jerry talks about being new to sobriety and facing people and challenges that cause him to question his and others motives.

Here are a few highlights from this minisode with Jerry.

During recovery from addiction, difficult things still happen. You may continue to cause others and yourself pain. Other's responses to your new sobriety and the changes you are making may also be difficult.

How do you navigate the new emotional landscape of your life sober?

Are other people really doing the best they can?

How do you navigate difficult relationships while still learning how to deal with your emotional sobriety?

When is no action the best action?

Hey, as always share your thoughts in our private facebook group!

Get ready to discover what life can look like on the other side of addiction! 🥰

👑 Want to be a cherished wife? 🌸

💖 Do less, connect more with your family.

🏆 Create a legacy of love and joy for generations.

🚫 Say goodbye to addiction's grip on your family life forever!

🌈 Join our supportive community:

👪 Rise Above Addiction Private Facebook Group:

🔗 Join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/soberonpurpose

📧 No Facebook? No worries! Receive updates by email:

💌 Sign up here - https://www.tanyagioia.com/2cc6a4a1b2

Do you feel powerless against addiction's grip on your family? 💔

Transform your family dynamics in just 12 weeks. Learn to let go of the fixer role and embrace true, earnest love. 💖

Click here to explore the Grace & Recovery Framework. https://www.tanyagioia.com/84d5544e

Want to escape the chaos of addiction? 🚫

Discover powerful strategies to help yourself and your loved ones break free. Get ready to find God amidst the chaos—join the waitlist for the upcoming Blessed Family Recovery Summit in October 2024. Sign up here. https://www.blessedfamilyrecoverysummit.com/

Is your marriage feeling strained? 💍

Reconnect with your husband, rediscover your identity as a Christian woman, and revive your marriage both physically and spiritually. 🙏

Click here to get daily prayer nuggets delivered to your email. https://www.tanyagioia.com/prayers5days

Struggling to maintain boundaries in your relationships? 🚧

In just 7 days, learn to create, communicate, and stick to boundaries that lead to healthier, happier connections. 🌱

Check out our Empowered Boundaries Mini-Course. https://www.tanyagioia.com/empoweredboundaries

Trust in God, clean your house, speak the truth.

Blessings, Tanya Gioia. 🌸

In the second podcast episode on resentments, we dive into how resentments can become part of how you define yourself. There are great benefits to working through a resentment toward a person, situation, or institution.

• Getting unstuck from a feeling or situation
• Freeing yourself to move forward
• Stoping re-injuring of yourself with a past hurt
• Forgiving of yourself and others
• Growing in compassion for others because you are not stuck in your own issues

Oddly, enough there are also reasons to keep your resentments and make them part of your identity. The holding on to resentments often helps us avoid things that scare us or creates a reason why we won't/can't move forward in our lives.

Get ready to discover what life can look like on the other side of addiction! 🥰

👑 Want to be a cherished wife? 🌸

💖 Do less, connect more with your family.

🏆 Create a legacy of love and joy for generations.

🚫 Say goodbye to addiction's grip on your family life forever!

🌈 Join our supportive community:

👪 Rise Above Addiction Private Facebook Group:

🔗 Join here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/soberonpurpose

📧 No Facebook? No worries! Receive updates by email:

💌 Sign up here - https://www.tanyagioia.com/2cc6a4a1b2

Do you feel powerless against addiction's grip on your family? 💔

Transform your family dynamics in just 12 weeks. Learn to let go of the fixer role and embrace true, earnest love. 💖

Click here to explore the Grace & Recovery Framework. https://www.tanyagioia.com/84d5544e

Want to escape the chaos of addiction? 🚫

Discover powerful strategies to help yourself and your loved ones break free. Get ready to find God amidst the chaos—join the waitlist for the upcoming Blessed Family Recovery Summit in October 2024. Sign up here. https://www.blessedfamilyrecoverysummit.com/

Is your marriage feeling strained? 💍

Reconnect with your husband, rediscover your identity as a Christian woman, and revive your marriage both physically and spiritually. 🙏

Click here to get daily prayer nuggets delivered to your email. https://www.tanyagioia.com/prayers5days

Struggling to maintain boundaries in your relationships? 🚧

In just 7 days, learn to create, communicate, and stick to boundaries that lead to healthier, happier connections. 🌱

Check out our Empowered Boundaries Mini-Course. https://www.tanyagioia.com/empoweredboundaries

Trust in God, clean your house, speak the truth.

Blessings, Tanya Gioia. 🌸