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  • 78. Somebody You Love needs rights not rescue (f**k the Nordic Model)

    78. Somebody You Love needs rights not rescue (f**k the Nordic Model)
    2024/11/21

    Well, the time has come. We are finally doing a deep dive on the Nordic Model! End Demand, Swedish Model, Equality Model... whatever you want to call it, it sucks.

    Sources:

    • Sex in the New Europe: The Criminalization of Clients and Swedish Fear of Penetration, Kulick, 2003
    • Twenty Years of Failing Sex Workers: A community report on the impact of the 1999 Swedish Sex Purchase Act, Fuckforbundet, 2019
    • Sex Work and the Nordic Model (w/ Freja and Elizabeth), The Importance of Being Feminist, 2021
    • The human cost of ‘crushing’ the market: Criminalization of sex work in Norway, Amnesty International, 2016
    • What do sex workers think about the French prostitution act?, Medecins Du Monde, 2019

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  • 77. Turned On: The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas

    77. Turned On: The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas
    2024/10/24

    The film The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas was released in 1982, based on the 1978 musical, based loosely on a true story. The movie stars Dolly Parton and Burt Reynolds and this week Holly and Jenna are sharing their thoughts on it!


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  • 76. Somebody You Love makes and studies Indie Porn (Dr Zahra Stardust

    76. Somebody You Love makes and studies Indie Porn (Dr Zahra Stardust
    2024/10/03

    Combining 15 years as a professional undresser, award-winning stripper, pole dancer, & 🌽 star with an international research portfolio spanning SWer activism, LGBTQ+ health, sexual rights and sextech, it’s Zahra Stardust!

    Order Indie Porn: Revolution, Regulation, and Resistance: https://avidreader.com.au/p/indie-porn-revolution-regulation-and-resistance


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  • 75. Somebody You Love faces digital violence (Pomma)

    75. Somebody You Love faces digital violence (Pomma)
    2024/09/19

    Pomma Granet, also known as Blair Bishop, also known as OnlyPomma, Juicy Pomma, Succubus Slut, and a host of other usernames given how many times they’ve had accounts deleted, is a New York-based full service sex worker, adult content creator, BDSM & fetish provider, cammer, and much more.

    Blair describes themselves as a bit of a nerd - they love video games, cosplay, anime, crafting, and alternative fashion and they are often traveling the country for anime conventions. They also spend a lot of their time online yelling into the void about sex worker’s rights and thus they fit right in here!

    Further reading:

    https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/00224499.2011.628132

    https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-23030090




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  • 74. Somebody You Love had a stalker Pt 2

    74. Somebody You Love had a stalker Pt 2
    2024/09/05

    CW: Stalking, harassment, sexual assault

    Welcome to part 2, and apologies for the darkness of these episodes! This time Holly & Jenna each share another story of stalking/harassment, as well as talk about the red flags they’ve learnt to watch out for, parasocial relationships, hitting on people at work, and female perpetrators.


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  • 73. Somebody You Love had a stalker Pt 1

    73. Somebody You Love had a stalker Pt 1
    2024/08/22

    CW: Stalking, harassment, sexual assault, animal death. We use the term “grandfathered” in this episode. We understand this term has very racist origins, and we apologise for the mistake. A better term would have been “legacy rates”

    While we are not more likely to be victims of violence because we sell sex, we are more likely to be victims of violence because people think the fact that we sell sex makes us less than human. Which is the whole reason this podcast exists. Today Holly & Jenna are each sharing one of the more harrowing experiences they have had in this industry.

    For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations:
    Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/
    ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/
    NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/
    NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt
    Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/
    SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html
    Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/
    Vic (Vixen): https://vixen.org.au/
    WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org
    WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au


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    59 分
  • 72. Turned On: Pretty Woman

    72. Turned On: Pretty Woman
    2024/08/08

    Holly finally convinced Jenna to watch Pretty Woman and here we are!

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    For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/
    ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/
    NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/
    NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt
    Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/
    SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html
    Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/
    Vic (Vixen): https://vixen.org.au/
    WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org
    WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au


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  • 71. Somebody You Love wrote a book about sluts (Dr Hilary Caldwell)

    71. Somebody You Love wrote a book about sluts (Dr Hilary Caldwell)
    2024/07/25

    Note: we had some technical issues when recording this episode, so unfortunately the audio isn’t at the level we usually like to deliver!

    Buy SLUTDOM: ​​https://www.uqp.com.au/books/slutdom-reclaiming-shame-free-sexuality

    Dr Hilary Caldwell has been a sex worker for over 20 years and decided to come out of hiding to publish her first book. She is an academic with a Masters in Health Science and Applied Science. Her doctorate, ‘Women Who Buy Sex in Australia’ was the first study in the world to explore women buying sexual services and was informed by her sex work and professional career in the field of sexology. She is kinky and queer, a mother and grandmother. Dr Caldwell has recently released her first book, Slutdom, which argues convincingly and passionately for women’s enjoyment of sex as a force to advance gender equality. Delving into topics such as pleasure, pain, empowerment, and including real women’s stories and saucy tips, we are welcoming Dr Caldwell on the show to discuss her research, the Slutdom movement and her experiences as an academic and secret sex worker.



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    For more info on sex work in Australia, please check out the following organisations: Scarlet Alliance: https://www.scarletalliance.org.au/
    ACT (SWOP ACT): https://meridianact.org.au/swop/
    NSW (SWOP NSW): https://swop.org.au/
    NT (SWOP NT): https://www.ntahc.org.au/swopnt
    Qld (Respect Inc): https://respectqld.org.au/
    SA (SIN): http://www.sin.org.au/sindex.html
    Tas (Scarlet Alliance): https://scarletalliance.org.au/links/
    Vic (Vixen): https://vixen.org.au/
    WA (SWEAR): http://sexworkerrightswa.org
    WA (Magenta): http://magenta.org.au




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    53 分