In this episode of "The Art of Imperfect Adulting," host Amy Stone speaks with Stephanie Shanks, Wisconsin photographer and podcast host, about her transformative journey to live authentically and free of people-pleasing. Stephanie shares her awakening at 40, how she navigated the challenges of people-pleasing, and the significance of self-discovery and self-worth.

Stephanie Shanks is a photographer, podcast host, and advocate for authentic living. After a pivotal life change at 40, Stephanie now runs her own photography studio and focuses her podcast on amplifying the voices of women who break free from societal expectations. You can learn more about her work at stepshanks.com.

Main Topics Covered:

• Stephanie's realization of living a life defined by others' expectations (00:01:35)
• The impact of early life experiences and societal pressures on people-pleasing (00:04:52)
• The transformative journey of breaking out of people-pleasing habits (00:08:38)
• Facing fears and confronting judgments from others (00:17:08)
• Embracing self-love, gratitude, and authentic relationships (00:21:55)

Quote from the Episode: "My identity was in other people." - Stephanie Shanks [00:04:42]

Timestamps:

00:00 Stephanie Shanks inspires authentic, fulfilling living transformation.

03:44 My identity depended on others' perceptions.

09:11 Self-discovery led to life-changing realizations and freedom.

11:55 Stepmom and retired photographer with shared experiences.

15:35 Growth often happens unseen, beneath the surface.

20:17 Change triggered manifestation of internalized self-improvement.

Related article https://imperfectadulting.com/breaking-free-from-people-pleasing-a-journey-toward-authenticity/

Connect with Stephanie Shanks:

• Website: stepshanks.com