In this episode of Superwives of the NFL, Stacey Lynn Bell and Mercedes Cotchery discuss their experiences as wives of NFL coaches and players, the transition from active sports life, and the challenges and triumphs of building Mercedes’ home styling business. They also talk about family and Mercedes and Jericho’s five children. They explore the deep bonds formed within the NFL sisterhood, the emotional rollercoaster of the Super Bowl experience, and the importance of navigating personal and political differences in friendships. Mercedes shares valuable insights on empowerment and the impact of supportive relationships in the NFL community.

Takeaways

Mercedes shares her journey of adapting to life as an NFL wife.

The importance of financial prudence during and after a player's career.

Building a design business from passion and experience in the NFL.

The significance of the NFL sisterhood in providing support and friendship.

Reflections on the emotional impact of losing the Super Bowl.

Understanding the personal stakes involved in professional sports.

The value of open discussions about differing political views among friends.

Empowerment of women in the NFL community and beyond.

The role of adversity in strengthening relationships.

Advice for younger women entering the NFL sisterhood.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to NFL Life

02:59 Transitioning from Player to Retirement

06:11 Building a Design Business

09:01 The NFL Sisterhood

11:53 Super Bowl Experience and Loss

21:10 Navigating Personal and Professional Challenges

24:56 Political Perspectives and Friendship

32:17 Empowerment and Advice for Future Generations

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In this engaging conversation, Adrienne Perry, wife of coach Dustin Perry of the SF 49ers, shares her journey from being a collegiate athlete to becoming an actress, highlighting the challenges and triumphs along the way. She and Stacey discuss the realities of being an NFL wife (Dustin is the Strength and Conditioning Coach and now also the Head of Player Development), the pressures of game day, and the fun and importance of fashion and identity to Adrienne in representing her husband and team. Stacey and Adrienne emphasize the value of strong connections within the NFL sisterhood, the impact of kindness from role models, and the complexities of fan interactions. The conversation concludes with reflections on friendships and the aspirations and resilience of NFL wives.

Takeaways

Adrienne transitioned from a corporate career to acting with her husband's support.

She emphasizes the importance of NIL (Name, Image, Likeness) for athletes.

Adrienne's husband, Dustin, quickly rose in his coaching career, allowing her to pursue acting.

She values the supportive environment of the 49ers organization.

Game day is stressful for NFL wives, not just glamorous as perceived.

Fashion is a way for Adrienne to express herself and support her husband.

She believes in the power of kindness and how it impacts others.

Fan interactions can be challenging, especially when expectations are high.

Adrienne values quality friendships over quantity in her life.

She hopes her daughter will build lifelong friendships within the NFL community.

Chapters

00:00 From Athlete to Actress: Adrienne's Journey

03:00 Life as an NFL Wife: The Reality Behind the Glamour

06:01 Game Day: The Pressure and Expectations

08:53 Fashion and Identity: Representing the Team

12:02 The NFL Sisterhood: Building Strong Connections

14:59 Navigating Fan Interactions: The Good and the Bad

18:10 Role Models and Kindness: The Impact of Support

21:03 Friendships in the NFL: Quality Over Quantity

23:59 Looking Ahead: Future Aspirations and Family

In this conversation, Stacey Lynn and Carole Sullivan (her husband is Mike Sullivan, offensive line coach for the Tennessee Titans, discuss the challenges and joys of being a coach's wife in the NFL. They discuss that both Carole and Stacey come from reporter/tv host backgrounds, and Carole is still on TV in Nashville. They explore the complexities of managing family life, especially during the reentry phase after the season when their husbands return home more full-time, the impact of COVID-19 on family experiences with the team, and the importance of community and support among coaches' wives.

Carole shares her insights on navigating the unique lifestyle, the lessons learned from the NFL sisterhood, and the role models she admires within the community. They also touch on the realities of constant moving and the advice they would give to new coaches' wives.

Stacey Lynn and Carole discuss the unique challenges and experiences of being a coach's wife while balancing personal careers and family life. They share insights on the importance of flexibility, the impact of moving frequently, and the joys of international experiences that come with the coaching lifestyle.

takeaways

People in the media industry are well-equipped for coaching life.

Flexibility is crucial for maintaining relationships in this business.

Keeping a career active helps in personal fulfillment.

Sacrifices are necessary for family stability in coaching.

Moving frequently can be challenging but also rewarding.

International games provide unique family experiences.

Maintaining a career while being a coach's wife is possible.

Support from partners is essential for career balance.

The journey of life is filled with adventures and opportunities.

Stability for children is a significant benefit of long-term coaching positions.

Flexibility in job negotiations can lead to better family time.

The reentry phase after the season can be challenging for families.

COVID-19 has significantly changed family access to NFL experiences.

Community support among coaches' wives is invaluable.

It's important to maintain patience during the reentry phase.

Finding comfort in isolation can be beneficial during games.

Role models in the NFL community can provide guidance and support.

New coaches' wives should be prepared for constant moves.

Sharing information with newcomers can help them adjust.

It's okay to prioritize family needs over social obligations.

In this episode of Superwives of the NFL, Stacey Lynn interviews Tamela Davis, wife of NFL player DeMario Davis with the New Orleans Saints. They discuss Tamela's journey as an NFL wife, her Southern roots, the challenges of homeschooling six children, their daughter, Carly- Faith’s journey with cancer and their advocacy for childhood cancer awareness. Tamela shares insights about their F Word foundation that serves children, the importance of family dining, and how faith plays a crucial role in their lives. The conversation also touches on the NFL sisterhood and the support it provides to women in the league.

Tamela Davis Social Media: If you want to learn more about Cancer Awareness, the Carly-Faith foundation, and the Davis’ foundation The F Word.

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takeaways

Tamela reflects on the unexpected longevity of DeMario's NFL career.

The importance of Southern values in shaping their family.

Homeschooling has been a fulfilling choice for their six children.

Tamela shares the emotional journey of their daughter Charlie's cancer diagnosis.

The Devoted Dreamers Foundation focuses on empowering inner-city youth.

Tamela Tailgate Treats was born from her love of cooking and family.

Family dining is essential for bonding and communication.

Faith is a cornerstone of their family life and decision-making.

The NFL lifestyle comes with unique challenges that are often overlooked.

The NFL sisterhood provides invaluable support and community.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Tamela Davis and NFL Journey

03:00 Southern Roots and Family Values

05:52 Homeschooling Six Kids

08:55 Cancer Awareness and Charlie Faith's Journey

11:59 Devoted Dreamers Foundation and Community Impact

14:54 Tamela Tailgate Treats: A Culinary Passion

17:57 The Importance of Family Dining and Etiquette

20:55 Faith as a Foundation

23:57 Navigating NFL Life and Challenges

26:48 The NFL Sisterhood and Support

29:51 Conclusion and Future Endeavors

In this conversation, Stacey Lynn and Michaela Bradley (her husband is Gus Bradley-Defensive Coordinator for the Indianapolis Colts) discuss their experiences as NFL coaches' wives and the challenges and the joys they face in managing their families and personal lives. They talk about the importance of maintaining independence and finding fulfillment outside of their husbands' careers. They also touch on the topic of firings and how they navigate the ups and downs of the coaching profession. They also talk about after the season “re-entry” back home and figuring that out. The conversation highlights the importance of the women’s relationships and the support they provide within the NFL sisterhood.

Takeaways

Maintaining independence and finding fulfillment outside of their husbands' careers is crucial for coaches' wives.

Firings are a part of the coaching profession, and it's important to maintain relationships and not take them personally.

The NFL sisterhood provides a network of women who understand the unique challenges and experiences of being coaches' wives.

Support and relationships within the NFL sisterhood are invaluable and can last a lifetime.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

02:48 Challenges of Being Coaches' Wives

07:58 Independence and Fulfillment

10:54 Dealing with Firings

16:05 The Power of the NFL Sisterhood

20:57 Final Thoughts and Goodbyes

In this conversation, Stacey Lynn and Kathy Agnew (her husband is Ray Agnew, Assistant GM of the Detroit Lions) discuss their friendship and experiences as NFL wives. They talk about their time with the Detroit Lions and the excitement of the team's successful season. They also discuss the challenges of being in a football-centric city like Detroit and the generational love for the sport. Kathy shares her pride in her three sons who are all involved in football, and they discuss the importance of encouraging their children to pursue their own paths. They also talk about the importance of building relationships and finding a sense of community within the NFL sisterhood. Kathy emphasizes the value of treating others with kindness and respect and the ripple effect it can have on building connections. They also touch on the importance of faith and maintaining a strong foundation in navigating the ups and downs of the NFL lifestyle. The conversation highlights the bond between NFL wives and the support they provide each other, making long-term friendships and cheering each other even when playing against each other.

Takeaways:

The NFL sisterhood provides a sense of community and support for NFL wives, who often move around and face unique challenges.

Building relationships and treating others with kindness and respect are crucial in the NFL sisterhood.

Faith and a strong foundation are important in navigating the ups and downs of the NFL lifestyle.

Encouraging children to pursue their own paths and supporting their interests outside of football is important.

Being part of a football-centric city like Detroit brings a sense of pride and generational love for the sport.

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Stacey Bell - Lynn and Gemmi Schottenheimer discuss their experiences as NFL wives and the impact of their husbands' careers on their lives and the support they give. Gemmi’s husband is Brian Schottenheimer and Stacey’s husband is Anthony Lynn. They talk about the close-knit community of NFL wives and the importance of support and friendship. They also share stories about Gemmi’s very loved father-in-law, Marty Schottenheimer and the legacy he left in the NFL. They discuss the challenges of living apart from their husbands during the football season, effect on the family or spouse and the importance of being intentional with your time together. They also touch on the topic of husbands’ job transitions and the emotional toll of being fired, which is fairly common in the football world. Gemmi reflects on the challenges and blessings of being an NFL coach's wife and openly discusses the unexpected firings and job changes her husband, Brian, experienced, and how they navigated those difficult times. Gemmi talks about the time Brian took time off to go through the grieving process and wound up with a renewed love of his job. Gemmi and Stacey talk about the support and understanding they find in the NFL sisterhood. They highlight the emotional toll that being a coach's wife can take and potential sacrifices they make for the game but would have it no other way.

Takeaways

The NFL wives community is close-knit and provides support and friendship.

Marty Schottenheimer left lasting legacy in the NFL.

Living apart from their husbands during the football season requires intentionality and strong marriages.

Job transitions and being fired can be emotionally challenging for both the coaches and their families. NFL coach's wives face challenges and uncertainties.

Taking time off and going through the grieving process can be beneficial for coaches and their families.

The NFL sisterhood provides support and understanding for coach's wives who share similar experiences.

Being a coach's wife can be emotionally draining at times, but they would have it no other way.

00:00 Introduction and How They Met

01:10 The Close-Knit Community of NFL Wives

03:02 The Legacies of Marty Schottenheimer and Anthony Lynn

07:36 Living Apart: Challenges and Intentionality

12:16 Navigating Job Transitions and Being Fired

20:17 Challenges and Blessings of Being an NFL Coach's Wife

22:54 Taking Time Off and Going Through the Grieving Process

24:16 Finding Support in the NFL Sisterhood

27:10 The Emotional Toll of Being a Coach's Wife

29:08 The Sacrifices of Being a Coach's Wife in the NFL

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