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  • Finding Peace During the Holidays : A Masterclass

    Finding Peace During the Holidays : A Masterclass
    2024/11/09

    As a recovering anxious people-pleaser, Dr. Charlie has discovered that managing my thoughts is key to finding peace—especially during the holidays. In this episode, she shares her journey to becoming a life coach and how understanding that fears and anxieties are just interpretations, not facts, can help us regain emotional control. She'll break down thought patterns that sabotage our peace, like fear of rejection, and offer practical strategies to tackle self-doubt and perfectionism.

    Learn how shifting your perspective without changing circumstances can boost confidence and help you navigate the holiday season easily and joyfully.

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    Take the mindset quiz to discover what thought process is secretly sabotaging you now!.

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    25 分
  • Understanding Trauma: The Brain, Healing, and Mental Health with HoneaHenderson-Owens

    Understanding Trauma: The Brain, Healing, and Mental Health with HoneaHenderson-Owens
    2024/11/02
    In this episode. Dr. Charlie engages in a profound discussion with Honea Henderson-Owens, a licensed clinical social worker focusing on trauma-informed care. The episode delves into the complex relationship between trauma and mental health, exploring how the brain's response mechanisms, such as fight, flight, freeze, or fawn, are activated under stress. Honea emphasizes the importance of slowing down the therapeutic process to help clients manage overwhelming emotions and symptoms. The conversation covers complex PTSD, developmental trauma, and how early experiences shape adult life, even affecting workplace dynamics. Listeners will gain insights into the differences between life coaching and therapy and the potential for healing through neuroplasticity. This episode offers valuable strategies for recognizing and managing emotional triggers providing hope and support for those on their mental health journey. Listen in to learn more: (00:00) Impact of Complex PTSD on Grief (04:35) Trauma-Informed Therapy Strategies Compared (07:59) Brain Prioritizes Survival Over Rationality (20:25) Recognizing the Need for Trauma-Informed Care (28:17) Understanding Survival Strategies in the Brain (40:41) Life Coach vs. Therapist Comparison Resources - Connect with Honea Henderson Owens Website - https://www.honeaowens.com/ Get all the episode resources: Download the free guide, Free Interactive Guide: Mind Shift Holiday Resilience 7-Day Challenge and curated episode recommendations. https://www.charliehornescoaching.com/pod20 Support the show here. •Our Amazon Storefront: ◦https://www.amazon.com/shop/thecharliehornescoachingstudio •Our “Buy Me a Coffee” Page ◦buymeacoffee.com/charliehornescoaching •Our Patreon: ◦https://www.patreon.com/charliehornescoaching Take the mindset quiz to discover what thought process is secretly sabotaging you now!. https://www.charliehornescoaching.com/quiz Don’t miss the Holiday Program Flash Sale for exclusive offers! https://www.charliehornescoaching.com/flashsale
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    58 分
  • Embracing Emotional Adulthood - How to have a Joyful Holiday

    Embracing Emotional Adulthood - How to have a Joyful Holiday
    2024/10/24

    Ready to ditch people-pleasing and reclaim your emotional power? In this episode, Dr. Charlie Hornes shares her journey from anxious pleaser to certified life coach by mastering emotional adulthood. You'll learn that it’s not external situations but your thoughts that shape your emotions.

    Discover how taking responsibility for your feelings shifts you from blame to self-awareness, giving you control over your emotional life. We’ll also explore how choosing love and compassion—especially during stressful times—can transform your relationships. Plus, you’ll learn a simple five-step process for owning your emotions and reshaping impulsive reactions. Get ready to enjoy a peaceful, stress-free holiday season with practical tools for emotional empowerment!

    Listen in to learn more.

    (05:52) Ownership of Feelings in Relationships

    (14:07) Choosing Love Over Assumptions

    (21:51) Navigating Holiday Stress and Miscommunication

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    https://www.charliehornescoaching.com/pod19

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    Take the mindset quiz to discover what’s holding you back.

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    36 分
  • Breaking Barriers: Women Leadership in the Military with Chief Casy Boomershine

    Breaking Barriers: Women Leadership in the Military with Chief Casy Boomershine
    2024/10/20

    In this powerful episode, Dr. Charlie Hornes sits down with Retired Command Chief Master Sergeant Casy Boomershine, a trailblazing woman in the Air Force who shattered gender barriers in one of the most male-dominated military fields. Together, they explore the invisible hurdles women face as leaders in the military and male-dominated industries, from the emotional toll of constant gender bias to the strategic moves women need to rise through the ranks. Chief Boomershine shares the critical importance of building resilience, owning your voice, and how women can gain respect without losing themselves. This episode is a must-listen for any high-achieving woman feeling stuck in a system built to hold her back—and is ready to reclaim her power and leadership role.

    Key Insights

    •Real strategies for handling subtle (and not so subtle) gender bias in leadership.

    •Emotional intelligence as a game-changer for women in male-dominated environments.

    •How to stop conforming and start commanding respect on your own terms.

    •The power of resilience and mentorship in breaking career barriers.

    •Practical tools for women to confidently lead without compromising their authenticity.

    Chapters

    00:00 - Introduction

    02:00 - Chief Boomershine’s Early Military Journey: Breaking Barriers

    10:35 - Navigating a Male-Dominated Military Career

    20:45 - Emotional Intelligence: A Key to Leadership Success

    28:30 - Facing Gender Bias: Strategies for Thriving

    35:45 - Breaking the Mold: Thriving as a Woman in Leadership

    42:00 - Lessons from the Top: Chief Boomershine’s Leadership Journey

    50:00 - Final Thoughts: Empowering Women to Lead Authentically

    Hashtags

    #womenleadership #genderbias #militaryleaders #womenthriving #womeninpower #leadershipforwomen #militarygenderbias #womenbreakingbarriers #highachievingwomen #womeninleadership

    Keywords

    Women leaders in the military

    Breaking gender barriers in leadership

    Female military leaders overcoming bias

    Gender bias in male-dominated industries

    Emotional intelligence for female leaders

    Leadership challenges for women in male fields

    Casy Boomershine leadership story

    How to gain respect as a woman leader

    Strategies for women breaking the glass ceiling

    Empowering women in leadership roles

    Confidence in male-dominated fields

    Overcoming gender bias in the workplace

    Career advancement for women leaders

    Emotional resilience in leadership for women

    Leadership advice for military women

    Navigating leadership in male-dominated industries

    Building respect as a woman leader

    Strategies for high-achieving women

    Leading confidently as a woman

    Women thriving in leadership roles
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    51 分
  • Rewiring Your Brain: Discovering Emotional Resilience Through Thought Work

    Rewiring Your Brain: Discovering Emotional Resilience Through Thought Work
    2024/10/12

    Ready to unlock your emotional power and transform your mindset? In this episode, Dr. Charlie explores the science of resilience and how mastering your thoughts can lead to emotional freedom. We’ll redefine resilience—not just bouncing back, but using it as a tool for real change.

    Dr. Charlie breaks down neuroplasticity and shows how, with practice, you can rewire your brain and replace unhelpful thoughts with ones that boost your well-being. Learn how shifting your perspective can help you overcome inadequacy and handle emotions without letting them control your self-worth.

    Tune in for practical tools, masterclasses, and a quiz to help you build emotional resilience and handle life’s challenges with ease!

    Listen in to learn more:

    * Life-Changing Joy of Teaching | 0:00:00 - 0:02:21

    * Building Resilience Through Thought Work | 0:10:40 - 0:12:28

    * Insight on True Resilience | 0:20:38 - 0:22:12

    * Taking Control of Your Reactions | 0:27:22 - 0:30:26

    * Rewiring Your Brain for Resilience | 0:31:50 - 0:33:18

    Get all the episode resources:

    Download the free guide, Free Episode 17 Interactive Guide: Mind Shift Holiday Resilience Challenge and curated episode recommendations.

    https://www.charliehornescoaching.com/pod17

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    Take the mindset quiz to discover what’s holding you back.

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    49 分
  • Faith Unfiltered: Christine's Journey to Authentic Spirituality (Part 2)

    Faith Unfiltered: Christine's Journey to Authentic Spirituality (Part 2)
    2024/10/05

    In Part 2, we continue our conversation with Christine, host of the Holy Shift podcast, as she dives even deeper into her journey of faith and the power of embracing tough questions about God, spirituality, and healing. Christine reflects on the evolving nature of faith and the importance of creating a welcoming community for diverse perspectives.

    We explore the challenges of balancing faith with real-world struggles, how rethinking traditional teachings has reshaped her approach to ministry, and the profound impact of mutual submission and sacrificial love in relationships. Christine also shares more about the role of transformative literature and female theologians in expanding our understanding of faith and theology.

    Join us for more thought-provoking insights on breaking religious molds, healing from spiritual wounds, and building an authentic relationship with God.

    Listen in to learn more :

    • Diverse Audience Seeking Spiritual Understanding | 0:04:21 - 0:05:28
    • Exploring Faith and Questioning Beliefs | 0:08:48 - 0:10:47
    • Understanding God's View of Dignity | 0:16:24 - 0:17:55
    • Mutual Submission in Marriage | 0:20:01 - 0:21:31
    • Women's Role in Early Christianity | 0:29:48 - 0:31:34
    • Female Theologians and Power Dynamics | 0:35:56 - 0:37:39
    Resources -

    Connect with Christine Crawford

    Website - https://theholyshift.org/about/

    `Podcast - https://theholyshift.org/podcast/

    Resource link for E15-16 is live:

    https://www.charliehornescoaching.com/pod15/16

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    41 分
  • Faith Unplugged With The Holy Shift Show : Episode 15

    Faith Unplugged With The Holy Shift Show : Episode 15
    2024/09/28

    Exploring Spiritual Freedom with Christine Crawford Ready to step outside the confines of traditional religious thinking and embrace a more authentic, joyful connection with the divine? In this episode, Christine Crawford, host of The Holy Shift Show podcast, shares her journey of spiritual discovery and her commitment to creating a space where tough questions about faith, spirituality, and personal healing are welcomed. As Christine prepares for season three of her podcast, we discuss the critical need to challenge rigid, fundamentalist beliefs—especially those that have harmed women—and the importance of finding communities that support growth, inclusivity, and diverse perspectives. We delve into the difference between faith and institutional religion, the importance of letting go of old, limiting beliefs, and how a sense of childlike awe and wonder can transform your spiritual path. Christine also reflects on her experiences with ministry in challenging times and offers refreshing insights into love, marriage, and finding joy in everyday spirituality.

    Listen in to learn more : 0:00:00 - 0:02:00 | Meet Christine and Her Mission 0:10:00 - 0:12:00 | Stepping Outside Traditional Religious Structures 0:18:52 - 0:20:52 | Reevaluating Fundamentalist Teachings

    Resources -

    Connect with Christine Crawford

    Website - https://theholyshift.org/about/

    `Podcast - https://theholyshift.org/podcast/
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    39 分
  • Empathy & Resilience: Leadership Lessons from Mayor Mary Dennis + Free PDF Guide :Episode 14

    Empathy & Resilience: Leadership Lessons from Mayor Mary Dennis + Free PDF Guide :Episode 14
    2024/09/21
    Empathy & Resilience: Leadership Lessons from Mayor Mary Dennis In this powerful episode, Mayor Mary Dennis joins us to share her remarkable leadership journey, highlighting the resilience and empathy that have defined her career. From navigating personal losses to breaking barriers in leadership, Mayor Dennis offers invaluable lessons on overcoming adversity, staying grounded in your values, and leading with compassion. You’ll leave this episode feeling inspired, equipped with actionable insights on how to lead yourself and others through life’s toughest challenges, and with a deeper understanding of the transformative power of empathy in leadership. Grab your FREEBIE PDF Episode Interactive Guide & Link to Resources HERE: https://www.charliehornescoaching.com/pod14 Get a curated list of books and resources created just for YOU for this powerful episode HERE! Key Themes: Building resilience through adversity The power of empathy in leadership Maintaining emotional autonomy in difficult situations Leading with clarity, humility, and compassion Chapters & Timestamps [00:00:45] – Introduction: Meet Mayor Mary Dennis We open with an introduction to Mayor Dennis and her leadership background, highlighting her role as the first African American female mayor of Live Oak, Texas, and the incredible milestones she’s achieved through her work in public service. [00:05:20] – The Foundations of Resilience Mayor Dennis shares her deeply personal story of loss and the pivotal moment when her grandmother’s wisdom guided her through one of the hardest times in her life. She emphasizes the importance of choosing resilience in the face of adversity. Key Quote: “You can sit here and die, or you can get up and flap your wings.” (00:06:02) [00:12:35] – Emotional Boundaries: Protecting Your Mental Space In this segment, we dive into the topic of emotional boundaries. Mayor Dennis explains how setting firm boundaries can protect your emotional well-being, especially when faced with challenging people or situations. Key Quote: “You don’t get to pay rent in my head.” (00:15:14) [00:22:27] – Changing Your Perspective: Owning Your Reactions Mayor Dennis reminds us of the power of perspective in challenging times. While we may not be able to control external circumstances, we have complete control over how we react to them. Key Quote: “You can’t always change the situation, but you can change your attitude.” (00:22:27) [00:24:35] - The Power of Relationships Mayor Mary Dennis highlights the importance of relationships as the foundation for leadership. By building trust and empathy, true leaders create lasting, supportive connections. Key Quote: “Relationships are the heart of leadership. Without them, nothing else matters.” — 24:35 [00:28:45] – Leading Through Faith and Values Reflecting on her late husband’s words of wisdom, Mayor Dennis talks about the importance of faith in leadership. She shares how faith has been a guiding force in her life, helping her remain resilient even in the hardest times. Key Quote: “If your faith can’t help you during the hardest times, then your faith is no good.” (00:28:45) [00:38:10] – Taking Your Seat at the Table Mayor Dennis explains why being an active participant in decision-making spaces is crucial, especially for underrepresented groups. She encourages listeners to be proactive in seizing leadership opportunities and amplifying their voices. Key Quote: “If you’re not at the table, you’re on the menu.” (00:38:10) What You’ll Learn from This Episode The Power of Resilience: Discover how resilience can be a learned skill and how it can transform your leadership journey. The Role of Empathy in Leadership: Learn why empathy isn’t a soft skill, but a core strength for leaders who want to connect deeply with others and lead effectively. Emotional Intelligence and Boundaries: Mayor Dennis offers tools for establishing emotional boundaries and maintaining mental clarity in the face of external challenges. The Influence of Faith and Values: Faith plays a pivotal role in how Mayor Dennis leads, and she shows us how aligning with your core values can help you navigate tough times with grace. Key Takeaways for Leaders and Changemakers Resilience Through Adversity - Mayor Mary Dennis shares personal stories of overcoming loss and hardship, teaching us that true leadership requires emotional resilience and perseverance.Empathy as a Leadership Tool - Leaders must embrace empathy to understand and connect with those they serve. It’s not about being soft—it’s about being human.Embracing Conflict for Growth - Rather than avoiding conflict, great leaders use it as a tool for growth. Mayor Dennis shows us that it’s not about perfection; it’s about learning through tough conversations.The Importance of Using Your Voice - Whether at the table or in your community, using your voice is crucial. Leadership isn’t about waiting for ...
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    58 分