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In this episode of The Imperfect Prophet, I unpack how memory, emotion, and self-doubt collide. A trip to the Tower of London becomes the backdrop for a deeper reflection on why our memories sometimes feel slippery, why we question ourselves so quickly, and how cultural biases often make women doubt what they know to be true. I share a story about a “missing block,” the way the holiday season can stir up emotional fog, and why trusting your intuition is one of the greatest survival skills women have. This conversation is all about giving yourself permission to honor what you remember, even when the world wants to make you second-guess it.

Key Takeaways:

• Cultural bias affects how recollections are believed.
• Emotional memories are still valid memories.
• Intuition is a real and necessary navigation tool for women.

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I’m getting honest about the “holiday hostage situations” we slip into without noticing: the obligations, the unspoken roles, the traditions that once felt sweet but now feel suffocating. I explore why it’s so easy to regress at family gatherings, how invisible contracts shape our choices, and why advocating for ourselves isn’t selfish- it’s sacred. This episode is an invitation to breathe, renegotiate, release what no longer fits, and create new traditions that honor the woman you’re becoming, not the girl you once were.

Key Takeaways:

• Renegotiate old traditions and release holiday obligations that drain your energy.
• Setting boundaries and asking better questions creates room for joy, not conflict.
• You are not responsible for managing anyone else’s emotions; your peace is a valid priority.

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In this episode, I’m unpacking the messy, tender, complicated truth about family- the stories we inherit, the wounds we carry, and the way time has a funny way of softening what once felt so sharp. I share how much of our family experience is shaped not by what’s said, but by everything we never talk about… the pauses, the assumptions, the myths we quietly accept as truth. And then sometimes, years later, in the most unexpected places- a cabin, a car ride, a holiday kitchen- we finally say the thing we avoided. And suddenly, healing becomes possible. This is a conversation about seeing old stories with new eyes, understanding the emotional layers we’ve been tiptoeing around, and discovering how connection grows when we stop pretending everything is fine and start speaking from the heart.

Key Takeaways:

• The unspoken parts of family life often shape us more deeply than the words themselves.
• Real healing begins when we finally express the feelings we’ve held for years.
• When we allow space for honest communication, even old wounds can find new light.

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In this episode, I’m talking about those “technicolor moments” that sneak up on us- the ones that remind us that magic doesn’t disappear just because life feels heavy. I share how easy it is to get so focused on the rain, the chaos, or the inconvenience of the moment that we stop looking for color altogether. But the truth is, the world can burst back into brightness in an instant… if we’re awake enough to notice. These moments aren’t always dramatic or obvious; sometimes they arrive quietly, gently, unexpectedly. And even when my mood isn’t cooperating or my plans are falling apart, I’m learning that magic doesn’t care- it's still there, waiting for me to lift my head long enough to see it.

Key Takeaways:

• Technicolor moments often arrive unannounced, and staying aware is the only way to catch them when they do.
• Focusing on the “storm” can make us miss the beauty unfolding right beside us.
• Magic shows up regardless of your mood- perspective is what transforms it into something you can feel.

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In this episode, I reflect on how music, identity, and energy shape the spaces I choose to step into — and the ones I step right out of. I share how paying attention to my preferences, especially the ones rooted in those intense high school soundtrack years, helps me understand who I am now and where my energy actually belongs. Being the “oldest bitch on the bus” isn’t about age — it’s about awareness. It’s about honoring what fills me, noticing what drains me, and choosing social spaces that align with the version of myself I’m intentionally building. When we listen to those internal nudges, we move through the world with more clarity, less chaos, and a whole lot more self-respect.

Key Takeaways:

• Your preferences- musical and otherwise- are powerful clues about where your energy thrives.
• Awareness helps you choose environments that align with who you are today, not who you used to be.
• You don’t need to force yourself into spaces that feel out of sync- honoring your energy is a form of self-respect.

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In this conversation, I’m owning the truth that being human is not a flaw- it’s the pathway into deeper wonder. I talk honestly about the off days, the messy days, the days where my light feels dimmer than I’d like… and how those moments don’t mean I’ve failed or fallen behind. The life we are building together isn’t about perfection- it’s about being awake to the full range of our experience, even when it’s uncomfortable or inconvenient. Pretending we’re “all good” isn’t presence- it’s performance. And sometimes the most wonderful thing we can do is allow ourselves to be seen in the in-between- because wonder is what happens when we notice the shadow and remember there is still light.

Key Takeaways:

• You are allowed to have off days, and those days do not decrease your worth, your progress, or your potential.
• Emotional honesty is more powerful than pretending — presence is where resilience grows.
• When we let ourselves be seen in the in-between, we create space for deeper wonder, deeper connection, and deeper self-acceptance.

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If you’ve ever caught yourself waiting for happiness to “arrive,” this episode is your gentle wake-up call. I share the real-life lessons I learned from yoga classes, hospital stays, and even a few spontaneous singalongs in thrift stores that taught me joy is a choice, not a destination. Through gratitude, humor, and a little midlife wisdom, I’ve learned that happiness doesn’t come from perfect timing or perfect circumstances- it comes from how you show up for your own life, even when it’s messy. So let’s explore how to find joy in the ordinary, gratitude in the chaos, and light in places you might have overlooked.

Key Takeaways:

• Happiness isn’t something we finally reach; it’s the mindset we choose to carry with us, no matter where we are on our journey.
• Gratitude has the power to shift even the toughest moments, helping us see beauty and joy right in the middle of life’s chaos.

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This week, I’m lighting a candle for all the people and stories that shaped me, the parents I’ve said goodbye to, the friends I’ve held close at life’s edge, and even the dreams I had to gently release. I didn’t always understand that letting go could be an act of love, or that remembrance could feel like celebration. But over time, I’ve learned that the sacred work of midlife isn’t about holding everything together- it’s about learning when to open your hands.

Key Takeaways:

• Letting go isn’t the end of love- it’s one of its deepest expressions.
• Small rituals, like lighting a candle or sharing a story, can bridge the space between loss and gratitude.
• Remembering the people who shaped us helps us live more intentionally, with grace and wonder for what still remains.

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