Don’t get this wrong. Good posture never goes out of style, yet many presenters struggle with it. Standing straight projects confidence, enables better breath control, and conveys energy. However, the presenting environment often tempts us into poor habits. Even seasoned performers—actors and singers—struggle with posture during award acceptance speeches. Instead of standing tall, they hunch over microphones, giving audiences an unflattering view of their bowed heads. These professionals, familiar with microphone technology, should excel at its use but often fail to adapt to the setup.

As a presenter, you can avoid this by preparing beforehand. Test the microphone to ensure it suits your needs, and request alternatives like a handheld or lavaliere mic if necessary. If caught off guard, don’t hesitate to remove the microphone from its stand or lift the entire stand to bring the mic to your level. The key is to take control of the tech, not let it dictate your posture or delivery.

Podiums are another culprit behind poor posture. Many speakers clutch the podium for balance or as a substitute for gestures, especially if unsure what to do with their hands. This restricts movement and leaves the speaker hunched over, further diminishing their presence. Instead, step slightly back from the podium so the temptation to go for the grip is eliminated, stand tall, and use a slide clicker to navigate your presentation. Free from the restrictions of the physical podium, your gestures can enhance your words and engage the audience.

If you must use a podium for notes or as a laptop stand, maintain good posture by standing upright and away from the podium’s edge. I often rotate the podium toward me, so that I can easily see my laptop screen, as I stand to the side. This prevents reliance on the podium for support and keeps my hands free for natural gestures.

Good posture marks a professional who commands their environment, tech, and presentation space. By addressing these physical and technical challenges, you can focus entirely on engaging your audience—our ultimate goal.

Nemawashi, translates to “groundwork” and is rooted in the practice of moving large trees. This intricate process—preparing roots, wrapping them, and relocating the tree—serves as a metaphor for meticulous preparation before decisions in business. In Japan, decisions are typically made before meetings, with the gathering itself serving as a formality to approve prior agreements. The groundwork involves engaging stakeholders individually, securing their buy-in, and addressing potential concerns.

In contrast, Western decision-making often occurs during meetings, with open discussions and debates leading to a consensus. This cultural difference means that to influence outcomes in Japan, preparation must begin early, before formal discussions occur. Whether dealing with internal teams or external clients, success depends on influencing decision-makers ahead of time. When working with a client, for example, your internal champion becomes pivotal. They must persuade decision-makers using data, testimonials, and evidence you provide, ensuring the groundwork is solid. Neglecting this preparation risks losing control of the decision-making process.

Nemawashi also involves understanding the dynamics within the meeting. Others may push their agendas, so your champion needs a clear strategy. Identify meeting participants, anticipate their concerns, and craft tailored approaches to win them over. Preparation should include counterarguments for opposing perspectives, ensuring your champion can effectively advocate for your preferred outcome.

While nemawashi doesn’t guarantee success, it maximizes your chances. Poor preparation often leads to unfavourable decisions. By embracing nemawashi, you can position yourself strategically, influencing outcomes in alignment with Japanese decision-making norms. This approach not only enhances your chances of success but also helps you navigate complex organizational dynamics more effectively.

Don’t be delusional. Do you consider yourself moody? Perhaps not, but as a boss, your team may perceive you differently. Employees are keenly attuned to your every movement, tone, body language and expression, constantly evaluating your mood to gauge whether it's a good time to approach you with work-related matters. Your ability to mask emotions or maintain equilibrium amidst challenges significantly influences the workplace atmosphere.

As the leader, your mood sets the tone for the day. A positive attitude can uplift the team, while a negative one can drag them down. The challenge lies in maintaining this positivity consistently, regardless of personal troubles or external factors like the weather or how you are feeling. Leaders must avoid expressing judgments about uncontrollable elements, like a rainy day or a sunny morning, which might signal to others that emotions can be swayed by such minor elements.

Beyond weather, procrastination is another mood indicator leaders should watch. When faced with daunting or unpleasant tasks, it’s easy to divert attention elsewhere—emails, calls, or minor administrivia—rather than tackle the priority head-on. This avoidance can diminish motivation and affect the team’s perception of your leadership. Similarly, setbacks like low revenues, missed deadlines or subpar performance from team members can derail your positive mindset. However, as a leader, you cannot blow your stack. You need to respond very carefully and thoughtfully.

Effective leadership demands discipline and emotional control. It’s about engaging both intellect and empathy to guide decisions and maintain team morale, even under pressure. Leaders cannot indulge in visible frustration or unchecked emotion. Instead, they must project confidence and resilience, serving as a stabilizing force for the team. While perfection is unattainable, the image of a steady and composed leader is crucial.

Ultimately, being a “sunny boss” isn’t about feigned cheerfulness but about demonstrating consistent emotional stability. Leaders must resist letting external factors or internal fears dictate their behavior. By cultivating self-discipline, they can positively influence their team’s mood and productivity, ensuring the workplace remains a place of progress and collaboration, no matter the challenges.

Stop wrecking your presentations. When delivering talks, many speakers separate their personal identities from the content, focusing solely on facts, data, and evidence. This approach, often favored by technical individuals, misses the opportunity to create deeper engagement with the audience. As an introvert, I understand the hesitation to share personal stories. However, keeping oneself out of the narrative is a significant mistake. Injecting personal experiences and insights into a presentation transforms it from theoretical to practical, resonating more deeply with the audience.

Audiences crave authenticity and reality. Like seeking honest consumer product reviews, they value real-life stories that reflect genuine experiences. Personal anecdotes not only enhance our credibility but also foster a stronger bond with listeners. Sharing struggles, mistakes, and lessons learned, even when they don’t portray us in a perfect light, builds trust. Audiences find overly polished speakers unrelatable and prefer those who reveal their human side, including their flaws and vulnerabilities.

Self-deprecating humor is particularly effective in this context. For example, sales master Zig Ziglar shared humorous anecdotes about his early career struggles, which endeared him to his audience. Such humor, focused on the speaker’s own missteps rather than targeting others, is both relatable and disarming. It demonstrates humility and reinforces the authenticity of the speaker’s message.

It took me a long time to go from being a highly private person, reluctant to share personal stories, to embracing a more open approach in presentations. I discovered that audiences appreciated honesty and authenticity, resonating more strongly with talks that included my personal insights. This realization underscores the value of incorporating elements of oneself into public speaking. By doing so, we can create a genuine connection with their audience, increasing the acceptance and impact of our message.

Our presentation is not merely a delivery of facts; it is an opportunity to engage and connect. Sharing personal stories, struggles, and even humorous anecdotes helps bridge the gap between ourselves and the audience. This human touch makes the presentation more compelling and memorable, leaving a lasting impression that resonates far beyond the immediate event.

Salespeople are ignorant. When interacting with Japanese buyers, personality differences play a more critical role than cultural differences. Understanding personality styles can help improve communication and sales success. A two-axis framework categorizes personality types: a horizontal axis measures from low assertion on the left across to high assertion on the right, and a vertical axis measuring people orientation at the top vs. outcome focus down below.

Bottom right, the Driver type is highly assertive and outcome-driven. Often business founders, they value results over relationships, preferring direct and efficient communication. They make decisions quickly and dislike time-wasting, and their decisiveness can be final. To engage Drivers, use high energy and provide concise, results-oriented arguments – no fluff allowed.

In the opposite diagonal, at top left is the Amiable. Low in assertiveness but highly people-focused. They prioritize relationships and team harmony. Amiables prefer a slower pace, avoiding conflict, and ensuring group consensus before making decisions. Communicating effectively with them involves lowering energy, soft voice and body language, emphasizing empathy, and building trust over time.

The Expressive in top right is assertive and people-oriented. They thrive on enthusiasm, big-picture ideas, and social interactions. Often found in sales, training or creative fields, Expressives dislike details and data, but enjoy vision and brainstorming. Engaging them requires matching their energy, discussing future possibilities, but don’t bog them down in the weeds.

In contrast, at opposite diagonal in the bottom left, the Analytical is low in assertiveness and focused on data, lots of data. Detail-oriented and logical, they value evidence, precision, proof, testimonials, and clarity. Common in technical roles, they require extensive proof before making decisions. To connect with them, bring detailed data, avoid emotional appeals, and give them time to process.

To maximize sales success in Japan, sellers must adapt their preferred communication style to that of each buyer's personality. Sticking to one’s natural style works for only one in four interactions, but tailoring communication ensures we can hit all the bases. Adjusting tone, energy, and message focus to align with these personality types—Driver, Amiable, Expressive, or Analytical—enhances engagement, connection and gets results.

Stop being weak. The beauty, weight loss, fashion, and entertainment industries inundate us with images of unattainable perfection, leaving many feeling inadequate—too tall, short, fat, thin, or unsuccessful. It’s easy to fall into the trap of wishing for better circumstances: wealthier parents, a better education, or a more favorable start in life. But wishing changes nothing; the past cannot be undone. While mistakes, poor choices, and misfortunes may weigh us down, the key is to stop dwelling on what lies behind us and channel that energy into moving forward.

To progress, we must act as our own first responder, rescuing ourselves. No external savior will arrive to lift us out of difficulty; we must create our own rescue plan. The first step is to free ourselves from the burdens of the past. Painful or unjust experiences may linger, but we can minimize their impact by mentally compartmentalizing them. Imagine sealing those memories in a transparent, impenetrable bulb, where they are visible, but cannot escape to contaminate today. Recalling the past but without allowing worry to dominate is crucial for breaking free.

Once liberated from the mental burdens of yesterday, we shift focus to today and our available strengths. The most valuable asset we possess is time. How we spend it determines our ability to create a better future. Viewing time as an asset opens the door to productive action. The process begins by crafting a clear vision of the life we want to lead. This vision should guide the creation of specific, realistic goals, broken down into actionable steps.

Every moment spent on these steps builds momentum, moving us closer to our desired future. By focusing solely on what is within our control today and dedicating our time wisely, we can transform our lives. This self-rescue costs nothing but a small fraction of our greatest resource—time.

The journey forward requires discipline, but it offers the freedom to shape a meaningful, empowered existence. Rather than wishing for different circumstances or dwelling on the past, taking intentional steps toward progress ensures growth and success. In reclaiming control over our time and actions, we break free from excuses, self-pity, limitations and create a pathway to fulfillment.

Some MCs are idiots. At a sports related event filled with free-flowing drinks, idle chatter, and hundreds of attendees, the presentations quickly unraveled into a comedy of errors. The MC, tasked with introducing the main speaker, faced an uninterested crowd more captivated by their own conversations than the proceedings on stage. In a desperate bid for attention, the MC resorted to shooshing the audience, first gently, then with exaggerated, strident authority, as if addressing unruly schoolchildren. This tactic only drew ridicule, amplifying the noise and making the atmosphere even more chaotic.

When the main speaker took the stage, the MC’s antics continued, with unhelpful interjections and more shooshing during the speech. Unfortunately, the speaker lacked the skills to command attention, their words drowned out by the persistent hum of more self interested conversations. Subsequent speakers fared no better, victims of an audience too engrossed in their own chatter to care. Blame could be assigned to the unengaging speakers, the audience's rudeness, or both, but such analysis is too generous. The free flow of alcohol played a pivotal role; once the drinks started, the audience's focus shifted entirely to themsleves.

In Japan, a different approach to similar events often yields better results. Alcohol is withheld until speeches are over, incentivizing discipline with the promise of a toast. While this method isn’t foolproof, it significantly reduces distractions, fostering a more attentive audience. However, the Japanese system also has its flaws, such as lengthy, monotonous speeches that can test even the most patient and thirsty listeners.

For speakers facing such booze heightened challenges, the key lies in preparation and technique. Successful presentations start with a powerful, concise message that engages the audience immediately. Asking interactive, thought-provoking questions tailored to the event’s theme—like rallying sports fans to cheer for their favorite teams—can channel the audience’s energy positively. Following this, a pause to capitalize on the crowd’s silence ensures full attention for an impactful opening. Maintaining interest requires a blend of storytelling, vivid imagery, and dynamic energy.

When addressing a noisy or distracted audience, a speaker must project energy levels exceeding the crowd’s, creating a commanding presence akin to a rock star’s performance. Amplified gestures, a powerful voice, and strategic engagement can cut through distractions. In contrast, uninspiring speeches and ineffective MCs, as in this event, doom speakers to be snubbed, ignored and completely forgotten. With proper techniques, a speaker can transform crowd chaos into an opportunity, standing out as a rare and skilled bolshie crowd wrangler.

Salespeople leave money on the table. The sales process doesn’t end with a signed agreement; delivery is the critical next step. Whether immediate or delayed, it’s often handled by someone other than the salesperson—usually agents, contractors, or back-office staff. Salespeople, meanwhile, quickly shift focus on new deals, leaving follow-up with buyers neglected. This is a common mistake that can cost opportunities and relationships. Instead, it is vital to schedule post-delivery meetings with buyers to ensure satisfaction, address issues, and explore further opportunities.

A post-delivery meeting allows salespeople to confirm the product or service met expectations, ensuring any issues are promptly resolved. In Japan, for instance, quick fixes are essential due to tight supply chain imperatives and high customer expectations. By being proactive, salespeople can prevent disruptions to the buyer’s operations and strengthen trust. Additionally, feedback reveals whether buyers remain sold on the product, setting the stage for reorders, cross-selling, or upselling.

Clients often test vendors with small initial orders before committing to larger ones. Passing these tests consistently builds confidence and increases order sizes over time. Moreover, follow-up meetings can uncover additional needs that weren’t disclosed initially. Market changes or deeper trust can reveal new opportunities. Salespeople who only prioritize new prospects risk missing these growth chances with existing clients.

A structured approach aids in maximizing account development. Using a matrix, salespeople list clients vertically and products horizontally, marking current supplies, high-probability opportunities, and less-likely possibilities. This visual tool often highlights overlooked opportunities. Expanding relationships requires the courage to ask simple questions like, “Are there other needs we could help with?” or seeking referrals by narrowing the context, e.g., “In your golf group, is there someone who might benefit from our solution?”

Make sure it is a focused referral request. Broad questions like “Do you know anyone?” overwhelm buyers, while specific contexts help them visualize candidates. For example, asking about their golf group narrows down candidates, yielding better responses.

Sales success isn’t just about closing new deals. It’s about leveraging existing relationships for deeper connections, additional sales, and high-quality referrals. Action steps include scheduling time with the buyer post-delivery, resolving issues swiftly, preparing a product-client matrix for further opportunities, and refining referral requests to maximize impact. Staying engaged post-sale transforms satisfied clients into repeat customers and valuable advocates.