Welcome to the Nacho Kids Podcast. In this episode, Lori sits down with our guest to delve into the intricate dynamics of blended families. Our guest shares poignant experiences from her life, starting with her father's remarriage and extending to her journey as a stepmother.

We explore the early stages of blending families, the delicate process of introducing her two children to her new husband, and the joys and challenges of family traditions. The guest opens up about the emotional turmoil and boundaries set with her stepdaughter and the tension caused by the stepdaughter's biological mother.

We'll also hear reflections on parenting after loss, navigating financial entanglements, and the significance of maintaining boundaries for personal growth. Tune in as we unpack the complexities of family, love, and resilience in this intimate discussion about building a cohesive family unit amidst life's ever-changing landscapes. Let's dive right in!

In this episode, we discuss:

• Emotional Turmoil and Stepdaughter's Relationship Progression
• Managing Social Media and Family Privacy
• Emotional and Logistical Complexities
• Parental Alienation

Nacho Kids testimonial:

"The Nacho Kids Method completely changed our blended family. By stepping back and letting my partner parent, I found peace and clarity. Our home is calmer, and I’ve built stronger relationships without the constant stress. It truly saved us!" - Sarah T.

Welcome back to NK Podcast Shared! In today's episode, Lori dives into the intricate world of step-parenting and maintaining a harmonious blended family. Join her as she chats with Jessica, a Licensed Professional Counselor Associate from North Texas, who shares her journey of being a full-time stepmom to a 10-year-old while navigating the complexities of a custody battle and fostering a positive co-parenting dynamic.

Jessica emphasizes the power of not taking things personally to reduce stress and negativity and the benefits of using Trust-Based Relationship Intervention (TBRI) to build trust and stability within her family. As she discusses the challenges and strategies involved in blending families, Jessica provides invaluable insights into maintaining a neutral role, fostering empathy, and creating lasting family rituals to strengthen bonds.

Tune in for practical advice on intentional parenting, self-awareness, and effective communication, all aimed at providing stability and joy in blended family dynamics. And of course, don’t miss the hosts’ light-hearted closing where they remind us, "Life is good when you nacho." Let's get started!

In this episode, we discuss:

• Not Taking Things Personally
• Trust-Based Relationship Intervention (TBRI)
• Supportive Partner in Stepparenting
• Self-work and Personal Healing
• Stepparent Boundaries and Support

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

"Joining Nacho Kids Academy was the best decision I’ve made for my stepfamily. I was overwhelmed, frustrated, and feeling like a complete outsider in my own home. I tried everything — and nothing seemed to work. The constant tension with my stepkids and even with my partner was taking a toll on me.

But when I found Nacho Kids Academy, everything changed.

Lori and David’s guidance helped me understand that I didn’t have to control everything. I learned to step back, take a breath, and let go of things that weren’t my responsibility. The method taught me how to respond instead of react, and I finally started to find peace in my role as a stepparent.

I’ve gone from feeling resentful and exhausted to calm, confident, and in control of my emotions. My relationship with my partner has improved drastically, and my home is no longer filled with constant conflict.

The support inside the academy has been a lifeline. The resources, Q&A calls, and community have made me feel seen and understood.

If you’re a stepparent struggling to find your place, stop searching — Nacho Kids Academy is what you need. It’s not just a method; it’s a life-changer." - Lucy R., Nacho Kids Academy Member

Welcome to another episode of NK Podcast Shared! In today’s engaging discussion, hosts Lori and David navigate the complexities of family life, from the challenges of gift-giving and planning unforgettable vacations to embodying integrity for their children. They dive into humorous yet heartfelt reflections on their kids' awareness (or lack thereof) around finances while considering gifting experiences over physical items. Lori and David also share personal anecdotes about their grandson, Giddy, and emphasize promoting honesty and respect for parents' wishes.

Tune in as they tackle the tricky dynamics of holiday preparation, setting family goals, and balancing work-life dynamics. Plus, get the scoop on upcoming events like the Nacho Kids meet and greet and retreats geared towards stepfamily coaching. With practical advice, light-hearted banter, and motivational insights, this episode promises to deliver strategies for reducing stress and fostering harmonious family relationships. Don’t miss out on this fun and insightful episode—let’s make this year the best one yet for your family!

In this episode we discuss:

• Gift-Giving and Past Expenditures
• Children's Awareness of Costs
• Modeling Integrity
• Family and Business Planning
• Measuring Improvement and Personal Development

Welcome to another captivating episode of NK Podcast Shared! In Episode 291, we sit down with Eliana, a seasoned stepmother of 11 years, to discuss the intricacies and emotional journey of step-parenting. Initially overwhelmed by cultural adjustments, language barriers, and the challenge of blending into a new family, Eliana shares how she navigated these obstacles with resilience and a heart full of empathy.

Our conversation dives deep into the importance of prioritizing the well-being of children, evolving perspectives on family dynamics, and the revolutionary "Nacho Method," which focuses on responding rather than reacting to maintain peace of mind. Lori, our host, explores with Eliana the common pitfalls in traditional upbringing practices, the necessity of self-awareness, and the powerful role of internal ownership of happiness.

Eliana candidly reflects on personal growth, the struggles and joys of being a stepparent, and how her relationship with her stepchildren has evolved over time. She also touches on the cultural contrasts she's experienced and how maintaining one's identity while adapting to new environments is crucial, especially in stepfamily dynamics. Join us for an enlightening discussion about the adaptive nature of parenting, self-discovery, and creating new family norms in a blended family.

In this episode we discuss:

• Self-Discovery and Shedding Societal Labels

• "Nacho" Parenting Concept

• Step-parenting Challenges

• Self-Awareness and Internal Focus

• Importance of Prioritizing Children's Well-Being

Nacho Kids Testimonial:

"I was always embarrassed by my dislike for my stepkids. Joining the Nacho Kids Academy, helped me realize why I had those feelings, helped me to understand the dynamics of the blend better and helped me have a happy life!! I will forever be grateful to the Nacho Kids method!"

Welcome to another captivating episode of NK Podcast Shared! Today we dive into episode NKP290 with our special guest, Kim Early. Join us as Kim shares her profound journey through the complexities of modern behavior, spiritual growth, and the challenging dynamics of blended families.

Kim brings her unique philosophy, advocating for the removal of polarizing concepts like right and wrong, and highlights the importance of personal choices and spiritual reckoning. Kim opens up about overcoming initial animosity towards her stepson's mother, revealing how she sought peace and enlightenment amidst conflict. She discusses shifting negative thinking patterns, the essence of self-love, setting healthy boundaries, and spreading kindness through community work.

We delve into the intricacies of family dynamics, from managing holiday schedules to the emotional strains of step-parenting. Kim shares her challenges and triumphs, including her experiences with strained relationships and maintaining positive energy. Don't miss this insightful conversation that promises to leave you inspired and contemplative. Let's jump right in!

In this episode, we discuss:

• Philosophy on Right/Wrong

• Mindset and Growth

• Boundaries and Self-Love

• Handling Social Media Conflicts

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

"I didn’t realize how much stress I was putting on myself trying to discipline my stepkids. Nachoing showed me that it’s okay to let the biological parent handle the parenting while I focus on being a positive influence. It’s been a huge relief, and I’ve noticed the kids respect me more now." ~ Mark L., Stepfather of 3

Welcome back to NK Podcast and we're excited to bring you Episode 289, featuring a deeply honest and emotional conversation with our special guest, West Coast Stepmom. She opens up about the complexities and challenges of navigating a blended family. In this episode, she shares her personal journey, from dealing with communication issues with her husband's ex-wife to the escalating tensions that have affected her marriage and step-parenting role. We dive into stepmom’s reflections on loyalty, boundaries, and the emotional toll of feeling like an outsider in her own home. Lori, our insightful host, guides us through conversations about managing expectations, seeking personal growth, and the societal norms that impact stepfamilies today. Whether you're part of a blended family or interested in the dynamics of modern relationships, this episode promises to deliver heartfelt insights and practical wisdom. Tune in as we explore the balancing act between love, parenting, and maintaining one's sense of self amidst family upheaval.

In this episode, we discuss:

• Boundary Setting

• Respecting the Ex's Role

• Step-Parenting Roles

• Managing Societal Expectations

• Coping with Accusations

Nacho Kids Academy Success Story:

"The Nacho Kids method saved my sanity! I used to think I had to be a 'supermom' to my stepkids, but it only led to stress and resentment. Nachoing taught me how to step back and focus on being a supportive partner. The change in my household is incredible—we’re finally at peace." ~ Sarah M., Stepmom of 3

Welcome to another insightful episode of NK Podcast, where we dive into navigating the complex dynamics of stepfamilies during the holiday season. In this episode, Lori sits down with Claudette Chenover, a seasoned stepmom coach, to discuss the common challenges and emotional hurdles that come with gift-giving and family traditions in blended families. Claudette shares personal anecdotes, including a poignant moment when her sister’s exclusionary gift-giving upset her stepdaughters. They talk about the importance of fairness, managing expectations, and how thoughtful, handmade gifts often create lasting memories. You'll hear practical tips on budgeting, balancing family dynamics, and embracing experiences over material gifts to foster connection and joy. Whether you’re shopping for gifts or planning festive activities, this episode offers invaluable advice to ensure your holiday season is filled with warmth and togetherness without the stress. Tune in as we delve into creating meaningful family experiences and keeping the holiday spirit alive in every member of your blended family.

In this episode we discuss:

• Navigating Holidays as a Stepfamily
• Stepparent Dynamics and Gift Challenges
• Establishing Family Traditions in Blended Families
• Gift Expectations
• Fairness

Nacho Kids Nacho Parenting Success Story:

“A Fresh Start for Our Blended Family”
"We were struggling to blend our families and felt like we were failing as a couple. Nacho Kids Academy gave us practical tools to manage our roles, communicate better, and reduce the stress in our home. Now, we feel like we’re finally thriving as a team."
— David and Lauren P., Married 4 years