Are you struggling to balance motherhood and career aspirations? You’re not alone. In this emotionally charged episode, we sit down with childbirth educator and doula, Hannah Gill, to unpack the deep identity shifts moms face. From grappling with mom guilt to redefining success, Hannah’s story speaks to anyone who has felt torn between being present for their children and pursuing their own passions.

Together, we explore:

• The unspoken pressures moms face as they try to “do it all.”
• How unresolved childhood dynamics and birth trauma influence our adult decisions.
• Why compassionate self-reflection is key to overcoming internal conflicts.

Hannah also shares her journey from experiencing a traumatic C-section to transforming that pain into a meaningful career helping other women. Her vulnerability will leave you inspired to navigate your own struggles with grace.

Today, we find out: 🌟 Why balancing motherhood and career feels so overwhelming 🍼 How birth experiences can shape our identity 💔 What happens when we prioritize everyone but ourselves 💡 Practical ways to reconnect with your true self

Whether you’re a mother wrestling with mom guilt, a dad seeking to understand your partner better, or someone navigating your own identity shift, this episode offers a wealth of insights. — Hannah Gill

Hannah Gill is a childbirth educator, doula, and passionate advocate for empowering women through informed birth choices. Based in Indiana, she specializes in supporting women pursuing vaginal births after cesareans (VBACs) and helping them reclaim their sense of agency during the birthing process. Through her work, podcast, and educational resources, Hannah inspires women to trust their inner strength and make confident, informed decisions.

Website: https://thehannahgill.com Free First 3 Steps to VBAC Guide: https://thehannahgill.com/firststeps VBAC Guide for Doulas: https://thehannahgill.com/newdoulatips Self-study version of my program VBAC Is Your Birth Right: https://thehannahgill.com/course Motherhood Flow Podcast: https://thehannahgill.com/podcast

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Learn more about motherhood psychology by listening to Episode 1 on Matrescence and fatherhood psychology by listening to Episode 4 on Patrescence

FREE COURSE on MATRESCENCE: https://www.markellakaplani.com/videoseries --- Full Transcript HERE. --- 📩 Get in touch with me (Instagram @markella.kaplani; website; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review! Your support means the world! ---

Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com

Parenthood changes everything, doesn’t it? Suddenly, life revolves around the baby, and for many dads, it can feel like they’ve been pushed into the background. If you’ve ever felt sidelined, like the affection and attention you once shared with your partner has shifted entirely to the kids, this episode is for you. And moms, while this episode speaks directly to dads, it offers insights that benefit you just as much. Many women start to feel as though their husband is jealous of the baby or the kids but the truth lies elsewhere. By understanding what your partner might be feeling, you’ll discover ways to navigate these challenges together with empathy. Moms often feel overwhelmed and under-supported, and this episode will help you see how to bridge the gap, foster empathy, and reconnect as a team—without adding extra pressure to your already full plate.

👉 Today, we uncover: 💔 Why dads often feel invisible after baby 🌀 The resentment cycle that quietly builds in relationships 🛠 Tools to help dads reconnect with their partner and role ❤️ How small shifts create big changes in your connection Parenthood doesn’t have to mean drifting apart. Whether you’re a dad feeling unappreciated or a mom looking to better understand your partner’s perspective, this episode is packed with practical tips to bring you closer.

— Mentioned Resources 1. Couples’ Communication Checklist

2. Reconnect With Her CHALLENGE ALSO, learn more about men's psychology in parenthood [Episode on Patrescence] as well as moms' psychology [Episode 1 on Matrescence] --- Full Transcript HERE. --- 📩 Get in touch with me (Instagram @markella.kaplani; website; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review! Your support means the world! ---

Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com

Resentment can be a silent weight in many relationships, and for parents, it often feels intensified. In this episode, we dive into the roots of resentment in marriage, exploring how parenthood can uncover unresolved emotional wounds that surface when life becomes busier and more demanding. Whether it’s unspoken needs going unmet or feeling like one partner is carrying more of the load, resentment can subtly shift how we view each other and impact our closeness.

Today we find out why resentment builds, especially after having kids, and how it’s often a signal that something important needs attention. 🧠 More specifically, we take a look at:

• 💔 How resentment forms when life feels unbalanced
• 🔍 The surprising role old wounds play in current frustrations
• ❤️ Practical steps to address resentment and reconnect
• 💡 Ways to build a partnership that feels fulfilling and balanced

This conversation isn’t about blame. It’s about creating a more connected, compassionate partnership and breaking free from resentment’s cycle so you both feel supported. I hope you’ll join me!

— Mentioned Resources 1. Google: John and Julie Gottman - Relationship experts who research what makes a healthy relationship. 2. Couples’ Communication Checklist 3. Reconnect With Her CHALLENGE

ALSO,

Learn more about your psychology in fatherhood [Episode on Patrescence] as well as your partner’s [Episode 1 on Matrescence] --- Full Transcript HERE. --- 📩 Get in touch with me (Instagram @markella.kaplani; website; e-mail: info@markellakaplani.com) 🎧 Listen, share, and leave a review! Your support means the world! ---

Markella Kaplani, M.A. Clinical-Counseling Psychologist Parenthood & Relationship Coach www.markellakaplani.com