Episode #899

Ever feel like you’re walking on eggshells when your wife says she needs space? Should you pull her in closer or let her go? In this episode, Doug and his wife, Erin, dive into what’s really going on when women say they need space and the kind of response that makes a difference. Erin shares her perspective as a coach working with married women and offers insights on what women often actually want in these moments.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why “I need space” can mean different things depending on the situation
• The balance between respecting her boundaries and showing her she’s loved
• How to read your wife’s emotional cues (and when to pull her in close)
• The power of showing up with a calm, grounded presence in difficult moments

Doug and Erin’s conversation is a straightforward guide to navigating those sensitive situations with empathy, humor, and confidence. If you’re ready to better understand your wife and take real action, this episode is for you.

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Episode #898

Are you putting in the work to improve yourself, only to feel like your wife doesn’t notice the changes? You’re not alone. Many men experience this frustration, wondering why their efforts to be better partners go unacknowledged.

In this episode, Doug and Erin Holt dive into the reasons behind this disconnect. Erin shares insights from a woman’s perspective, highlighting the importance of communication, consistency, and focusing on what truly impacts your relationship.

You’ll learn how to recognize if your efforts are coming across clearly—or if you’re missing the mark. Erin also reveals why your wife might feel skeptical or even fearful when you start showing up differently and how you can reassure her through openness and consistency.

Tune in for practical steps you can take to make sure your partner feels your commitment. It's about showing up fully and keeping your energy, focus, and intentions clear.

In this episode, we cover:

• Why your wife might feel hesitant about your changes
• The importance of communicating your “why” behind personal growth
• How to avoid common pitfalls when trying to win back trust
• Practical ways to prove your commitment for the long term

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Episode #897

Are you and your partner feeling a disconnect in the bedroom? Many couples experience this, often without fully understanding why. In this episode, Erin joins me to dive into the deep differences in emotional and physical needs between men and women. We explore how these needs shape intimacy and connection in relationships and, most importantly, how recognizing and honoring those differences can bring you closer.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why men often feel connected through sex, while women generally seek connection before intimacy
• How cultural narratives can create misunderstandings about male sexuality
• The importance of emotional safety in a relationship and why it directly impacts your sex life
• Practical ways to "break the cycle" of trading needs for needs and start meeting each other's needs out of genuine love and respect
• How a supportive environment at home can foster more passion and deeper connection in the bedroom

Join us as we break down the real-life strategies for cultivating a fulfilling, intimate connection in marriage, and start seeing your relationship in a whole new light.

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Episode #896

Remember the last time we talked about imposter syndrome? Let’s dive back in for a deeper look.

In this revisited episode, we reconnect on the powerful topic of imposter syndrome, sharing new insights, stories, and tools to help you tackle self-doubt and start living as your true self. Even the most accomplished men deal with feeling “not good enough,” but these feelings don’t have to keep you from reaching your full potential.

We’ll discuss why imposter syndrome often returns at each new level of success and how having a community of supportive, like-minded men can make all the difference.

In this episode, we cover:

• Real ways imposter syndrome impacts success, family, and fulfillment
• Simple tools to track your “wins” and reclaim self-confidence
• Why a strong support network of men helps you stay grounded
• Actionable steps to quiet self-doubt and focus on progress

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Episode #895

Ever felt like arguments at home spiral out of control, leaving you and your wife feeling more like disconnected roommates? You're not alone—and it's time to revisit a powerful approach to break the cycle.

In this throwback episode, we’ll dive into how you can turn heated disagreements into opportunities to strengthen your relationship. I'll walk you through practical strategies to lead through conflict, so your wife feels truly heard, respected, and safe. You’ll discover how to transform tension into intimacy and reignite the passion you both want.

If you missed it the first time, now's the perfect chance to learn how to go from conflict to connection—and build a stronger, more intimate bond. Tune in!

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Episode #894

Have you ever been publicly embarrassed by your wife and felt powerless to stop it? It's not uncommon, but it's something you can change. This episode dives back into one of our most popular topics: how to handle public put-downs and turn those moments into opportunities for growth.

We’ll revisit why these situations happen and, more importantly, what you can do about it. You'll get refreshed on how to set boundaries effectively, address hurtful comments with confidence, and stop resentment from building in your marriage.

In this episode, you'll rediscover:

• Why public put-downs are more common than you think
• Proven strategies for calmly pulling your wife aside and setting clear boundaries
• How to distinguish between harmless jokes and damaging disrespect
• Tips for creating a more respectful and supportive marriage dynamic

It’s time to reclaim your voice and strengthen your marriage by setting the standard for how you deserve to be treated.

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Episode #893

Have you ever wondered if trust can truly be restored after infidelity? Whether it's an emotional or physical affair, the question of rebuilding trust is tough. Can a person who cheats ever change, or is the relationship doomed to repeat past mistakes?

In this episode, we revisit one of the most pressing topics—how to deal with difficult conversations, especially after infidelity. We discuss setting firm boundaries, recognizing when they’re crossed, and understanding the work both partners need to do to move forward. From owning your role in the relationship to ensuring your spouse takes responsibility, we get straight to the heart of the issue. If you're in the trenches of doubt and pain, listen in for actionable advice to help you make the right moves for yourself and your marriage.

Tune in to hear how to take massive action and turn this situation around.

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Episode #892

Have you ever thought, Why doesn’t my wife see how much I’ve changed? Even when you’ve done the work and made big improvements, it can feel like your efforts go unnoticed. That disconnect can leave you frustrated, questioning your progress, and unsure what to do next.

In this revisit episode, we dive back into the story of a successful businessman who seemingly has it all, yet feels completely unfulfilled. We revisit the powerful concept of shifting from being "pushed by pain" to "pulled by pleasure" and how it can transform your marriage and life.

In this episode, you’ll be reminded of:

• Why your external success may not reflect inner fulfillment
• How the "not enough" mindset keeps you stuck in your marriage
• The steps you can take to stop forcing change and start embracing it with ease
• The difference between living a life of force and one of power
• Journaling exercises to help reset your internal narrative

If you’ve been feeling like your efforts to improve your relationship aren’t being recognized, this episode will help you reframe your approach and take action.

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