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Understanding how the attachment style that you developed growing up, is impacting your relationships today, can be very helpful. But as the use of attachment theory in the relationship or dating scene is becoming more popular - so are the misconceptions and conceptualizations that pull us away from the actual experience. Meaning - we are theorizing a very embodied process…

In this episode, I want to bring you into your body and nervous system to understand the response behind what’s commonly called anxious or avoidant attachment. So we can bring more compassion to BOTH responses and embodied ways of loving on them. And I hope to bust some misconceptions about the holy grail of secure attachment.

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Check out these related episodes:
Ep163: Activating deeper trust with yourself, your partner, and life itself
Ep162: 3 ways your trauma shows up in relationships
Ep153: Understanding and practicing honesty
Ep147: Holding goodness in relationships

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When you live your life from a conditioned idea of right or wrong - the mind judges what’s happening as good or bad, and you react compulsively to it. On top of that, the ego mind is convinced it’s in charge of keeping us safe, figuring things out, and finding the right path to our healed, amazing life and relationship.

What gets lost in this exhausting approach is a sense of trust. You don’t trust yourself to move through what’s painful, your partner to show up for you or do what they said they would, or life to carry you where you need to go. With this sense of internal mistrust, you create more of the experience you least desire.

In this episode, I talk about trust and how to activate it to carry you through ups and downs in relationships and life. To feel the ocean of trust underneath the waves of everyday life.

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Check out these related episodes:
Ep84: The hidden structure behind mistrusting others
Ep66: Do you trust yourself to get the shifts you want?
Ep68: Affirmations of trust and ease
Ep154: Turn your relationship pain into your spiritual journey
Ep110: Making suffering your ally

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Most of us have trauma. Unprocessed emotional wounds. They show up in our relationships to BE processed, but they will look like a big problem unless we’re aware and have the tools to meet them. I truly believe that this is important work of our generation and lifetime.

That’s why, in this episode, I talk about three common ways that trauma shows up in our relationships, and how we can navigate them in a way that heals instead of re-enforcing the trauma, and all the beliefs and habits that come with it.

Join me in Alchemy where I teach you the four pillars to heal emotional wounds and shift reactive patterns

Get on the waitlist for Being Me for bonuses, early-bird perks, and resources on becoming your authentic self in relationships

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Check out these related episodes:
Ep142: How your reactive patterns keep you from becoming YOU
Ep161: “Am I tolerating someone’s bad behavior by working on myself?”
Ep137: 3 comforting truths about your relationship reactions
Ep134: 3 things to do when triggered in relationships

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