In episode 51, we kick off with exciting news about our upcoming one-year podcast celebration and a special contest to win three free coaching sessions worth $450! As we near episode 52, stay tuned for a special link in the show notes to enter the giveaway. This episode dives deep into the concept of 'simmering' in relationships—a technique to foster eroticism, especially in long-term partnerships. We discuss the importance of creating space for intimacy, the impact of emotional connection, and practical steps to enhance your love life. Join us as we explore how to nurture eros energy and make room for meaningful connection amidst the busyness of life.

Live from Jacksonville, Florida, we bring you episode number 50! In this special episode, we delve deeply into the nuances of spontaneous and responsive desire, sharing personal insights from our recent experiences and homework assignments. We discuss the emotional aspects of eroticism, the importance of self-acceptance, and how to create and sustain an erotic space within your relationship. Join us as we explore moving beyond goal-oriented sex to a more present, meaningful, and pleasurable erotic connection. Plus, stay tuned for a special announcement about our upcoming anniversary celebration in episode 52, where you could win free coaching sessions. Connect with us as we help you undress and revive the eroticism in your marriage.

In Episode 49, we discuss the intriguing topic of spontaneous and responsive sexual desire, starting with a candid conversation about our experiences. We explore how spontaneous desires can affect our emotional states and relationships, discuss the need for grace and understanding from responsive partners, and share insights on how to navigate these differences. Join us for an unscripted, heartfelt discussion aimed at deepening intimacy and connection in relationships as we approach our 52nd episode and one-year anniversary

This week, we're back with an insightful discussion on over-functioning and under-functioning in relationships, a topic we frequently encounter in our coaching work. We delve into how anxiety can drive us to over-do or avoid responsibilities in different aspects of life, such as health, finances, intimacy, and more. Sharing personal experiences from our marriage, we explore how these patterns not only affect relationships but also our own well-being. We discuss the importance of recognizing these behaviors and offer tips on how to manage and balance them. Join us as we provide valuable insights and tools to help you and your partner achieve a more harmonious relationship!

Join us for episode 47 where we have a lighthearted and fun Q&A session to test how well we really know each other. We dive into quirky traits, childhood dreams, and even some of our deepest and funniest marriage moments. Laugh with us as we reveal surprises and enjoy the playful side of our relationship. Whether it's guessing each other's career dreams or discussing who spends the most money, this episode will give you a peek into the inner workings of our marriage and hopefully inspire some fun conversations in your own relationships. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments!

In this episode, we delve into the concept of responsive desire, particularly focusing on the differences between responsive and spontaneous desire in relationships. Amy shares her insights from coaching sessions with clients, emphasizing that responsive desire is not a problem, but often perceived as one due to societal and cultural norms. We encourage listeners to understand their partners without using this information as ammunition against them. Throughout the episode, we highlight the importance of self-awareness, communication, and the acceptance of one's unique sexual desires to foster intimacy and eroticism in relationships. Using an analogy of learning to ride horses, we illustrate the process of integrating self-understanding with an intimate partner, emphasizing that building a thriving sexual relationship is a journey filled with learning and growth.

In this insightful episode, we delve into the importance of choosing relationships from a place of integrity rather than fear or external validation. We share personal stories and coaching experiences that highlight the difference between making choices based on true desires and acting out of anxiety or social pressure. We explore the stages of emotional maturity, the dangers of blind obedience, and the transformative power of owning your actions in fostering true intimacy. Tune in for practical advice and heartfelt conversations aimed at helping you build stronger, more authentic relationships.

In this episode, we discuss the concept of emotional bids and their impact on intimacy within relationships. We explore our own experiences with turning towards, turning away, and turning against these bids, and how it has affected our marriage. Through anecdotes and examples, including insights from relationship expert John Gottman, we delve into the importance of recognizing and responding to emotional bids to foster connection and intimacy. Additionally, we address the challenges of maintaining emotional connection in the digital age and share our journey towards healthier, more intimate relationships.