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  • E-lationships, the relationships of the 21st century
    2022/04/13

    In this episode we discuss the topic of online relationships. They're kind of like PenPals but more reliable than the postal service.

    Our tidbits this week is all about phone sex, cyber sex, VR sex. whatever the kids are doing these days.

    https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2022/feb/13/how-online-dating-has-changed-the-way-we-fall-in-love

    https://pairedlife.com/dating/online-relationships

    https://www.insidehook.com/article/sex-and-dating/can-you-fall-in-love-with-someones-voice

    https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org


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    1 時間 20 分
  • Asexual Spectrum Part 2
    2022/04/05

    In this episode we continue our discussion of the Asexual Spectrum and our TitBits this week is on Non-Sexual Intimacy.

    Referenced in this Episode:

    The Invisible Orientation By Julie Sondra Decker
    https://www.skyhorsepublishing.com/carrel-books/9781510700642/the-invisible-orientation/

    Temple Article
    https://news.temple.edu/news/2021-07-06/why-aromantic-and-asexual- people-belong-lgbtqia-community

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    42 分
  • Asexual Spectrum Part 1
    2022/03/28

    In this Episode we talk Ace and our TitBits this week is all about the Kink of Sensualism.

    Referenced in this Episode:

    The Invisible Orientation By Julie Sondra Decker
    https://www.skyhorsepublishing.com/carrel-books/9781510700642/the-invisible-orientation/

    Ace By Angela Chen
    https://www.angelachen.org/ace.html

    Absolutely No Thoughts Of Pounding During My Fun Day With This Kind T-Rex Because I'm Aromantic And Asexual And That's A Wonderfully Valid Way Of Proving Love Is Real By Chuck Tingle
    https://www.amazon.com/Absolutely-Thoughts-Pounding-Aromantic-Wonderfully-ebook/dp/B08WPQG6ZR

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    59 分
  • The Q/A Episode.
    2022/03/21

    In this episode of Valid Love, we answer some common questions and attempt to breath normally.

    Resources:
    50 shades of consent: https://www.hercampus.com/school/u-vic/50-shades-consent-intro-kink/
    Guide to Getting It On by Paul Joannides:
    https://www.amazon.com/Guide-Getting-Paul-Joannides/dp/188553504X/ref=sr_1_1?qid=1647836254&refinements=p_27%3APaul+Joannides&s=books&sr=1-1&text=Paul+Joannides

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    56 分
  • When love is Illegal: An interview with Sky.
    2022/03/14

    In this episode we are down one host but have a special guest from down under. 
    Leah is out sick this week as we are joined by Sky to talk about their love story. 

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    1 時間 17 分
  • ADHD and Relationships
    2022/03/07

    In this episode we talk to our special guest Carrie about ADHD and how it corresponds to relationships.

    Our TitBits this week is all about the big O, Orgasms. 

    Carrie's Resources:
    Scattered by Dr. Gabor Mate (Title: Scattered Minds for our Non-US listeners) https://drgabormate.com/book/scattered-minds/

    The ADHD Effect on Marriage by Melissa C. Orlov

    Married to Distraction by Edward Hallowell, Melissa C. Orlov, and Sue Hallowell

    ADDitudeMag
    https://www.additudemag.com/

    Referenced in this episode:

    Orgasm Statistics:
    https://pleasurebetter.com/orgasm-statistics/

    Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski

    OMGYES.com

    Thriving with Adult ADHD by Phil Boissiere








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    1 時間 29 分
  • Ethical Non-Monogamy
    2022/02/28

    We stand with Ukraine

    In this episode, we discuss an overview of Ethical Non-Monogamy.

    Reading referenced: Polysecure By Jessica Fern
    https://www.jessicafern.com

    TitBits: America is getting kinkier
     https://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/hot-kink-summer----lovehoney-and-kinsey-institute-r esearchers-discovered-americans-are-kinkier-301327893.html

    https://theconversation.com/polyamorous-relationships-under-severe-strain-during-the-pandemi c-154335
     




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    1 時間 10 分
  • Interracial Relationships: A Conversation With Sarah
    2022/02/21

    In this episode, we talk with Sarah about interracial relationships and her personal experience.  TitBits: Ethical Porn 

    Links referenced in this episode: 
    When asian women are harassed for marrying non asian men:
    https://www.thecut.com/2018/10/when-asian-women-are-harassed-for-marrying-non-asi an-men.html

    https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ethical-porn

    https://www.thebody.com/article/kink-managing-chronic-pain


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    1 時間 30 分