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Welcome to Season 2 of the "What Did We Say" podcast! In our much-anticipated premiere episode, titled "You Must Be Selfish," join the dynamic and faith-driven duo, Josh and Erica Adkins, as they delve into the thought-provoking realm of relationships.

In this enlightening episode, the Adkinses challenge conventional wisdom by exploring the concept of being selfish within the context of relationships. Contrary to common beliefs, they argue that self-care and self-focus are essential elements in fostering healthy and fulfilling connections, particularly within the framework of marriage.

Drawing inspiration from their own Christian values and personal experiences, Josh and Erica share candid insights on the importance of understanding and embracing one's own needs, desires, and aspirations. As they navigate through the complexities of modern relationships, the couple offers practical advice and timeless wisdom that transcends religious boundaries.

Tune in to "You Must Be Selfish" to discover how prioritizing self-love and self-care can ultimately enhance your connections with others. Get ready for an engaging conversation that challenges traditional perspectives, encourages personal growth, and inspires a renewed approach to building meaningful relationships. Don't miss this empowering episode that is sure to leave you reflecting on the true meaning of selflessness within the bonds of love and commitment.

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Shame plays off our natural hardwiring for connection. It has us mistakenly believe our flaws make us undeserving of acceptance and belonging, therefore driving us to feel not just alone, but helplessly isolated. And when we feel helpless, we often become reactive, seeking any kind of reprieve from such pain. We end up acting out in desperate ways that don’t feel like the real us. Ways that can add fuel to the shame fire. Simply put, when we feel shame, we feel awful. The good news? Most research suggests that shame is a universal experience (though different things feel shameful to different people). In other words, we’re ironically kind of all together in our feelings of unworthiness and fear of disconnection.

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