You might be thinking nothing comes before my children!  Hey, I get it.  Let's face it, most of us  would give up an arm if our kids needed it, right?  

But there is danger is making your children more important than your marriage.   And if you, like my husband and I, spent your time putting your kids before your marriage for most of their lives, the habit might be even harder to break as they get older. 

One of the major breakdowns in intimacy is putting your marriage secondary to your kids. They grow up and your stuck in bad habits and so are your kids. 

Your marriage is the foundation of your family.  When there are cracks in the foundation of your marriage, your kids, nearly grown or grown, will know it.  They may worry. They may take advantage of your misplaced priorities in stead of taking responsibility for themselves. And they might perpetuate this dynamic in their own families, following your example. 

We put our kids first over our marriages in a mirad of ways and many we aren't even aware of.  
In this episode, I'm give you some tell-tale signs you might be letting your kids take precedence over your marriage. You might be surprised at some of them.  Then I'll give you  4 steps to turn this around. 

Complete show notes can be found at http://reviveyourmidlifemarriage.com/83