"I cannot be somebody else, but I can always be a better me."

In this episode of Write Your Own Story, guest Felicia Li, Sourcing Manager at Delta Faucet Company, shares her courageous journey from China to the United States, overcoming language barriers, cultural differences, and personal challenges to carve out her own path to success. Felicia emphasizes the impact of self-acceptance, the importance of community support, and the necessity of embracing and celebrating our differences. Join us as we dive into Felicia's jaw-dropping journey, showcasing how authenticity and self-love can propel us toward becoming our best selves.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

1. Take time to explore and understand your true self, free from external expectations
2. Practice negotiation skills in low-stakes environments to build confidence
3. Implement self-care routines that cater to your mental, emotional, and physical health

Things to listen for:

[04:22] Felicia is a skilled negotiator who struggles with self-advocacy
[09:46] Becoming a certified nutrition coach and practicing self-awareness
[12:52] An inspiring story is told exceptionally well without notes
[14:48] Embracing diversity, resilience, and supporting others

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"Authentic confidence, which includes vulnerability and humility and courage, will net huge payoffs in your life and in your career.”

In this Write Your Own Story episode, Jessica Campbell joins us to share her inspiring resilience journey, from navigating a challenging childhood to becoming the VP of HR for Hays + Sons.

Jessica shares the importance of self-advocacy, the transformative influence of supportive relationships, and the value of embracing one's unique story. Additionally, her experience embodies the rise and thrive journey, showcasing the impact of authenticity and courage in personal and professional growth.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

1. Seek out mentors, friends, or family members who can serve as your 'earthbound angels,' providing guidance and strength during challenging times
2. Recognize that embracing your vulnerabilities and facing challenges head-on can lead to personal growth and empowerment
3. Embrace what makes you special and harness those qualities to make a positive impact in your personal and professional life

Things to listen for:

[06:24] When Jessica learned to love her own story
[09:06] Her complex relationship with addict mom, dad's struggle
[11:32] Jessica’s supportive and caring ally
[15:21] Jessica’s gratitude for the strong women who shaped her
[20:43] Authentic confidence leads to career success and happiness

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"I had been prioritizing my career over my friendships, over my hobbies, and over my self-care. And I needed a change."

In this Write Your Own Story episode, we are joined by Bianca Zenor, Chief Membership Officer at AVMA, who shares her powerful story of losing and finding herself amidst the high demands of a successful career.

Bianca shares the importance of zooming out to see the bigger picture, understanding one's 'why,' and breaking free from old patterns to lead a more authentic and balanced life. Through her story, the episode highlights the significance of prioritizing relationships and self-care, transforming personal challenges into opportunities for growth.

Discover how Bianca's twelve-week gift of time became the catalyst for a healthier, more connected life and a career aligned with her true values.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

1. Foster authentic human stories and connections to enhance retention and create deeper relationships
2. Don't be afraid to reevaluate your career and personal life whenever significant changes occur
3. Create a structured schedule that includes self-care activities, family time, and hobbies to prevent burnout and promote overall well-being

Things to listen for:

[03:32] Embrace imperfections, connect, build relationships, and encourage participation
[06:43] Laser focus caused misalignment, leading to departure
[12:36] How Bianca balanced work and caregiving for a sick child
[15:08] Balance a pursuit of success, music, and friendship
[19:51] Focus on new patterns and motivations

Connect with Rebecca:

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• (00:00) - WYOSBiancaZenorPodcast
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"I had to be vulnerable to be courageous... Returning to symbolism, I recently began exploring how birds fly. I learned that birds rely on instinct."

In this Write Your Own Story episode, Rebecca introduces Lucy Klym, Chief Strategy Officer for Opportunities for Positive Growth, and shares her powerful story of surviving domestic violence and reclaiming her life.

Lucy reveals the challenges and triumphs of leaving an abusive situation and the journey to discovering her own value and strength. Through her narrative, listeners will learn about the importance of vulnerability, the instinct to help others, and the necessity of building supportive communities. Rebecca also highlights the tools Lucy has created to aid those in similar situations and inspire personal growth and resilience.

Join us as we explore Lucy's transformation, the impact of her advocacy, and the vital message that everyone has value.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

1. Allow yourself to be vulnerable to foster deeper connections and aid in healing
2. Whether it's in the workplace, personal life, or within the community, stand up for your value and the value of those around you
3. Cultivate a support system of friends, family, or professional help that can uplift you when needed

Things to listen for:

[04:32] A summary of Lucy Klim
[07:25] Embracing change, vulnerability, and domestic violence healing
[11:06] Abuse led to isolation, fear, and protection
[15:09] Advocate, develop tools, and empower others' value
[17:41] OPG organization is award-winning, financially healthy, impactful

Connect with Rebecca:

https://linktr.ee/rebeccafleetwoodhessionauthor

• (00:00) - WYOSLucyKlymPodcast
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"Show up as your authentic self, and things will go smoother. You will be more confident in every way."

Welcome to the first episode of the Stand Tall in Your Story series, where we share stories celebrating women, humanity, vulnerability, humility, and courage.

In this episode, we are joined by Hannah Wiscaver, Human Resources Director at TrueScripts, to share her experience and the importance of being authentic. She talks about how showing up as your true self can lead to greater confidence and stronger connections with others, her experiences working at a clothing store during college, and why you should embrace uniqueness.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

1. Embrace who you truly are and bring that person into your work life to become more confident
2. Look beyond the surface and take the time to get to know people for who they truly are for meaningful connections and relationships to flourish
3. Take the initial seven seconds of meeting someone to accept and connect with them to foster strong relationships

Things to listen for:

[03:59] The 7-month rise and thrive experience inspires many

[06:29] Embracing authenticity inspires others

[10:28] Hannah dreamed of fashion

[15:47] Knowing customers leads to top sales success

[18:51] Embrace your uniqueness

Connect with Rebecca:

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"Rather than being polished like marbles, life and business should be embraced with the imperfections and complexities of a jigsaw puzzle, where every piece matters and fits together."

In this episode, Rebecca Fleetwood Hessian and host of the Choice Wisdom podcast Gayle Goodman dive into the evolving landscape of work, emphasizing the shift from fear-based management to nurturing environments that prioritize compassion, connection, and authenticity.

You’ll discover insights into the formation of the Badass Women's Council, the unique decision to start a business without a traditional strategy, and the profound themes in Rebecca's book, and the significant impact of the industrial revolution on our motivation and well-being.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

1. Take the initiative to connect with like-minded individuals in your field for invaluable advice, emotional support, and opportunities
2. Don’t be afraid to diverge from traditional strategies when starting your own business
3. In business communications, authenticity and human interaction are key

Things to listen for:
[08:00] Rebecca formed group for businesswomen, combating loneliness.
[13:19] Reflecting on success and embracing personal narrative
[15:41] Industrialization shifted human motivation from intrinsic to extrinsic
[20:21] Compassion, care, and connection are crucial in business
[23:58] Future work requires more human communication and conversations
[27:19] Executives need to speak authentically and transparently
[30:27] Solve meaningful problems
[34:25] Self-care is essential for caring for others
[35:36] Push clients to invest in themselves confidently

Connect with Rebecca:

https://linktr.ee/rebeccafleetwoodhessionauthor

• (00:00) - WYOSChoiceWisdomPodcast
• (00:10) - I D:

“In order to have the life you want, you need to be that person and you need to believe that life is possible for you.”

In this episode, Rebecca shares a simple and practical framework of three circles to uncover the life we want to have, the things we want to do, and ultimately, who we want to be.

Rebecca recounts how she recently leveraged this tool in a conversation with her son about his five-year plans to help him define and nurture the life he wants. Remember, it's not just about the action plans, but about connecting with the deepest desires within us.

So, here's your invitation: while your listening, grab a pen and paper and dive into your own journey of self-discovery. What life do you want to have? What are the actions needed to get there? And most importantly, who do you want to be?

In this episode, you’ll learn:

1. Proximity has more impact on your career than you realize
2. Find friends who will nurture and challenge you to achieve your ideal life
3. You need to believe that your ideal life is possible for you before you can achieve it

Things to listen for:

[03:37] Being specific about your ideal life

[07:11] The Have-Do-Be Framework

[09:24] How proximity helps you achieve your ideal life

[11:32] Why achieving your dreams doesn’t have to be hard

[13:38] Understanding and embodying your ideal self today

[17:01] Practicing the framework for your life

Connect with Rebecca:

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“If you only had two hours a day to work, what is the highest and best use of your value, relevance, and impact in that two hours?”

In this episode, Rebecca shares a powerful coaching session she had with a client who experienced profound adversity. The episode explores the importance of intentional presence in leadership, the long-term perspective in decision-making, and the value of self-awareness and regulating one's nervous system. Listen in to discover practical insights for achieving greater clarity, impact, and personal growth in your life and business.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

1. Explore how being fully present in your leadership role can positively impact your decision-making, communication, and overall effectiveness
2. Gain a deeper understanding of the value of taking a long-term view when making decisions in both life and business
3. Discover self-awareness's significance and understanding of your nervous system responses in navigating challenges and adversity

Things to listen for:

[09:11] Unveiling true self-awareness

[11:03] The journey towards self-awareness and human connection

[16:52] Mastering self-regulation to unleash the power of your nervous system

Resources:

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