• 131. Was Any Of It Real? Understanding The Confusion After A Life Saving Divorce

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131. Was Any Of It Real? Understanding The Confusion After A Life Saving Divorce

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  • In this episode, I tackle one of the most painful and confusing questions that often follows a life-saving divorce: Was any of it real?Was there any good? Was it all bad?I dive into the cognitive dissonance that makes it hard to reconcile the good moments with the harmful ones, why your brain held on to the good, and how trauma clarity can bring painful but necessary revelations.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:📍 Reality Fragmentation: Why your brain struggles to reconcile the good with the painful truth📍 Trauma Clarity: How gaining new language and understanding shifts your perspective📍 Attachment and Survival: Why you clung to the good moments, and how they might not have been as safe as they seemed📍 The Mask Is Off: Why they might seem different now, and what that actually means📍 The Power of Acceptance: How shifting from questioning them to focusing on yourself is the key to healing📍 Grief as a Path to Freedom: Mourning the illusion of who they were and reclaiming your own truthTakeaways & Next Steps:✔️ You are not crazy or alone in this experience. Your confusion is valid.✔️ Seeing them clearly now doesn’t erase the good, but it does change its meaning.✔️ You do not need to untangle their reality—your healing comes from reclaiming your own.✔️ Grief is the bridge to clarity and freedom—don’t rush it, but don’t fear it either.✔️ The good in your past relationship was created by YOU—and you can create even more goodness moving forward.________________________________________________________⁠⁠⁠Brainspotting Intensive; The Body Awakened⁠⁠⁠April 9-11 2025⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce 101 Self Paced Guide ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠to walk you through how to make the next right step for you, right now. Whether you are wondering what to do next, you are having a hard time accepting that this is your life now, or you are ready to take that next step forward in healing, this is for you. Each stage comes with a workbook and a bonus vidoe on tips to support your children through divorce as well.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check it out!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Intimacy Within Course⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- Want to learn how to create healthy intimacy within? To know what to look for in a future partner? Have you considered practicing the 7 levels of intimacy for yourself first? Check out my self paced course that walks you through each level if intimacy and helps you connect back towards YOU first.DATING FROM WITHIN WORKSHOP: TBAlearn how to date yourself, connect back towards YOU and love yourself FIRST! Click⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to register today!Here are some FREE resources from Amie you can check out⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Q&A⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠-⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The first Thursday of every month, come and ask Amie questions and get coached around your particular divorce as well as feel supported by others who are going through similar situations. You are NOT alone and women need women.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Body Love Class⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- Free workshop to help you love your body again after betrayalTake Healing To Next Level with my SIGNATURE PROGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Believing In You-⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ becoming more aware of your human brain and how its keeping you from being the chooser in your life. Amie's group coaching program is an incredible way to get coached by her as well as feel support from other women, and most importantly really start healing and creating the life you want. Next group starts in January. Sports fill fast so get yours today!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Register HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to work with Amie? For a consult click⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amie is also on the⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Choose To BE Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch the podcast on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and get episodes a day early!FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram- @amiewoolseyFacebook- @amiewoolsey.lifecoachTikTok- @amielifecoach
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In this episode, I tackle one of the most painful and confusing questions that often follows a life-saving divorce: Was any of it real?Was there any good? Was it all bad?I dive into the cognitive dissonance that makes it hard to reconcile the good moments with the harmful ones, why your brain held on to the good, and how trauma clarity can bring painful but necessary revelations.What You’ll Learn in This Episode:📍 Reality Fragmentation: Why your brain struggles to reconcile the good with the painful truth📍 Trauma Clarity: How gaining new language and understanding shifts your perspective📍 Attachment and Survival: Why you clung to the good moments, and how they might not have been as safe as they seemed📍 The Mask Is Off: Why they might seem different now, and what that actually means📍 The Power of Acceptance: How shifting from questioning them to focusing on yourself is the key to healing📍 Grief as a Path to Freedom: Mourning the illusion of who they were and reclaiming your own truthTakeaways & Next Steps:✔️ You are not crazy or alone in this experience. Your confusion is valid.✔️ Seeing them clearly now doesn’t erase the good, but it does change its meaning.✔️ You do not need to untangle their reality—your healing comes from reclaiming your own.✔️ Grief is the bridge to clarity and freedom—don’t rush it, but don’t fear it either.✔️ The good in your past relationship was created by YOU—and you can create even more goodness moving forward.________________________________________________________⁠⁠⁠Brainspotting Intensive; The Body Awakened⁠⁠⁠April 9-11 2025⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Divorce 101 Self Paced Guide ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠to walk you through how to make the next right step for you, right now. Whether you are wondering what to do next, you are having a hard time accepting that this is your life now, or you are ready to take that next step forward in healing, this is for you. Each stage comes with a workbook and a bonus vidoe on tips to support your children through divorce as well.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Check it out!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Intimacy Within Course⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- Want to learn how to create healthy intimacy within? To know what to look for in a future partner? Have you considered practicing the 7 levels of intimacy for yourself first? Check out my self paced course that walks you through each level if intimacy and helps you connect back towards YOU first.DATING FROM WITHIN WORKSHOP: TBAlearn how to date yourself, connect back towards YOU and love yourself FIRST! Click⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to register today!Here are some FREE resources from Amie you can check out⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Q&A⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠-⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The first Thursday of every month, come and ask Amie questions and get coached around your particular divorce as well as feel supported by others who are going through similar situations. You are NOT alone and women need women.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Body Love Class⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠- Free workshop to help you love your body again after betrayalTake Healing To Next Level with my SIGNATURE PROGRAM⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Believing In You-⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ becoming more aware of your human brain and how its keeping you from being the chooser in your life. Amie's group coaching program is an incredible way to get coached by her as well as feel support from other women, and most importantly really start healing and creating the life you want. Next group starts in January. Sports fill fast so get yours today!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Register HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to work with Amie? For a consult click⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amie is also on the⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Choose To BE Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch the podcast on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and get episodes a day early!FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIAInstagram- @amiewoolseyFacebook- @amiewoolsey.lifecoachTikTok- @amielifecoach
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