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  • S4 EP9: Revolutionizing The ‘Happily Ever After’
    2022/04/21

    Think of the happy ending in a storybook, where the prince and princess get married and live happily ever after. That is the concept that we have grown up with. But what if it didn’t always have to be like that? The ‘happily ever after’ concept is a common theme in marriage. It is the idea of a perfect marriage that will last forever. However, it is not always easy. Some people find themselves in a marriage that they are unhappy with, and some opt to end their marriage because of incompatibility. 

    In this episode, Kristel shares her experience in marriage and what a revolutionized happily ever after in marriage looks like. Additionally, Kristel shares her divorce story and what she has learned from it. Marriage is not a one-time event, but rather it is an ongoing commitment that requires work and effort to sustain. It requires you to continually learn about your partner as you also improve yourself. Moreover, relationships are not built on love; they are built on choice because everyday tough choices must be made for that relationship to last.

    Tune in!

    Her Playbook The Podcast will be taking a short hiatus and will be back soon. 

    KEY POINTS:

    [01:13] Episode introduction

    [01:45] Her Playbook The Podcast hiatus

    [02:06] What content to look out for from Kristel

    [04:17] Kristel’s weekly live on Instagram ‘What Do Men Really Want?’ Wednesdays

    [04:50] Revolutionizing the ‘happily ever after.’ 

    [05:08] The fairy tale concepts on which ‘happily ever after’ is based currently

    [05:14] #1 It’s magical

    [05:54] #2 It lasts forever

    [07:09] #3 There is only one way to have the happily ever after 

    [08:59] Her new perspective on marriage 

    [12:48] Kristel’s divorce and what she has learned from it 

    [16:38] The ABC method in a relationship and the steps involved 

    [16:57] #Step1 A-Attract 

    [18:44] Importance of the SYMBIS assessment 

    [20:13] #Step2 B-Become 

    [21:02] What ‘Becoming’ entails 

    [22:08] #Step3 C-Choose 

    [23:27] What to expect this season 

    [27:05] What it means to have power as a woman 

    [28:03] How to connect with Kristel 

    QUOTABLES:

    “Nothing lasts forever.” [05:56] 

    “A healthy relationship is a life that adds years to your life.” [17:50]

    “If you stop growing, you are going to kill the relationship cause you are dying in yourself.” [20:21] 

    “Whenever you feel like you know your partner like the back of your hand, you are in a dangerous place because that means you are comfortable, and it means you are not continuing to learn about that person, and you are not continuing to evolve as a person yourself.” [20:40] 

    Every day is a choice.” [22:09] 

     “Relationships are not built on love and butterflies; they are built on choice.” [22:29]

    LET’S CONNECT:

    Follow Kristel on Instagram - @kristelcdavid: instagram.com/kristelcdavid

    Subscribe to her YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCLy96L4X7KnuqStzoqYsTow

    Visit her website: kristeldavid.com

    HER PLAYBOOK PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:

    Access Kristel’s products/resources here: linktr.ee/kristelcdavid

    Get clear on who you are, what you want, and where you’re going with a deep dive intensive with Kristel: link.fgfunnels.com/widget/appointment/meetwithkd/intensive

    Catch the Vision Board Workshop Replay: kristeldavid.com/playretreat2021

    Be sure to join the HER Playbook Private Facebook Group to keep the conversations going, share your 2 cents, and stay up to date on all the value Kristel has to offer! - Join here: facebook.com/groups/1028818904241672

    HER Playbook is edited & managed by Lena Noureldin (lena.noureldin@gmail.com)

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    30 分
  • S4 EP8: Meditation Mindset
    2022/03/03
    Meditation is a powerful tool that can be used to transform your mindset. It enables you to focus on the present moment without worrying about the past or future. Notably, meditation helps achieve a positive mindset, which is essential to living a fulfilling life. In today’s episode, Kristel is joined by Mahima, a meditation coach and the founder of ‘The Mahima Mindset.’  Mahima shares her unique perspective of meditation and defines meditation as an act of self-love, self-care, and self-respect. She recommends a silent guided meditation without music for beginners. Additionally, Mahima shares her journey to meditation and self-love and what she learned from her first marriage. Focusing your energy on what is not right in your life leads to a victim mindset. She shares her childhood experience with her grandmother and how it changed her mindset from lack to abundance. Moreover, she shares actions required to transform your life. Tune in! KEY POINTS: [01:20] Guest Introduction [02:00] Mahima’s bio [04:45] Mahima’s meditation practice [08:38] Importance of meditation [11:22] Beginner’s guide to meditation [14:46] Mahima’s journey to self-love (meditation) [21:32] How to have a positive mindset amidst life challenges  [27:16] Questions that will help you shift from a victim mindset [36:30] Mahima’s childhood experience with her grandmother and what she learned. [39:26] Actions to take to transform your life [39:30] Step #1 Know your passion [39:54] Step #2 Invest in your passion [40:50] Step #3 Have a mission [41:17] Step #4 Start operating [48:16] How to connect with Mahima [54:07] Episode summary QUOTABLES: “Meditation is self-love.” [04:59] “We become that which we think  about most of the time.” [08:56] “If we want others to love us, we need to learn how to love ourselves.” [12:41] “Happiness is about who you are, not what you have.” [18:47] “If you understand who you really are, you can accomplish anything you set your heart and mind to.” [19:28] “What you think creates emotions inside of you.” [27:32] “Transformation is work, but being in a mess is work. Why not  do some work to get out of the mess.” [45:29] “The time between birth and death is unknown, so be wise and live each day as an extraordinary adventure.” [51:58] “You must slow down to speed up.” [52:48] EPISODE RESOURCES: Mahima Instagram - @mahimamindset: instagram.com/mahimamindset Facebook: facebook.com/mahimamindset YouTube: youtube.com/guidetoinnerpeace LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/mahimaklinge Website: themahimamindset.com Free Gift - 21 Day Meditation Challenge Connect to your inner power in minutes. Boost your ability to truly live a life filled with inner peace, love, integrity, and joy by mastering the art of meditation and integrating it into the heart of your daily life. https://ns314.isrefer.com/go/21dmc/kd/ LET’S CONNECT: Follow Kristel on Instagram - @kristelcdavid: instagram.com/kristelcdavid Subscribe to her YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCLy96L4X7KnuqStzoqYsTow Visit her website: kristeldavid.com HER PLAYBOOK PRODUCTS / RESOURCES: Access Kristel’s products / resources: linktr.ee/kristelcdavid Get clear on who you are, what you want, and where you're going with a deep dive intensive with Kristel: link.fgfunnels.com/widget/appointment/meetwithkd/intensive Catch the Vision Board Workshop Replay: kristeldavid.com/playretreat2021 Be sure to join the HER Playbook Private Facebook Group to keep the conversations going, share your 2 cents, and stay up to date on all the value Kristel has to offer! - Join here: facebook.com/groups/1028818904241672 HER Playbook is edited & managed by Lena Noureldin (lena.noureldin@gmail.com)
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    59 分
  • S4 EP7: The Go-Giver Marriage and Secrets To Lasting Love
    2022/02/24
    Understanding the secrets to having a happy marriage life is essential to the success of any marriage. It’s how you deal with the reality of marriage that sets in after the honeymoon phase that determines the success of that marriage.   In today’s episode, Kristel is joined by John David Mann, an award-winning author of the Go-Giver series of books, and Ana Gabriel Mann, a psychotherapist, coach, and co-author of The Go-Giver Marriage book. John and Ana share their insights on the secrets they have been using to have a successful marriage and what motivated them to author the ‘The Go-Giver Marriage’ book. Shifting your focus from yourself in a relationship and understanding how to support your partner is paramount for a healthy relationship. Appreciating the little things your partner does daily goes a long way in boosting their self-esteem and helping them become a better spouse. When dealing with your spouse’s opposite-sex friends, it’s crucial to consider the motive of their friendship without being insecure. Some opposite-sex friendships could be work-related or business-related and are essential in helping your spouse grow in their personal life. However, there should be boundaries set in those friendships. Ensuring you are growing at an individual level and becoming a better person each day will help your marriage grow also. You owe it to your partner to be the best partner you can be, and stagnating in individual growth translates to starving the marriage.   Tune in! KEY POINTS: [01:54] Guests Introduction [02:21] John Mann’s bio [03:08] Ana Mann’s bio [04:37] Foundational context of ‘The Go-Giver Marriage’ book [08:15] Ana’s input on the ‘The Go-Giver Marriage’ book [10:00] Effects of childhood wounds to the marriage [12:06] How to deal with childhood wounds [19:05] How to deal with opposite-sex friendships in relationships [23:27] Developmental model of couple’s therapy for a healthy relationship [32:20] Fixing a relationship that is growing apart [36:23] The secrets to building your spouse’s esteem [39:05] The ‘stay together or divorce’ question [42:03] The secret of being generous with yourself by ensuring that you grow [47:41] Why you should read ‘The Go-Giver Marriage’ book and the five secrets shared in the book [49:33] How to connect with Ana and John and the classes they offer [51:08] How to apply the five secrets to daily life [53:20] Episode summary QUOTABLES: “What you needed when you were a child, you still need today.” [09:09] “If you are looking for what they have done wrong, then you are not really looking for what they are doing  right.” [17:01] “Criticizing your spouse to her face is toxic; criticizing her to other people is even more toxic.” [21:42] “You are always either feeding the relationship or starving it.” [27:08] “The purpose of marriage is to give yourself to another person and in the process become your best self.” [38:53] “Your marriage is only going to be as strong as what you bring to it.” [42:13] “For the marriage to grow, both individuals have to grow.” [43:16] “You owe it to your partner to be the best you that you can be.” [43:53] “Love is a practice, something you have to do every day.” [49:01] “The really big changes in life are created by little things you do every day.” [51:25] EPISODE RESOURCES: Follow John on Instagram - @johndavidmann: instagram.com/johndavidmann Follow Ana on Instagram - @anagabrielmann: instagram.com/anagabrielmann Follow John on Twitter - @johndavidmann: twitter.com/johndavidmann Follow Ana on Twitter - @anagabrielmann1: twitter.com/anagabrielmann1 Follow John on Facebook: facebook.com/johndavidmann Follow Ana on Facebook: facebook.com/anagabrielmann  Follow John on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/johndavidmann The Go-Giver Marriage Book: johndavidmann.com/books/the-go-giver-marriage Website: johndavidmann.com Workshop: gogivermarriage.com/programs LET’S CONNECT: Follow Kristel on Instagram - @kristelcdavid: instagram.com/kristelcdavid Subscribe to her YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCLy96L4X7KnuqStzoqYsTow Visit her website: kristeldavid.com PRODUCTS / RESOURCES: Access Kristel’s products / resources: linktr.ee/kristelcdavid Get clear on who you are, what you want, and where you're going with a deep dive intensive with Kristel: link.fgfunnels.com/widget/appointment/meetwithkd/intensive Catch the Vision Board Workshop Replay: kristeldavid.com/playretreat2021 Be sure to join the HER Playbook Private Facebook Group to keep the conversations going, share your 2 cents, and stay up to date on all the value Kristel has to offer! - Join here: facebook.com/groups/1028818904241672 HER Playbook is edited & managed by Lena Noureldin (lena.noureldin@gmail.com)
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    56 分
  • S4 EP6: Transform Your Dating Life
    2022/02/17

    Having moved from a high school relationship directly into marriage, Kristel shares her experience as a married woman, the challenges she experienced, and some of the lessons she learned, which are essential to consider before dating. Kristel also shares what she wishes she knew before she started dating and how her experience as a married woman has changed her perspective on dating.

    In today’s episode, Barbara Santen, a dating coach, interviews Kristel on things to consider before dating. Kristel explains the importance of doing the inner work. It’s crucial to answer personal questions such as, who are you? What do you love? What childhood experiences could affect your dating life? Kristel shares a different perspective on dating, which focuses on working on oneself.

    KEY POINTS:

    [00:09] Episode introduction

    [01:35] Kristel’s dating life

    [04:19] Kristel’s bio

    [06:44] Understanding the ‘inside job’ in dating

    [07:23] When did Kristel start the inner work?

    [09:26] Important things to do before you start dating

    [11:31] Societal stereotypes

    [14:10] Understanding femininity. The art of soft confidence

    [19:18] The honeymoon phase time frame

    [24:12] How to know your partner's values and personality. The SYMBIS assessment

    [25:40] How to check for compatibility  

    [30:13] Kristel’s gift for the audience. The intimacy bundle

    QUOTABLES:

    “Falling in love is easy, but staying in love is an inside job.” [06:22]

    “Know yourself, love yourself, and fully be yourself before putting yourself on a dating app or going on a date.” [06:58]

    “Relationships are mirrors not meant to make you happy, but mold you into who you are.” [08:50]

    “The biggest part of the feminine is trust.” [15:32]

    “You cannot protect yourself from getting hurt if you want the relationship to work.” [15:58] 

    “In order for a relationship to work, you have to risk your whole heart.” [16:05]

    EPISODE RESOURCES:

    Barbara Santen

    Instagram - @barbara.santen: instagram.com/barbara.santen

    Facebook: facebook.com/datingcoachbarbarasanten

    YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCRUmdV-E2o5qLEzPuP0k2Hg

    Website: barbarasanten.com

    Secrets To Online Dating Show: magnetizeloveshow.com

    LET’S CONNECT:

    Follow Kristel on Instagram - @kristelcdavid: instagram.com/kristelcdavid

    Subscribe to her YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCLy96L4X7KnuqStzoqYsTow

    Visit her website: kristeldavid.com

    PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:

    Access Kristel’s products / resources: linktr.ee/kristelcdavid

    Get clear on who you are, what you want, and where you're going with a deep dive intensive with Kristel: link.fgfunnels.com/widget/appointment/meetwithkd/intensive

    Catch the Vision Board Workshop Replay: kristeldavid.com/playretreat2021

    Be sure to join the HER Playbook Private Facebook Group to keep the conversations going, share your 2 cents, and stay up to date on all the value Kristel has to offer! - Join here: facebook.com/groups/1028818904241672

    HER Playbook is edited & managed by Lena Noureldin (lena.noureldin@gmail.com)

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    32 分
  • S4 EP5: Living In Your Truth
    2022/02/10
    It can feel overwhelming when you’re trying to figure out how to make sense of your life and achieve your goals. A shift in perspective is the key to living in your truth and tapping into your inner power. When you start to live in your truth, you will feel more fulfilled in life because you will know what truly makes you happy and what is worth fighting for. Join another conversation of Her Playbook with Kristel, as she shares the lessons and transformations she experienced at a retreat that changed her entire life. Kristel also reveals how she learned of her grandmother’s passing, what transpired, and how it changed her perspective on life forever. Tune in as Kristel describes this retreat and experience as the most profound pivotal moment in her life. This episode will inspire you, enrich your life, and help you evolve to become a better version of yourself. KEY POINTS: [00:09] What you’re in for on today’s episode   [02:47] The law of the universe: What you put out is what you get back    [07:08] How our prayers and miracles get answered through people  [10:03] How Kristel found out about the Love Yourself Retreat in Sedona  [11:30] The solution you’re looking for is right in front of you  [14:18] When Kristel committed to the retreat and her aha moments [18:39] Why going to the retreat with her mom was so divine  [21:20] Breaking the blocks between parents and children   [23:13] Kristel and her mom’s experience when they received the news about her grandmother’s transition on their way to Sedona [29:31] The transformational experience and lessons from the retreat  [31:16] The profound power of breathwork and guided meditation in healing  [39:28] The deep reverence that Kristel received after healing that enabled her to show more appreciation and gratitude to others [41:33] How Kristel envisions her funeral and what she learned from the experience [43:59] Choosing your truth and living in your truth to create an impact  [45:16] Getting quiet to listen to your gut and your intuition  [46:01] About Kristel’s retreats and why she is committed to bringing them back   [46:45] Tapping into your identity, finding your freedom, and living in your truth [48:58] How to connect with Kristel and get support to connect with yourself QUOTABLES: “What you put out into the universe is what will come back to you.” “A miracle is a shift in perspective.” “By nature, when there is a problem in our life, the solution is always right in front of us; we just have to be willing to see it.” “The answers are not going to come to you if you’re not seeking.” “Always take the lessons and learn from them without regrets.” “When you seek God, you find yourself, and when you find yourself, you find your truth, and the truth sets you free.” “The best way to truly live is to contemplate your death. When you contemplate your death, you really see what matters.” “Life isn’t promised, and you don’t have forever to go chase your dreams or be that person you keep dreaming about being.” EPISODE RESOURCES: Love Yourself Retreat Host Donny Starkins - @donny_starkins: instagram.com/donny_starkins Breath WorkColter Smith - @coltersmith30: instagram.com/coltersmith30 LET’S CONNECT: Follow Kristel on Instagram - @kristelcdavid: instagram.com/kristelcdavid Subscribe to her YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCLy96L4X7KnuqStzoqYsTow Visit her website: kristeldavid.com PRODUCTS / RESOURCES: Access Kristel’s products / resources: linktr.ee/kristelcdavid Get clear on who you are, what you want, and where you're going with a deep dive intensive with Kristel: link.fgfunnels.com/widget/appointment/meetwithkd/intensive Catch the Vision Board Workshop Replay: kristeldavid.com/playretreat2021 Be sure to join the HER Playbook Private Facebook Group to keep the conversations going, share your 2 cents, and stay up to date on all the value Kristel has to offer! - Join here: facebook.com/groups/1028818904241672 HER Playbook is edited & managed by Lena Noureldin (lena.noureldin@gmail.com)
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    52 分
  • S4 EP4: Hey Sis, How Are You REALLY Doing?
    2022/01/31

    Many of us are going through the motions, showing up for work, holding down the house, doing all the things, but still left feeling stuck. You might even feel like you don't know what you're supposed to be doing right now. You may feel lost, empty, or unfulfilled and asking, what’s next?

    Embarking on a season of rebirth and continuing her own journey of discovering, Kristel dedicates this episode to checking in and reminding you that you are not alone. Tune in as she provides a safe place for you to reflect on how you are really doing, what’s calling you most right now, and what you can do about it today. 

    KEY POINTS:

    - What do you actually need right now?

    - Allow yourself to feel every emotion, but don’t live there

    - Why you need to stay open?

    - Are you living and speaking to yourself like you would a child?

    - Take inventory of your life, thoughts, and community

    - Is it possible to have ”both, and”?

    - What’s next?

    QUOTABLES:

    “Even when you don't have the answers and you don't have it all figured out, because I don't think you'll ever have it figured out, I just want to remind you that you're not alone.”

    “Allow yourself to just be honest and to just look at your life and say, it's okay to struggle. It's okay to not be where I want to be. It's okay to not be perfect. What can I do right now?”

    LET’S CONNECT:

    Follow Kristel on Instagram - @kristelcdavid: instagram.com/kristelcdavid

    Subscribe to her YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCLy96L4X7KnuqStzoqYsTow

    Visit her website: kristeldavid.com

    HER PLAYBOOK PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:

    Access Kristel’s products / resources: linktr.ee/kristelcdavid

    Apply for Season 5 of HER PLAYBOOK today: herplaybook.kristeldavid.com/applicationform

    Have questions before you are ready to commit to HER PLAYBOOK this season? Then let's chat on the phone today! Book a discovery call: link.fgfunnels.com/widget/appointment/meetwithkd/hpdiscovery

    Catch the Vision Board Workshop Replay: kristeldavid.com/playretreat2021

    Be sure to join the HER Playbook Private Facebook group to keep the conversations going, share your 2 cents, and stay up to date on all the value Kristel has to offer! - Join here: facebook.com/groups/1028818904241672

    HER Playbook is edited by Instapodcasts (visit at instapodcasts.com) 

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    52 分
  • S4 EP3: The Rebirth: Maiden To Mother
    2022/01/20
    So often we are looking for life to be just one side of the coin, trying to fit into prescribed boxes of being a mom or wife, waiting for the moment when we “arrive” and everything is in order. What many don’t realize though, especially mothers, is that killing parts of yourself and denying your purpose for others does not work and does not have to. 

    Tune in as Kristel shares her rebirth moment as she celebrated a friend’s blessing away ceremony. Tapping into the yin and yang of life, she realized why we don’t need to subscribe to “either, or” but need to find the harmony of honoring all parts of ourselves as a woman, mother, wife, and daughter. Listen in and throw away the boxes, creating your own guidelines for life. And share this! It is a conversation we as women need to be having.

    KEY POINTS:

    - What is a blessing away ceremony?

    - Why you need to acknowledge and grieve the death of your maiden

    - The importance of intention over mechanism

    - Kristel’s blessing away ceremony and rebirth 

    - The archetypes within every woman

    - Honoring your maiden after marriage and children

    - How to create “both, and” 

    - Embracing the yin and yang of life

    QUOTABLES:

    “If you close yourself off to “I'm a mom, I can't do that”, then there's going to be parts of you that will die and suffer.”

    “There's always going to be a low for the every high. And I think if you can learn to embrace this, you will enjoy your life because you will stop looking for tomorrow to fulfill you, and you'll find the beauty in today.”

    EPISODE RESOURCES:

    Ashley Deonne Butler - @ashleybankslife: instagram.com/ashleybankslife

    Amber Valdez - @iamambervaldez: instagram.com/iamambervaldez

    LET’S CONNECT:

    Follow Kristel on Instagram - @kristelcdavid: instagram.com/kristelcdavid

    Subscribe to her YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCLy96L4X7KnuqStzoqYsTow

    Visit her website: kristeldavid.com

    HER PLAYBOOK PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:

    Access Kristel’s products / resources: linktr.ee/kristelcdavid

    Apply for Season 5 of HER PLAYBOOK today: herplaybook.kristeldavid.com/applicationform

    Have questions before you are ready to commit to HER PLAYBOOK this season? Then let's chat on the phone today! Book a discovery call: link.fgfunnels.com/widget/appointment/meetwithkd/hpdiscovery

    Catch the Vision Board Workshop Replay: kristeldavid.com/playretreat2021

    Be sure to join the HER Playbook Private Facebook group to keep the conversations going, share your 2 cents, and stay up to date on all the value Kristel has to offer! - Join here: facebook.com/groups/1028818904241672

    HER Playbook is edited by Instapodcasts (visit at instapodcasts.com) 

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    43 分
  • S4 EP2: You Reap What You Sow
    2022/01/13

    The new year energy is still strong in Kristel and in this episode, she reflects on some of the lessons brewing in 2022. Listen in as she explains how our reality is based on our choices, so we must be present and see everything as it truly is - an opportunity. Speak life about yourself and examine what you want in 2022 and what price you are willing to pay.  

    So what seeds have you planted? Are you happy with the harvest you are reaping? If not, how are you going to change it? Tune in and learn how to shift your reality by shifting your thoughts, and therefore your actions, and in turn your results.

    KEY POINTS:

    - Why conscious effort starts with awareness

    - Do for one what you want to do for many

    - Everything is divine order

    - Our choices create our reality

    - How to slow down so you can speed up

    - Everything comes with a price - what’s yours?

    - Take responsibility for your results

    QUOTABLES:

    “It's not until you make the conscious awareness of wanting to bring something in, wanting to call something in, wanting to master something, that then you start calling in the opportunities to see what it is you need for that to happen.”

    LET’S CONNECT:

    Follow Kristel on Instagram - @kristelcdavid: instagram.com/kristelcdavid

    Subscribe to her YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCLy96L4X7KnuqStzoqYsTow

    Visit her website: kristeldavid.com

    HER PLAYBOOK PRODUCTS / RESOURCES:

    Access Kristel’s products / resources: linktr.ee/kristelcdavid

    Apply for Season 5 of HER PLAYBOOK today: herplaybook.kristeldavid.com/applicationform

    Have questions before you are ready to commit to HER PLAYBOOK this season? Then let's chat on the phone today! Book a discovery call: link.fgfunnels.com/widget/appointment/meetwithkd/hpdiscovery

    Catch the Vision Board Workshop Replay: kristeldavid.com/playretreat2021

    Be sure to join the HER Playbook Private Facebook group to keep the conversations going, share your 2 cents, and stay up to date on all the value Kristel has to offer! - Join here: facebook.com/groups/1028818904241672

    HER Playbook is edited by Instapodcasts (visit at instapodcasts.com) 

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    41 分