In this powerful episode of Hey Tabi, host Tabitha Westbrook, licensed trauma therapist and abuse expert, sits down with Dr. Andrew Bauman, founder and director of the Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma.

Dr. Bauman shares insights from his latest book, Safe Church, tackling the intersection of mental health, faith, and sexism in church culture. He opens up about his personal transformation—from battling his own sexist biases and pornography use as a pastor to becoming a leading advocate against church-based abuse.

Together, they explore:
✅ How Jesus' treatment of women should shape modern church practices
✅ The deep impact of church-based sexism and abuse on women
✅ Practical steps church leaders can take to create a safer, more inclusive environment
✅ Why men must do their own healing work to truly support women

🎙️ Don’t miss this insightful conversation on dismantling toxic church dynamics and building spaces where women’s voices are heard and honored.

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#SafeChurch #ChurchAbuse #WomenInTheChurch #DrAndrewBauman #FaithAndTrauma #HeyTabiPodcast

📖 Resources & More from Dr. Bauman:
🔗 Website & Books
🔗 Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma

📖 Grab Safe Church Here

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Welcome to Hey Tabi, the podcast where we talk about hard things out loud and explore the intersection of mental health and the Christian faith.

In this episode, we dive into the miracle of the mundane—those everyday moments that spark awe and wonder, even when life feels overwhelming. From practicing gratitude to noticing the little pockets of peace (think a quiet minute in a busy day or a stunning sunset), we’ll explore how these small gifts help us stay grounded, reduce anxiety, and reconnect with hope. If you’ve been feeling the weight of life’s challenges, this conversation is for you.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• Why mindfulness and gratitude can ease trauma and stress
• How to spot “mini miracles” in your daily routine
• Practical ways to keep track of the good—like journaling or “rocks of remembrance”
• Encouragement to embrace both big miracles and the smaller, no-less-powerful ones

#MiracleOfTheMundane #HeyTabiPodcast #MentalHealth #ChristianMentalHealth #TraumaTherapy #Mindfulness #SelfCare #EverydayMiracles

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Welcome to Hey Tabi! Many survivors and betrayed partners have been ambushed with what they were told was a therapeutic disclosure of their partner's problematic sexual behavior or addiction. What actually happened was not therapeutic, was not a full disclosure, and left the partner more traumatized.

In this episode, I sit down with Dan Drake, LMFT, CSAT-S, CPTT-S, CCPS-S, a leading expert in sex addiction recovery and therapeutic disclosure. We dive into what therapeutic disclosure should actually look like, especially for betrayed partners.

Topics we cover:
✅ What a structured therapeutic disclosure process SHOULD look like
✅ Common mistakes therapists and individuals make during disclosure
✅ The role of polygraphs in disclosure—helpful or harmful?
✅ Why waiting too long to disclose can create more trauma
✅ How betrayed partners can regain agency and safety
✅ The difference between addiction and abuse in relationships
✅ The impact of faith-based communities on disclosure and healing
✅ How disclosure affects relationship recovery vs. dissolution

This conversation is essential for betrayed partners, therapists, coaches, and anyone navigating the impact of sexual betrayal. If you’ve ever wondered how to heal after betrayal, this episode provides guidance, hope, and professional insights.

🔗 Resources Mentioned:
📖 Full Disclosure Series by Dan Drake & Dr. Janice Caudill
🌿 Banyan Therapy Group
🛠️ Kintsugi Recovery Partners

#BetrayalTrauma #TherapeuticDisclosure #SexAddiction #HealingFromBetrayal #MentalHealth #TraumaRecovery #ChristianCounseling #HeyTabiPodcast

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Join licensed trauma therapist Tabitha Westbrook as she dives deep into the topic of spiritual bypassing—the often overlooked yet harmful practice of using religious or spiritual concepts to sidestep genuine emotional pain. In this enlightening episode of Hey Tabi, we’ll uncover:

• What Spiritual Bypassing Is and why it undermines true healing
• Common Signs of spiritual bypassing in faith communities
• Negative Impacts on mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being
• Practical Steps to acknowledge pain, foster authentic relationships, and pursue genuine healing

If you’ve ever felt dismissed by phrases like “just pray it away” or struggled to reconcile your faith with emotional challenges, this episode is for you. Discover healthy ways to navigate your mental health within a Christian faith framework—no quick fixes, just real talk about healing and hope.

Helpful Links and More:

• Website & Blog: tabithawestbrook.com
• Therapy Practice (NC & TX): thejourneyandtheprocess.com
• Instagram:
  • @tabithathecounselor
  • @_tjatp
• Podcast Website: Hey Tabi on Buzzsprout

Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy. If you need help, please reach out to a licensed therapist in your area.

Keywords: Spiritual Bypassing, Mental Health, Christian Faith, Trauma Therapy, Emotional Healing, Authentic Community, Coping with Pain, Religious Trauma, Faith and Wellness, Hey Tabi Podcast

#SpiritualBypassing #MentalHealth #ChristianFaith #TraumaTherapy #EmotionalHealing #HeyTabiPodcast

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Join licensed trauma therapist Tabitha Westbrook as she breaks down the myths and realities of women’s sexual desires, intimacy challenges, and power dynamics within destructive relationships. In this episode of Hey Tabi, you’ll hear:

• Why Sexual Refusal Isn’t Punishment but a boundary-setting measure
• The Effects of Domestic Abuse and Coercive Control on marital intimacy
• Common Myths and Harmful Beliefs about women’s sexuality in faith contexts
• The Role of Self-Care and Respect in healthy intimacy
• Practical Steps toward emotional safety, healing, and rebuilding trust

By examining Christian faith through a lens of trauma-informed care, Tabitha offers a message of hope and empowerment for anyone navigating abuse and coercive control. Tune in for crucial insights on recognizing unhealthy patterns and fostering genuine, respectful connections.

Keywords: Sex and Power, Intimacy Issues, Christian Faith, Domestic Abuse, Coercive Control, Women’s Sexual Desires, Trauma Therapist, Marital Boundaries, Healthy Relationships, Hey Tabi Podcast

#SexualRefusal #DomesticAbuse #CoerciveControl #ChristianFaith #HeyTabi #Boundaries

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Get ready for a real and honest conversation with licensed trauma therapist Tabitha Westbrook, as she explores the root causes of people-pleasing and burnout—particularly among trauma survivors. In this episode of Hey Tabi, you’ll learn:

• Why We People-Please: Uncover how past trauma, cultural conditioning, and personal beliefs fuel the urge to put others first.
• The Burnout Connection: Understand how chronic self-sacrifice leads to physical, emotional, and spiritual exhaustion.
• Practical Boundaries & Self-Care: Discover tips for setting healthy limits, nurturing your well-being, and avoiding compassion fatigue.
• Faith & Mental Health: Hear how Christian faith intersects with mental health and learn empowering strategies to live more authentically.

Tune in to discover how you can break free from people-pleasing habits, prevent burnout, and regain balance in your life.

00:00 Introduction to Hey Tabby Podcast
00:35 Personal Journey: From People Pleaser to Assertive
03:43 Understanding Burnout and Its Effects
06:03 Strategies to Prevent Burnout and Build Boundaries
21:59 The Importance of Self-Care and Rest
29:24 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Keywords: People Pleasing, Burnout Prevention, Trauma Survivor, Mental Health, Self-Care, Boundaries, Christian Faith, Emotional Exhaustion, Personal Well-Being, Hey Tabi Podcast

#PeoplePleasing #BurnoutPrevention #SelfCare #HeyTabi #TraumaSurvivors #MentalHealth

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Welcome to the Hey Tabi podcast! In this episode, licensed trauma therapist Tabitha Westbrook and somatic body coach Shae discuss the profound impact of somatic touch and co-regulation in the journey of healing from trauma. They delve into topics around mental health, the importance of physical proximity with friends, and how to invite safe touch into your life. Learn about the significance of safety, compassion, and curiosity in somatic work, and discover tips for engaging in healthy physical connection, even if you’re just starting out. Whether you’re navigating trauma’s complexities or simply wish to deepen your friendships through physical co-regulation, this episode is packed with insights and practical advice. Join us for an enriching conversation that celebrates the body’s wisdom and the healing power of community.

Find Shae here: https://dwell-movement.showit.site/ & on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/dwell_movement/

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Welcome to Hey Tabi, the podcast where we say the hard things, out loud, with our actual lips. In this episode, host & licensed trauma therapist, Tabitha Westbrook, explores the transformative power of choosing a "Word of the Year" & creating vision boards to foster healing, hope, & intentionality.

Discover how these practices can help trauma survivors dream again, activate the Reticular Activating System (RAS) for growth, & shift from survival to thriving. Tabitha shares personal stories, practical tips, & reflective journaling prompts to guide you through finding your word and building a vision board that aligns with your faith and healing journey.

🔑 In This Episode, You'll Learn:

• How to choose a Word of the Year
• The science behind vision boards & how they reduce overwhelm & create clarity
• Steps to create a personalized vision board using simple tools or digital platforms
• Ways to incorporate hope & scripture into your planning for the year ahead.

✨ Highlights:

• “Choosing a Word of the Year can anchor your healing & growth.”
• “Vision boards activate your brain to notice opportunities & move toward them.”
• “This practice helps trauma survivors reconnect with their ability to hope & dream.”

💡 Plus: Download free journaling prompts to help you uncover your Word of the Year!

📖 Resources:
Grab the journaling prompts mentioned in this episode at TabithaWestbrook.com/HeyTabi.

🎧 Tune in now & take the first step toward a more intentional & hopeful year!

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