In today’s episode, we explore two powerful concepts that can help you move forward in life with more ease, clarity, and confidence.

First, we break down the Monkey Bar Analogy: So many of us are swinging from ring to ring in our lives, whether it’s through fitness, nutrition, work, or personal development. The effort is there — the workouts, the studying, the actions. But what often holds us back from real progress is not the actions themselves, but our failure to let go of the past. This episode dives into how progress requires more than just forceful action; it also requires self-awareness, mindset shifts, and letting go of outdated habits, limiting beliefs, or fears that keep us stuck.

Time is spent on the "swinging" but not on the necessary internal work. Without sharpening our tools, we can stay stuck on the same two rings for years. This is exactly what I coach in The Victory Vault, a 2-week program designed to help you create self-awareness and a clear plan to move forward with ease, grace, and joy. I’ll give you a sneak peek into this program, which is launching February 2nd, and why it’s so much more than just goal-setting. It’s about learning to shift, grow, and move seamlessly from one “ring” of life to the next. (And yes, it's still available for just $249!)

Next, we dive into Estrogen Dominance and why it’s a huge factor for many women in their 40s and 50s. I call this phase “The Circus” or the “Karen Years,” a time marked by high anxiety, weight gain, sleepless nights, water retention, and fatigue. One of the most frustrating parts is when bloodwork shows that everything is “normal,” but you don’t feel normal at all.

In this episode, I teach you how to assess your own bloodwork with just three key numbers: estradiol, estrone, and progesterone. I show you exactly how to calculate your ratio to better understand where you stand, and why this can make a huge difference in understanding your hormonal health.

For example, my ratio is 2.6, which aligns with feeling pretty amazing. But a client of mine had a ratio of 460, yet was told her hormones were “fine.” The reality is, if you’re feeling off, this might be a wake-up call for you to dig deeper and advocate for your health. And no, I’m not advocating jumping straight into HRT — we also talk about testing cortisol and stress levels as they impact your progesterone.

We also touch on why your bloodwork data is a goldmine of insight into your health — from insulin resistance to hormone balance. This isn’t about opinions or trends; it’s about data and making informed choices.

Lastly, if you’re feeling stuck in your progress or struggling with hormonal imbalance, The Victory Vault is for you. This program isn’t about surface-level goal setting; it’s a detailed dive into the exact steps you need to take to move forward in your endeavors with clarity, self-awareness, and action. Get the full details at www.yourvictoryvault.com, and join us for the next session starting February 2nd.

Topics covered in this episode:

• The Monkey Bar Analogy: How to let go and move forward in life
• The importance of self-awareness and mindset in progress
• What’s included in The Victory Vault 2-week program
• Understanding Estrogen Dominance and how it affects women
• How to assess your bloodwork for hormonal balance
• Why your health data can give you answers that standard “normal” ranges don’t

Links & Resources:

• The Victory Vault (starts February 2nd) → www.yourvictoryvault.com
• Hormonal Health Assessment Tool – A quick guide on how to assess estradiol, estrone, and progesterone ratios

Remember, progress isn’t just about action; it’s about letting go and moving forward with purpose. Tune in for the full breakdown and take actionable steps to shift your mindset and your health today!

Well that was 2024!

As we enter 2025 New Year Resolutions and setting goals is often dismissed as futile. I would disagree

It is good to pause and take stock of where we are at, what we want to achieve, what we need to do to achieve it and who we need to be to succeed.

On January 19 - February 1 I be coaching THE VICTORY VAULT -

This program is for anyone who is tired of setting goals they don’t truly believe they’ll achieve. It’s for individuals who are ready to stop spinning their wheels, stop making excuses, and start taking ownership of their results. Whether your goals are personal, professional, or health-related, The Victory Vault is designed for those who want clarity, accountability, and a no-nonsense approach to success.

Most people fail to achieve their goals not because they don’t want them badly enough but because they lack clarity and direction. They focus on doing what feels comfortable instead of what’s truly necessary. The Victory Vault fills that gap by providing a clear framework for structuring your goals, defining the standards and principles you’ll live by, and committing to actions that drive real change. It’s for people who recognize that to create different results, they need to show up differently—and are ready to do the work to make it happen.

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In this episode, I dive into how you can assess your own risk of insulin resistance with a simple calculation using standard bloodwork. Understanding this risk is a game-changer for your health and body composition, especially since signs like belly fat, water retention, and skin tags often go unnoticed or are misunderstood. I break down the science, explain what those signs really mean, and give you practical tools to take charge of your health.

We also chat about why consistency trumps perfection every time. Forget the stress of flawless execution—I share my personal strategy of using a daily success list instead of a traditional to-do list. It’s a simple mindset shift that can help you prioritize what truly matters and keep making progress, even on those chaotic days. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by goals or stuck in all-or-nothing thinking, this part is for you.

And don’t forget—my coaching programs kick off the second week of January! First up is Peak Week, the ultimate five-day reset for rapid weight loss and a fresh start. After that, we’ll roll into The Victory Vault, a two-week mindset and goal-setting powerhouse designed to help you crush your 2024 goals. Then, we finish strong with Protein Power, a 14-day protein challenge to help you hit your targets and feel amazing. Check out all the details at www.theshrinkshop.com and join us to start the year with purpose and momentum!

Lipoprotein Lipase (LPL): The Gatekeeper of Fat Storage

Lipoprotein lipase (LPL) is a key enzyme in your body’s fat metabolism system, often described as the "gatekeeper" of fat storage. Its primary job is to break down triglycerides—the fat molecules circulating in your blood—into smaller components that can be used as energy or stored in fat cells. Think of LPL as the enzyme that decides whether those extra calories are burned or padded onto your waistline. Unfortunately, as we hit midlife, LPL doesn’t always act in our favor, especially when hormonal changes, stress, and lifestyle habits come into play.

In midlife, LPL activity tends to shift, increasing in areas where fat storage is most stubborn—like the belly for men and the hips or thighs for women. This is partially driven by hormonal changes. For example, declining estrogen levels in women ramp up LPL activity in the abdominal area, making belly fat more pronounced after menopause. Similarly, in men, testosterone decline is linked to increased LPL activity, especially in visceral fat (the dangerous fat stored around your organs). This means your body becomes more efficient at storing fat exactly where you don’t want it.

LPL doesn’t work alone—it’s heavily influenced by insulin. When insulin levels are high (think after a carb-heavy meal), LPL in fat cells is activated, promoting fat storage. In contrast, LPL in muscle cells is suppressed, meaning fewer calories are used for energy. This is one reason why insulin resistance, which becomes more common with age, often leads to increased fat gain. The good news is that tweaking your diet—such as by lowering sugar and refined carb intake—can help regulate insulin and keep LPL in check.

Exercise also plays a critical role in modulating LPL activity. When you engage in physical activity, especially strength training or high-intensity exercise, LPL shifts its focus from fat storage to energy utilization. Muscle cells ramp up their LPL activity, pulling triglycerides from the bloodstream and using them as fuel. This is one of the key mechanisms behind the fat-burning benefits of exercise—and why staying active becomes even more critical in midlife to counteract age-related fat storage patterns.

Interestingly, the type of exercise you choose may influence where LPL exerts its effects. Resistance training, for instance, is particularly effective at boosting LPL activity in muscle tissue, helping you not only burn more fat but also preserve lean mass, which naturally declines with age. Cardio, on the other hand, can improve overall fat metabolism and insulin sensitivity, indirectly influencing LPL's behavior. Combining both approaches ensures you get the most balanced, fat-burning benefits.

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This topic is covered in Mastering Midlife an extensive program on the frustrations and solutions of midlife and beyond

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Discipline isn’t some magical personality trait reserved for the ultra-organized or the naturally driven. It’s simply the art of stacking tiny habits, one after another, over time. It’s about breaking down big, overwhelming goals into smaller, manageable actions. Want to eat healthier, work out more, or get better sleep? Instead of waiting for a “discipline” moment to appear, you start with something small: a five-minute workout, a veggie with lunch, a set bedtime. As these small actions become habits, they snowball into a routine, and before you know it, you're living the life you thought was reserved for the disciplined few. Discipline is just repetition, consistency, and slowly layering habits until they form your new norm.

Self-sabotage, on the other hand, isn’t some inherent flaw or weakness. It's not about being weak or lacking willpower; it’s about simply not doing the work. We often think of self-sabotage as a personal failing, but really, it's just about avoiding the effort required to follow through on what we know we need to do. The moment we start to face the truth—that the reason we're not seeing progress is because we’re skipping the necessary steps—it hits hard. It’s not glamorous to admit, but it’s powerful because it shifts the responsibility from some nebulous lack of “willpower” to our ability (or inability) to do the work. And the key to breaking this pattern is acknowledging that it's not about being perfect—it’s about being consistent with the small stuff.

When we face the hard truth that discipline is about building habits and that self-sabotage is simply neglecting the work, it can feel uncomfortable. But this discomfort is the gateway to progress. Once we stop making excuses and start taking the necessary actions, things start to click. That’s when progress feels effortless. The more we practice small actions, the more the habits stick, and eventually, the discipline becomes automatic. And, as the self-sabotage fades, we get closer to the results we’ve been chasing—whether it's a stronger body, a healthier mindset, or achieving any other goal. This isn't about perfection; it’s about getting better every day with a bit of work, and over time, the effort becomes second nature.

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Protein is a critical macronutrient that the body constantly uses but doesn’t store, making daily intake essential. It’s often associated with building muscle, but that’s far from its most important function. Protein is required for repairing tissues, producing enzymes and hormones, supporting the immune system, and maintaining overall cellular health. These tasks take priority over muscle building, so if you’re not eating enough protein, your body will use it for these essential functions first—leaving little to none for muscle growth.

A common mistake is assuming a small amount of protein is enough to meet all your body’s needs. It’s not. For protein to contribute to muscle building, there must be enough to cover the body’s primary needs, with extra left over to support muscle repair and growth. Think of it like a budget: if you’re barely covering your necessities, there’s no room for extras. If building muscle or maintaining lean mass is a goal, especially when you're active or dieting, a higher protein intake is non-negotiable.

For those over 40, the stakes are even higher. As we age, the body becomes less efficient at digesting and absorbing protein—a process known as anabolic resistance. This means you need more protein per meal to stimulate the same muscle-building response you got in your younger years. Doubling your protein intake at each meal is a smart strategy to counteract this decline and protect against age-related muscle loss, which is critical for strength, metabolism, and long-term health.

Ultimately, prioritizing protein isn’t just about hitting a number on your plate—it’s about giving your body what it needs to thrive. Whether your goal is building muscle, maintaining strength as you age, or simply feeling your best, don’t shortchange yourself by skimping on protein. It’s the foundation of a healthy, strong body at any age.

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So, you’ve just polished off the Thanksgiving feast, complete with all the carbs (hi, stuffing, mashed potatoes, and pie!) and maybe a glass—or three—of wine. It’s fine. You’re human. But now your body is dealing with a major blood sugar rollercoaster. Enter berberine—the supplement you didn’t know you needed.

Berberine is a natural compound found in plants like barberry, goldenseal, and Oregon grape root. It's been used for centuries in traditional Chinese and Ayurvedic medicine. But what makes it exciting for modern health? It’s known for its ability to regulate blood sugar, support metabolic health, and even promote gut health.

When you eat a high-carb, high-fat meal (like a Thanksgiving feast), your blood sugar can spike, making your body work extra hard to process it all. Berberine helps by:

1. Improving Insulin Sensitivity: It helps your body use insulin more effectively, so glucose is shuttled into your cells instead of hanging around in your bloodstream.
2. Reducing Sugar Absorption: It slows down the breakdown of carbs in your gut, leading to smaller blood sugar spikes.
3. Supporting Gut Health: Berberine has antimicrobial properties, which can help balance gut bacteria—an essential part of overall health.

Several studies have shown that berberine is comparable to metformin (a common diabetes medication) in improving blood sugar and metabolic health. It may also support cholesterol levels and promote fat loss over time.

• Take 500 mg with meals (especially carb-heavy ones). If you’re new to berberine, start with one dose a day and gradually increase to avoid any GI discomfort.
• Pair it with fiber-rich meals or healthy fats to optimize its effects.

Berberine isn’t for everyone. If you’re pregnant, breastfeeding, on medication for diabetes or blood pressure, or have liver issues, consult your doctor

Berberine isn’t a magic wand (sadly, it won’t erase the pumpkin pie you had for breakfast), but it’s a solid tool in your post-Thanksgiving recovery kit. Think of it as your secret weapon for getting back to feeling balanced without needing to swear off carbs for life.