Questions for Round Table Discussion:

1. On Faith: The "Hidden" Life
"As we look at 2026, many of us are experts at looking like followers of Christ on Sunday morning. But if we pull back the curtain on your private thoughts and habits this week, where is the gap between the man people see and the man God sees? What is one specific 'secret struggle' you want to surrender today so you can walk in true renewal?"

2. On Marriage: The Heart of the Home
"In Ephesians, husbands are called to love their wives as Christ loved the church—sacrificially and selflessly. In the busyness of work and kids, it’s easy to treat our wives like 'roommates' or 'co-managers' of a household. Where have you been selfish or emotionally absent lately, and what is one way you can be more selfless or present with your wife?

3. On Fatherhood: Presence vs. Provision
"It is often easier to provide for our children financially than it is to be present with them spiritually. When your children look at your life right now, do they see a man who is 'too busy' for them, or a man who reflects the patience of the Heavenly Father? What is the biggest hurdle preventing you from being the primary spiritual leader in your children’s lives?"

4. On Occupation: Work as Worship
"We spend the majority of our waking hours at work. Do you view your job primarily as a paycheck and a source of stress, or as your mission field? Be honest: where has 'climbing the ladder' or workplace anxiety taken priority over your integrity or your witness to your colleagues?" Is your job simply a paycheck, or is it a mission field? How can you make changes to improve your mission at work?

5. On Community: The Courage to Lead
"The world in 2026 is often characterized by division and 'lone ranger' Christianity. We are called to be salt and light in our neighborhoods and cities. Where have you stayed 'safely on the sidelines' of your community when God might be calling you to lead, serve, or speak up for the truth?"

6. On Leadership: The Burden of Ego
"Biblical leadership is 'servant leadership,' yet our pride often demands we be served. Where has your ego caused friction in your home, workplace, church, or community recently? Share a moment where you chose to be 'right' rather than being righteous, and how you can practice humility in that relationship moving forward."

7. On Brotherhood: The Accountability Gap
"Proverbs 27:17 says 'Iron sharpens iron.' Who are the men in your life who actually know the full truth about your struggles? Who has the permission to call you out?

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What's Your Mission Field - Jeff Duerler - Ep 271

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The video opens with hosts Andy and Merrill expressing excitement about their upcoming guest, Jeff Duerler, a thoughtful and intentional speaker known for his rich insights. They emphasize the value of the content Jeff brings, noting that it’s so substantial that listeners will want to revisit it.

The conversation begins with a couple of announcements regarding their Strong Dads Saturday morning workouts. They highlight a special event, Strong Dads Live, scheduled for January 3rd, aimed at sharing inspiring stories from their community.

As the hosts officially welcome Jeff, they delve into his background. Jeff introduces himself by sharing his foundation in faith, emphasizing that his identity is rooted in his relationship with Jesus. He reflects on how this has shaped his life mission and the work he does, including leading a church and helping couples rekindle their marriages through Airbnb getaways. Jeff talks about the crucial questions of identity, purpose, and hope that every individual grapples with, stressing the importance of these in understanding one’s mission.

The conversation takes a poignant turn as Jeff shares about his personal challenges, particularly the profound loss of his daughter, which forced him to reevaluate his mission in life. He discusses how suffering can lead to clarity about what truly matters, encouraging listeners to focus on how they can redeem their pain for a greater purpose.

The discussion shifts to the importance of a mission-driven life, touching on the misconception that only certain people, like pastors, have a mission. Jeff argues that everyone is called to serve and make a difference, no matter their profession. He emphasizes that our work and interactions can be infused with purpose, urging listeners to seek out ways they can be a positive influence within their spheres of life.

Andy and Merrill contribute their own experiences and insights, reflecting on their challenges and how they have found strength and purpose through their faith. They discuss the importance of community and service, especially for men who may struggle with being engaged or vulnerable.

As they wrap up, the hosts underline that living a mission-oriented life not only enhances one’s personal fulfillment but also serves as an example for families, especially children. They invite viewers to consider joining their community and being part of their Strong Dads program, reinforcing the idea that nobody should undertake their spiritual journey alone.

Remember, your mission starts by understanding your identity in Christ.

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In this Strong Dad's show, Andy Dalton welcomes guest Frank Henegar. Andy and Frank continue Rock Solid Families December theme of "Mission" in a different way. They dive into "Mission Field" and how that relates to God's mission and how our mission ties into that.

Throughout this podcast you will hear about how to discern your mission field, where God is calling you to use the gifts He's given you, and how men can work alongside one another to help encourage others where their mission field is.

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