Calm, Cool, and Connected: Embracing a New State of Being

Transforming Your Life with Intentional Language

Words have more power than we give them credit for, not only in copywritting but in our everyday lives. This discussion revolves around the profound impact that words have on our mindset and actions. One of the key takeaways is the transformative power of shifting our language from "I want" to "I am." This simple change can significantly alter how we perceive our aspirations and ultimately influence our behaviors.

Vote for Yourself: Five Ways to Champion Your Dreams

To truly champion yourself, it is essential to have a clear vision of what you want in life, much like political candidates who articulate their visions during campaigns. A well-defined vision serves as a guiding light, helping you navigate the complexities of your personal and professional journey.

Host Tonya Leigh poses a thought-provoking question: What if you applied the same passion and conviction seen in political campaigns to your own dreams and aspirations? Tonya explores five powerful ways to become your own champion, encouraging listeners to "vote for yourself" with enthusiasm. She shares her recent experiences from the SOSI tour in Europe and expresses excitement for the final stop in New York, emphasizing the importance of community and setting intentions for the upcoming year.

Tune in to discover how to champion your own goals and dreams!

Talking Points:

01:29 - The Elephant in the Room: U.S. Election
02:24 - Cognitive Bias and Personal Growth
03:19 - Campaigning for Yourself
05:07 - Championing Your Own Vision
07:04 - Vision Questions and Exercises
10:07 - Avoiding Vision Shame
13:10 - Strong Beliefs and Convictions
18:09 - Finding Belief in Yourself
19:12 - Being Your Loudest Supporter
22:04 - Overcoming External Doubts
24:00 - The Power of Environment
25:47 - Writing Your Victory Speech

Quotes:

"What if you brought the same passion, conviction, and unwavering belief that you often see in political campaigns to your own dreams and aspirations?"

"Just allow yourself to dream."

"Coaching is one of the best investments you will ever make in yourself. And I stand by that 1000%."

"If you have to get up and look in that mirror every morning and be like, listen girl, here we go. Today's gonna be an amazing day. You know why? Because you are amazing."

"What I've noticed is that when I just go within and I bet on myself, I evolve to the next level."

"You have a vision for your life, you build your campaign promises, you become your own rally, you invest in your victory, and you build your dream team."

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Finding Peace: Techniques to Release Attachments and Anxiety

In the journey of personal growth and freedom, awareness serves as the foundational step. Becoming aware of our thoughts, emotions, and attachments is crucial for breaking free from the cycles of worry and anxiety that often trap us.

Host Tonya Leigh dives into the transformative art of letting go, a topic she has passionately coached and personally navigated. Drawing from her own experiences and insights, Tonya emphasizes the importance of releasing attachments to ideas, people, and things, which can often lead to suffering and anxiety. She shares a pivotal moment during a vacation in Paris, where a friend's advice and the book "Awareness" by Anthony de Mello sparked a profound realization about the roots of unhappiness.

Tune in to discover powerful techniques and wisdom from spiritual teachers and psychologists that can help you cultivate calm and break free from the cycle of worry.

Talking Points:

01:19 - The Concept of Letting Go
01:39 - Awareness by Anthony DeMello
02:02 - Attachment Causes Suffering
03:29 - Happiness and External Factors
05:37 - Embrace Reality as It Is
06:19 - Importance of Self-Observation
07:34 - Love Without Attachment
09:10 - Letting Go of the Ego
10:19 - Letting Go of the Need for Approval
14:15 - Embracing Uncertainty
18:16 - Dedication vs. Attachment
20:55 - Fall in Love with the Practice
21:59 - Let Go of the Rope

Quotes:

"All of my suffering was because of attachment."

"Happiness doesn't come from things outside of you."

"I want everything for you. I need nothing from you."

"All I need to do is let go. Just let go. And yet it's so hard."

"The ability to just show up in the world as you truly are, sharing the things that you truly love, expressing yourself in a way that feels true to you, is the most freeing thing in the world."

"The reason why you're suffering right now is most likely because you are attached to something or you fear losing something, which is also an attachment."

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Mastering Productivity: Signature Work Habits with My Executive Assistant

Beginning and concluding your day effectively are essential practices that can significantly influence your productivity and overall mindset throughout the workday. Tonya Leigh and her executive assistant, Abigail Schroeder, explore the importance of these two bookends of the day and how they contribute to a more effective and fulfilling work experience.

Tonya opens the conversation by addressing a common question she receives: how she manages to get so much done. Tonya shares the story of how she found Abigail amidst over 500 applicants and highlights the importance of having a supportive team. Together, they explore effective work strategies, insights on collaboration, and the value of intuition in hiring.

Tune in to discover how to enhance your productivity and learn from Abigail's expertise in managing tasks and supporting a busy, thriving executive by creating a positive, effective work environment.

Talking Points:

01:53 - Role of an Executive Assistant

02:27 - Abigail's Responsibilities

07:04 - The Four Ds Framework

09:16 - Abigail's Signature Work Habits

10:51 - Starting Your Day Well

13:26 - Self-Awareness and Acceptance

16:01 - Knowing Your Strengths and Weaknesses

20:10 - Writing Everything Down

25:08 - Prioritize with Focus and Rest

31:14 - Diffuse Mode of Thinking

37:58 - Most Impactful Work Habit

39:33 - Company Culture

Quotes:

"My two main goals in my role is to optimize your time and to support the overall vision you have for the company."

"If you're going to do it, don't do something and then be struggling and arguing with it."

"At any moment, you can do a U-turn and recommit, do whatever you need to do to get yourself back on track."

"It's just part of the human experience. We're not supposed to be great at everything."

"You wouldn't expect yourself to be able to run a marathon without training for it, you know? And so we have to treat our brain the same way."

"Ending your day well can look like, I don't know, cooking, hanging out with friends, going on a walk, playing a game."

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Transform Your Workspace: Tools and Techniques for Enhanced Focus and Creativity

Finding Your Place: The True Meaning of Belonging

True belonging begins with the acceptance and love of oneself, enabling you to show up authentically in any situation. This concept is central to the podcast episode, where Tonya Leigh emphasizes that belonging is not merely about fitting in or conforming to the expectations of others. Instead, it is about embracing your true self and cultivating a profound sense of acceptance from within.

Tonya shares her recent experiences at the SOSI tour stop in L.A., highlighting the joy of connecting with a supportive community. She reflects on the common feelings of insecurity and social anxiety many of us face, especially when entering new environments. The episode is inspired by her journey to cultivate a sense of belonging and acceptance, starting from within.

Tune in to discover valuable insights on overcoming feelings of isolation and building genuine connections with yourself and others.

Talking Points:

00:01:48 - The Essence of Belonging

00:03:25 - Need for Confidence and Connection

00:05:13 - Misconceptions About Belonging

00:05:45 - Authenticity and Confidence

00:08:47 - Vulnerability and Connection

00:10:04 - Embracing All Parts of Yourself

00:13:00 - Rejection is God's Protection

00:16:26 - Thoughts That Nurture Belonging

00:17:32 - Developing a Belonging Mindset

00:19:08 - Belonging in Luxurious Environments

00:20:26 - Taking Responsibility for Your Own Belonging

00:23:35 - Cultivating Belonging in Daily Life

00:25:09 - Celebrating Differences

00:26:13 - Challenge for the Week

Quotes:

"It's like this is the essence of what we are all about. Women celebrating each other, sharing and supporting."

"You will never belong in a group of people if you don't first belong to yourself."

"When you show up in that fullness of who you are, that's what really creates connection and true belonging."

"You belong because you exist."

"True belonging starts with you accepting yourself exactly as you are."

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From Ruts to Renaissance: How Style Can Change Your Life

A style renaissance is not merely about updating your wardrobe or following the latest fashion trends; it is a profound journey of self-discovery and personal growth. In her podcast episode, Tonya Leigh emphasizes that true style comes from within and reflects who you are at your core. A style renaissance can help you rediscover your true self and use style as a powerful tool for self-expression.

Tonya invites listeners to embark on a transformative journey through their style. She introduces the Style Experience, an annual program designed to help women redefine their approach to fashion and personal expression. Tonya shares her own struggles with understanding style, highlighting a common experience of trying to mimic trends without a true sense of self. The episode emphasizes the importance of an inside-out approach to style, encouraging listeners to explore how their wardrobe can empower and elevate their lives. Tune in to discover how this unique experience can facilitate personal growth and unlock your authentic style.

Talking Points:

01:08 - Style Experience Transformation Journey

02:24 - The Deeper Questions of Style

04:10 - The Importance of Style in Personal Development

05:33 - Defining a Style Renaissance

06:16 - Rediscovering Your True Self Through Style

06:49 - Sign 1: Major Life Transition

08:14 - Sign 2: Being in a Rut

11:16 - Sign 3: Getting Dressed is a Chore

13:00 - Finding Joy in Getting Dressed

14:14 - Sign 4: Envy of Other Women's Style

15:30 - Sign 5: Hitting an Upper Limit

24:00 - No More Waiting for the Perfect Time

29:20 - Speeding Up Your Style Journey

Quotes:

"It never answered the deeper questions that come with a style journey, which is, who are you really?"

"A style renaissance is a personal awakening, a rejuvenation, a rebirth of who you are in relationship to style."

"Getting dressed is a form of self-care and self-expression. It shouldn't be a burden."

"I literally crawled out of my hole. I overcame an upper limit with style as one of the major tools in doing so."

"I can look back and see how style has been responsible for so many of the opportunities that I have been blessed with."

"A style journey really is a journey back home to yourself."

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