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  • Invest in Your Marriage: Encouraging Adventures and Embarrassing Stories - Episode 16

    Invest in Your Marriage: Encouraging Adventures and Embarrassing Stories - Episode 16
    2025/03/03

    In this episode of Slightly Off Script, Bethany and Andy bring levity and laughter while diving deep into the importance of investing in marriage. They reminisce about quirky past moments and share candid conversations about their relationship dynamics. Additionally, they discuss community, authenticity, mission, and play, revealing their strategies for maintaining a strong and fun marriage. Tune in for tips on how to create intentional connections, embrace the art of hospitality, and find joy in simple getaways. From humorous anecdotes to heartwarming insights, this episode is a reminder that marriage can indeed be 'stupid good and wicked fun.

    00:00 Introduction and Opening Banter

    01:13 Snowstorm and Winter Talk

    03:58 Investing in Your Marriage

    04:32 Surprise Questions Game

    05:14 Memorable Moments and Hairstyles

    11:19 Food Preferences and Fun Questions

    18:19 Public Restroom Woes

    18:57 Investments in Marriage

    19:46 Creating a Hospitable Home

    21:03 Fire Pit Conversations

    23:54 Bible Study Date Nights

    25:06 Authenticity in Marriage

    26:37 Therapy and Wise Counsel

    27:47 Morning Check-ins

    29:36 Open Access and Accountability

    32:45 Serving Together3

    6:33 Bedroom Upgrades

    40:17 Intentional Getaways

    40:56 Cruising and Relaxation

    44:37 Final Thoughts and Farewell
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    47 分
  • Real Talk About Personality Tests & Marriage Dynamics - Episode 15

    Real Talk About Personality Tests & Marriage Dynamics - Episode 15
    2025/02/24
    Welcome to Slightly Off Script! In this episode, we dive into the world of personality tests and what they can reveal about marriage dynamics. Join Bethany and Andy Needham as they share their thoughts on various personality profiles like Myers-Briggs, StrengthsFinder, Enneagram, and others. We explore what they have learned about themselves and each other through these assessments and discuss how their personalities have changed over time. Plus, we share a newly discovered profile about apology languages and how it highlights the differences in how we value apologies. Tune in for a candid conversation packed with insights, laughs, and a few profiles worth considering! 00:00 Welcome to Slightly Off Script 00:51 New Studio Vibes 02:27 Bethany's New Hobby: Powerlifting 05:42 Listener Question: Beneficial Tools for Understanding Each Other 09:04 Avoidance vs. Idolization of Personality Tests 17:01 Good Scripts: Helpful, Fallible Tools 20:33 The Polaroid Analogy 22:27 First Encounters with Personality Tests 25:19 Diving into Different Personality Profiles 27:24 Themes and Changes in Personality 36:14 The Apology Language Profile 40:42 Upcoming Episodes and Conclusion
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    42 分
  • Navigating the Complexities of Dating: Practical Advice for Singles & Couples - Episode 14

    Navigating the Complexities of Dating: Practical Advice for Singles & Couples - Episode 14
    2025/02/17
    In this episode of 'Slightly Off Script,' Bethany and Andy Needham engage in an authentic and lively discussion about the ups and downs of dating, whether single or married. Beginning humorously with the now unneeded pre-recording claps, they delve into essential topics such as the significance of community, maintaining authenticity, and balancing fun in a relationship. They reflect on their own marriage values and how these translate into healthy dating practices. Sharing personal stories of faith and relationships, the episode covers practical advice for singles looking to date and for married folks supporting their single friends. Tune in for meaningful insights, laughter, and a reminder that whether single, dating, or married, life can be 'stupid good and wicked fun.' LIVE PODCAST EVENT LINK: Learn more and register for the March 7th Live Podcast and Date Night in Jaffrey, NH at https://www.hopejaffrey.org/current-events 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Setup 00:32 Welcome to Slightly Off Script 00:54 Clapping Confessions 02:17 Moving to a New Studio 03:00 Small Beefs and Healthy Conflict 03:32 The Chapstick Incident 05:31 Listener Question: Dating Advice 06:11 Date Night Adventures 10:27 Discussing Singleness and Marriage 19:55 Navigating Singleness and Faithfulness 21:28 The Challenges of Modern Dating 22:53 Finding Godly Partners in a Post-Christian World 23:33 The Role of Community in Dating 27:21 Online Dating: A New Frontier 29:29 Biblical Guidance on Relationships 33:08 Principles for Healthy Dating 41:36 Advice for Married Couples Supporting Singles 42:49 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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    46 分
  • Reflecting on Purity Culture: The Good, Bad, & Ugly - Episode 13

    Reflecting on Purity Culture: The Good, Bad, & Ugly - Episode 13
    2025/02/10
    In this episode of Slightly Off Script, we dive into the controversial topic of purity culture and the True Love Waits movement. Join hosts Bethany and Andrew David Needham as they reflect on the good intentions, the problematic aspects, and the lasting impact of purity messages they encountered as teenagers in the 90s and early 2000s. From the teaching of biblical sexual ethics to the harmful overemphasis on virginity, we explore our personal experiences and share insights on what we've learned. We also discuss how to approach these topics with grace, truth, and a balanced perspective for the next generation. Thank you for your questions that sparked this meaningful and complex conversation! ARTICLES WE REFERENCED The FAQs: What You Should Know About Purity Culture https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/faqs-know-purity-culture/ Critique Purity Culture, but Teach Sexual Ethics to Teens https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/purity-culture-sexual-ethics-teens LIVE PODCAST EVENT LINK: Learn more and register for the March 7th Live Podcast and Date Night in Jaffrey, NH at https://www.hopejaffrey.org/current-events 00:00 Welcome to Slightly Off Script 00:33 Bethany's Middle Name Story 02:19 Hair Pampering Weekend 03:50 Compliments and Insecurities 06:13 Introduction to Purity Culture 08:13 Defining Purity Culture 16:10 Critiques and Reflections 19:10 Personal Experiences with Purity Culture 25:02 The Grip of Pornography in Teenage Years 26:09 True Love Waits and Technical Virginity 26:47 The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly of Purity Culture 26:57 Positive Aspects of Purity Culture 30:52 Critiquing Purity Culture: The Focus on Virginity 36:46 Modesty and Judgment in Purity Culture 43:38 The Sexual Prosperity Gospel 47:56 Concluding Thoughts and Future Conversations
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    51 分
  • Fighting Fair in the Everyday & in Crisis: Conflict Series Part Three - Episode 12

    Fighting Fair in the Everyday & in Crisis: Conflict Series Part Three - Episode 12
    2025/02/03
    Welcome to Slightly Off Script, the marriage show with Bethany and Andy Needham, where we remind you that marriage can be stupid good and wicked fun! In this episode, we dive into the nuances of handling everyday conflicts and the more significant crises in marriage. Bethany and Andy share personal stories, practical advice, and the importance of having a solid foundation in Christ. They discuss the differences between small, everyday storms and larger, life-altering hurricanes while offering insights into maintaining a healthy and happy marriage amidst these challenges. Tune in to learn about recognizing patterns, setting boundaries, and having those crucial 2 a.m. friends. Don't forget to subscribe, like, and share if you find this helpful! EVENT LINK: Learn more and register for the March 7th Live Podcast and Date Night in Jaffrey, NH at https://www.hopejaffrey.org/ 00:00 Episode 12 00:02 Welcome to Slightly Off Script 01:14 Memorable Date Disasters 10:01 Navigating Conflict in Marriage 19:40 Navigating Tough Terrain in Marriage 19:52 Finding the Right Solutions for Your Relationship 21:11 Recognizing and Addressing Patterns 22:01 Self-Reflection and Emotional Awareness 24:00 Overlooking vs. Ignoring Issues 24:51 Building Strategies for Conflict 26:44 Handling External Stressors 27:49 Crisis Management in Marriage 31:13 Dealing with Internal Struggles 35:58 The Importance of External Support 39:17 Rebuilding After the Storm 45:51 Concluding Thoughts on Conflict
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    49 分
  • The Off Script Guide to Marriage Conflict: Conflict Series Part Two - Episode 11

    The Off Script Guide to Marriage Conflict: Conflict Series Part Two - Episode 11
    2025/01/27

    This week Bethany and Andy Needham delve into the complexities of handling conflict in marriage. With humor and openness, we share personal experiences, practical strategies, and the importance of self-reflection. We discuss everything from common pitfalls like 'catastrophizing' and 'the always and never trap' to showing appreciation and understanding for one another. Stay tuned as we announce an exciting live event and reflect on how the fruit of the spirit has shaped our relationship over 22 years.

    EVENT LINK: Learn more and register for the March 7th Live Podcast and Date Night in Jaffrey, NH at https://www.hopejaffrey.org/

    00:00 Introduction and Hosts Banter

    01:09 Weekend Recap and New Job

    01:36 Travel and Household Dynamics

    02:25 Cooking and Appreciation

    05:39 Market Basket and Grocery Stores

    07:40 Conflict in Marriage

    08:42 Practical Conflict Resolution Tips

    17:13 Misunderstanding Scripture in Conflict

    20:57 Rebuilding Trust Over Time

    21:25 Avoiding Absolutes in Conflict

    23:29 The Dangers of Passive Aggressiveness

    28:41 The Power of Listening to Understand

    34:31 Reflecting on Personal Growth

    39:25 Upcoming Live Podcast Event
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    43 分
  • Unhealthy Conflict Nearly Destroyed Our Marriage: Conflict Series Part One - Episode 10

    Unhealthy Conflict Nearly Destroyed Our Marriage: Conflict Series Part One - Episode 10
    2025/01/20

    Join hosts Bethany and Andy Needham in this episode of Slightly Off Script as we discuss the hilarities and trials of married life. From reminiscing about Andy's rock star days a decade ago to the woes of their Sleep Number bed repair, they provide insight into the realities of marriage. They dive deep into personal and candid discussions about conflict and overcoming challenges in their relationship, emphasizing the importance of community, repentance, and understanding the Gospel in building a strong foundation.

    00:00 Introduction to the Marriage Show

    00:37 Reflecting on Aging and Life Changes

    01:29 The Sleep Number Bed Saga

    06:57 Listener Requests: Discussing Conflict

    09:44 Early Marriage Challenges and Misunderstandings

    18:33 Struggles with Identity and Marriage Expectations

    20:23 Conflict and Miscommunication

    26:52 The Role of Community in Healing

    28:47 True Repentance and Conflict Resolution

    38:18 Vulnerability and Moving Forward

    38:50 Closing Remarks and Future Topics
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    40 分
  • Start, Stop, Continue: Thinking Wisely about a New Season - Episode 9

    Start, Stop, Continue: Thinking Wisely about a New Season - Episode 9
    2025/01/13

    On this episode of 'Slightly Off Script', we delve into the highs and lows of recent weeks, including tackling the flu, setting New Year resolutions, and the challenges of sticking to them. We discuss the importance of maintaining daily routines, stewardship of health, and the value of reflecting on the past year. Bethany talks about prioritizing her time with God, while Andy shares his resolve to embrace change and disappoint people when necessary. Enjoy their candid conversation filled with humor, personal insights, and practical tips for navigating life's ups and downs.

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    00:00 Introduction and Hosts

    00:20 Flu Stories and Urgent Care

    03:08 New Year's Reflections

    09:03 Setting Realistic Goals

    16:09 Social Media and Personal Connections

    19:52 Disclaimers and Rules

    20:15 Appreciating Home and Budgeting

    21:13 Health and Fitness Goals

    25:45 New Job and Leadership Challenges

    27:18 Marker

    29:21 Spiritual Priorities and Daily Practices

    33:57 Friendships and Creativity

    35:35 Podcast Reflections and Listener Engagement

    36:45 Upcoming Topics and Farewell
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    38 分