Welcome to Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show! In this episode, hosts Bethany Needham and Andy delve into a candid discussion about managing depression within marriage. From personal experiences with postpartum depression to the importance of community, medical help, and self-care, this episode provides a genuine look at how couples can navigate difficult seasons together. Bethany shares her journey and practical tips, while Andy offers insights from supporting a spouse through tough times. Tune in for an honest conversation about the highs and lows of marriage and how to love each other through it all.

00:00 Intro

00:40 Life Updates and Weekend Recap

03:16 Holiday Plans and Christmas Lights

05:56 Discussing Depression in Marriage

10:19 Personal Experiences with Depression

15:52 Seeking Help and Community Support

21:43 Building Trust with Medical Professionals

22:34 The Importance of Researching Medications

23:28 Balancing Research and Discernment

23:50 Holistic Approaches and Personal Stories

24:39 Non-Medical Strategies for Mental Health

26:02 The Power of Movement and Small Steps

27:39 Supporting a Depressed Spouse

33:18 Mutual Support in Marriage

36:01 Practical Tips for Couples

40:51 Concluding Thoughts and Prayer

Join Bethany and Andy Needham as they discuss the ups and downs of marriage, including hilarious arguments, significant milestones, and the use of AI for brainstorming. Bethany shares her recent success in a powerlifting competition. The couple tackles 20 fun and sincere questions about their relationship —from love languages to survival skills —showcasing their sense of humor and deep connection. Tune in for an engaging conversation that is both entertaining and insightful, reminding us all that marriage can indeed be stupid good and wicked fun.

00:00 Introduction and Banter

01:12 Powerlifting Competition Highlights

05:52 Upcoming Events and Busy Schedules

06:49 AI Tools in Daily Life

07:48 Fun and Serious Questions

20:00 Discussing Pain Tolerance

20:34 Signature Moves in Arguments

22:18 Funny Marriage Moments

25:15 Heartfelt and Hopeful Moments

28:54 Dreams and Future Plans

37:52 Holiday Traditions and Reflections

40:55 Conclusion and Farewell

Join Andy and Bethany Needham on this hilarious and insightful episode of the Slightly Off Script podcast as they share their best tips for having amazing date nights on a budget. From creative at-home date ideas to discounted dining hacks, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you maintain fun and romance in your marriage without breaking the bank. Plus, stay tuned for the ultimate date night hack that could transform your evening plans. Don't miss out on these fun and affordable date ideas!

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview00:46 Meet the Hosts: Bethany and Andy01:26 Upcoming Plans and Date Night Hacks Introduction02:17 Challenges in Planning Date Nights06:09 Creative Solutions for Childcare09:29 At-Home Date Night Ideas12:51 Fun and Unconventional Date Night Activities14:11 Creative Movie Nights and Blanket Forts15:12 Hacks for Eating Out on a Budget15:18 Saving Money on Meals: Lunch and Appetizers16:41 Grocery Store Sushi and Prepared Foods19:19 Thrifting Adventures: Finding Hidden Gems22:22 Exploring the Outdoors with AllTrails23:19 Discounts and Membership Perks26:18 Creating Fun and Unique Date Quests29:24 The Ultimate Date Night Hack31:25 Wrapping Up: Final Thoughts and Farewells

Join Andy and Bethany Needham in this episode as they dive into the topic of money in marriage. They discuss the categories of expenses they choose to skip, save on, spend moderately on, and splurge on for themselves and their family. Learn about their strategies for managing finances, including investing in vacations, health, and the occasional indulgence. With humor and personal anecdotes, they aim to provide insights and tips for couples navigating financial decisions together.

00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview01:28 First Jobs and Early Money Memories05:21 Marriage and Money: Skipping the Big Expenses13:07 Frugal Living: Saving Strategies17:55 Teaching Kids Negotiation Skills at Yard Sales18:34 Prioritizing Family Vacations21:02 Spending on Date Nights and Entertainment22:06 Choosing Reliable Cars24:35 Investing in Health and Wellness27:28 Splurging on Gifts and Seasonal Help30:15 Enjoying Extravagant Meals34:04 Aligning Financial Values in Marriage38:04 Concluding Thoughts on Spending and Saving

In this special episode of 'Slightly Off Script,' Andy Needham celebrates 25 years in vocational ministry by being interviewed by his wife, Bethany. The duo discusses Andy's journey from starting ministry at 18 to his current milestones, covering the lessons learned, highs, lows, and personal growth that come with such a long tenure in ministry. They delve into the commitment needed to sustain a ministry career, balancing personal and professional life, and share humorous and humbling stories from Andy’s vast experience. A must-listen for anyone full of valuable insights for a fulfilling life.

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00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:38 Bethany Interviews Andy

02:01 Starting in Ministry at 18

03:57 Affirmation and Early Ministry Experiences

06:50 Highs and Lows of Ministry

12:43 Cringe-Worthy Moments

15:55 Sustaining Faith and Calling

18:43 Understanding Calling vs. Assignment

19:03 Spiritual Life as a Garden

20:28 Redefining Success in Ministry

23:26 Advice for Young People Considering Ministry

27:06 Balancing Ministry and Family Life

32:16 Maintaining a Healthy Marriage in Ministry

38:08 Final Thoughts and Reflections

This holiday weekend, we are taking a quick breather from recording and sharing one of our most downloaded episodes on navigating differences in marriage. Thanks for listening!

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Welcome to 'Slightly Off Script,' the marriage show where hosts Bethany and Andy Needham explore the entertaining and meaningful aspects of married life. In this episode, Bethany and Andy dive into the topic of differences within a relationship, sharing how their unique traits complement each other and sometimes create friction. Through humorous and insightful conversations, they discuss empathy, organization, adventure, spontaneity, and the importance of hard conversations. They also highlight how appreciating and celebrating each other's differences can strengthen the bond between partners. Tune in for relatable anecdotes, practical advice, and an engaging look at how to make the most of what makes you and your partner unique. Plus, get some fun food tips and hear about their latest cravings!

00:00 Introduction and Snow Day Vibes

01:03 Marriage Devotional Insights

02:07 Seasonal Enjoyments and Dislikes

07:50 Powerlifting Aspirations and Sponsorship Ideas

11:47 Embracing Differences in Relationships

17:27 Reflecting on Leadership and Organization

19:22 Balancing Perfectionism and Practicality

20:30 Navigating Household Responsibilities

23:49 Embracing Adventure and Planning

29:32 Fearless Conversations and Conflict Resolution

33:14 Growth Through Marriage and Work

38:02 Encouragement for Married Couples

41:50 Conclusion and Listener Engagement

Navigating Marriage and Career Transitions | Slightly Off Script: The Marriage ShowIn this episode of 'Slightly Off Script: The Marriage Show,' hosts Bethany and Andy Needham dive deep into the challenges and lessons learned from Bethany's first year back in the workforce full-time. Join them as they discuss the surprising skills Bethany discovered, the importance of balancing career and home life, and the unique environment of working in the drug and alcohol recovery field. Listen to their candid conversation about sustaining a healthy marriage through career changes, and how their faith plays a crucial role in navigating this new season in their lives.

Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band)00:00 Introduction to the Marriage Show00:35 Setting Up the Studio01:12 Weekly Highlights and Market Basket Story02:44 Fall Hangouts and Food Talk03:49 Interview with Bethany: Returning to the Workforce09:47 Transition Challenges and Personal Growth16:56 Entering the Recovery Coaching Field17:37 Reflections on the Recovery Community19:38 Personal Reflections on Capital Recovery20:28 Overview of the Partial Hospitalization Program21:25 Transitioning into a New Role22:21 Learning the Ropes in Recovery Coaching23:54 Navigating Language Barriers in Recovery26:37 Building Trust and Leadership30:30 Balancing Faith and Professional Life33:29 Coping with Loss in the Recovery Field39:36 Marriage and Career Transitions42:38 Closing Remarks and Future Plans

In this episode of 'Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show,' hosts Bethany and Andy Needham explore the importance of supporting each other's dreams and aspirations within a marriage. They discuss a variety of dreams ranging from big life-changing decisions, such as Andy going full-time with his band, to smaller everyday ambitions like Bethany's passion for home decor. The conversation highlights the importance of communication, mutual support, and balancing one’s ambition with the needs of the marriage. With humorous anecdotes and insightful reflections, they delve into how they navigate these waters together, even touching on their personal experiences and upcoming dreams. Tune in for a heartfelt and entertaining discussion that proves marriage can indeed be 'stupid good and wicked fun.'

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00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview

00:30 Meet the Hosts: Bethany and Andy

01:10 Soup Talk and Studio Upgrades

03:11 Life Updates and Busy Seasons

03:51 Late Night Softball Adventures

06:09 Supporting Each Other's Dreams

08:52 Podcast Beginnings: The Story of 'Hey Girl'

12:37 Going Full-Time with the Band

15:53 Balancing Marriage and Individual Dreams

18:12 Reflecting on New England and Passion

20:12 Balancing Everyday Aspirations in Marriage

21:16 Navigating Support and Materialism

24:20 Finding Joy in Shared and Individual Interests

26:49 Communicating and Balancing Commitments

32:01 Dreams and Future Aspirations

35:51 Concluding Thoughts and Appreciations