On this episode, I have the privilege of speaking with Neil Palache, an experienced divorce consultant and founder of the Wealth Creator Company for Women. Neil brings over 15 years of expertise in financial coaching, having transitioned from life insurance and financial services to a focus on guiding women through the financial intricacies of divorce. He has also founded Divorce Transition Professionals (DTP), a national network facilitating collaboration among divorce professionals.

Together, we look into essential financial considerations during the divorce journey. Neil outlines his holistic approach, encompassing pre, pending, and post-divorce phases. He emphasizes the importance of understanding your financial landscape before divorce proceedings begin, providing guidance on budgeting, asset division, and potential outcomes concerning spousal and child support.

Neil's insights include advice on hiring the right professionals to navigate complex financial scenarios and the significance of mutual respect between divorcing partners. He encourages a fair division of assets, enabling both parties to live reasonably post-divorce, and shares insights into maintaining civility for the sake of any children involved.

Neil and I both advocate for amicable resolutions, highlighting that animosity in divorce only depletes communal assets and strains future familial relationships. With practical examples and heartfelt advice, this episode offers invaluable guidance on managing finances and fostering healthier separations.

About the Guest:

A Divorce Consultant and Founder of The Wealth Creator Company for Women, Neil Palache has specialized in financial coaching for 15 years. He also founded the Divorce Transition Professionals (DTP), a national network, in 2017. Neil's financial experience stretches over five decades. He was an insurance agent, a financial advisor, and a registered investment advisor for 25 years. As such, when working with his female only clientele, on pre, pending and post- divorce financial issues, Neil's unique abilities and knowledge of 'all things financial' are put to good use. In addition, DTP provides an expansive network of professionals to handle all areas of the divorce process and beyond. Neil lives and works in the Conejo Valley in southern California. Married to Stacie since 1987, they have three children ages 21, 21 and 23. Neil was born and raised in London, England, and has been in the United States since 1979.

To book a complimentary session with Neil: http://www.thewealthcreatorcompany.com/

To connect with Neil:

Website: www.thewealthcreatorcompany.com

Group: www.thedivorcetransitionprofessionals.com

Website: www.divorcetransitionmastermind.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/neilpalache

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/neilpalache/

About the Host:

Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed...

Today, we are exploring the world of family mediation with a very special guest, Erik Feig. Erik is not just any mediator—he is a dedicated professional with extensive expertise, passion, and a genuine heart for helping families. He has carved out a niche in assisting families with neurodiverse children through the often-complicated mediation process, ensuring they receive the support they need and facilitating effective co-parenting arrangements.

We look into the challenges and nuances of creating parenting plans that are practical and adaptable to the evolving needs of children with special requirements. Erik also sheds light on the importance of mediation for families facing caregiver issues and elder care, emphasizing the deeply emotional nature of these discussions and the value of having a skilled mediator to support and guide them.

Throughout this episode, we explore why mediation is a powerful, flexible tool for resolving conflicts—whether you're staying together or going through a divorce. Erik explains how mediation can shift the focus from adversarial positions to collaborative problem-solving, ensuring that the best interests of the children and the family as a whole are prioritized.

If you're a parent or caregiver looking for better ways to support your family through difficult times, or if you're curious about how mediation can provide a more harmonious path forward in divorce, this episode is packed with practical advice and insights. Stay tuned as we uncover the many benefits of a child-centered approach to mediation and discover how it can make a significant difference in your family's journey.

About the Guest:

Erik M. Feig is a dedicated family mediator specializing in supporting families through pivotal life transitions, with a unique focus on working with parents of neurodiverse children and those with special needs. Erik’s approach fosters cooperation and reduces conflict, whether families are divorcing, navigating co-parenting after divorce, making post-divorce adjustments for changing needs, or aligning on key parenting decisions in intact families. In addition to his work with parents, Erik helps families address sensitive issues related to elder care, caregiving, and supporting the evolving needs of adult family members. Based in Bethesda, MD, and serving families nationwide, Erik is committed to helping families move forward with constructive solutions that benefit everyone involved.

To connect with Erik:

Website: https://www.feigmediationgroup.com

Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/FeigMediationGroup

LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/erik-m-feig/ YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVC1GNypV9FRsS_mxVwF-Ew

About the Host:

Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

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Today, we start focusing on supporting children over the holidays the first years after separation and divorce. I welcome back Dinalynn Rosenbush, a consultant and parenting coach, accomplished speaker, and creator of the 1.5% top global podcast, "The Language of Play." With her extensive background as a public school speech and language pathologist and her personal experience of navigating divorce as a parent, Dinalynn offers invaluable wisdom on making the festive season bright for children amidst the upheaval of separation.

Dinalynn shares her firsthand experiences, shedding light on the impact of the first holiday season after a divorce. Emphasizing the importance of intentionality, she discusses how this initial period can set the tone for how children perceive future celebrations. By ensuring that moments filled with conflict are minimized and the holiday season is embraced despite the changing family dynamics, parents can create a very positive experience for their kids.

The discussion centers around practical strategies to make the holidays meaningful, such as involving children in deciding which traditions to uphold and ensuring they feel heard and valued. Dinalynn also stresses the critical importance of personal well-being during this period, advocating for physical health through proper sleep, nutrition, and self-care, coupled with emotional grounding practices like meditation.

We also touch upon more sensitive subjects like navigating shared holiday moments with an ex-spouse. We underscore the necessity of clear communication, ensuring children understand the reality of the situation to avoid confusion and emotional distress.

About the Guest:

Dinalynn Rosenbush is a Consultant and Parenting Coach, Speaker, 30-year public school Speech Language Pathologist, international best-selling Author, and Creator/Host of the Top 2% podcast: The Language of Play. Dinalynn helps parents understand how children communicate so they can connect more deeply with their children. She gives practical, daily strategies for building speech and language skills during normal daily activities. Dinalynn loves to empower parents through education and guidance. She resides in Minnesota where she is near her children and grandchildren.

To connect with Dinalynn across all platforms:

https://linktr.ee/thelanguageofplay

About the Host:

Mardi Winder-Adams is an ICF and BCC Executive and Leadership Coach, Certified Divorce Transition Coach, Certified Divorce Specialist (CDS®) and a Credentialed Distinguished Mediator in Texas. She has worked with women in executive, entrepreneur, and leadership roles, navigating personal, life, and professional transitions. She is the founder of Positive Communication Systems, LLC, and host of Real Divorce Talks, a quarterly series designed to provide education and inspiration to women at all stages of divorce.

Are you interested in learning more about your divorce priorities? Take the quiz "The Divorce Stress Test".

Connect with Mardi on Social Media:

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/Divorcecoach4women

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mardiwinderadams/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcecoach4women/

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