If a friend built a million-dollar business, you'd say "good for them." If a dentist does it, suddenly someone's getting ripped off.

In this episode, Dr. Kyle Stanley and Dr. Martin Mendelson take on money shame in dentistry the guilt, discomfort, and defensiveness that shows up when dentists have to talk about fees, accept high incomes, or watch patients push back on treatment costs. It comes from everywhere: patients, family, team members, other dentists, and often from inside the dentist's own head.

Kyle didn't feel money shame early in his career he had no money. He was $2 million in debt between his house, his practice, and his school loans. But he was deeply uncomfortable talking about fees, especially with friends and family. It took him 8 or 9 years to get there.

The fix, as Martin frames it, isn't toughening up it's communication. A doctor at an urgent care laid out the fees and the alternatives matter-of-factly before treating Martin for an allergic reaction. No guilt, no apology. Just clarity. That's the model. You're not withholding care when you present the cost. You're actually doing the patient a disservice when you don't.

Selling isn't sleazy when it's about helping someone get what they actually need. Set the expectation. Own your fees. Be ready for a no and be okay with it.

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If you'd like to chat with Martin about disability insurance, you can click here to find a time on his calendar. He's a licensed agent and happy to connect with you.

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Do dentists hate each other? Kyle and Martin have thoughts.

In this episode, Dr. Kyle Stanley and Dr. Martin Mendelson dig into one of dentistry's more uncomfortable realities — the way dental professionals treat each other online, and why it's making everyone's job harder. Zirconia vs. biomimetic. Graft or don't graft. Hazmat suit for amalgam removal. The clinical debates are real, but the comment sections have become something else entirely.

Kyle is clear: most dentists he's met — across 48 states and 50 countries — are good people trying to do their best with the tools and training they have. The bad actors are a fraction of a percent. But that fraction is loud, visible, and giving the whole profession a reputation problem. And when your patients walk in already convinced you're going to upsell them, you feel that every single day.

Martin's push is on how dentists disagree, not whether they should. There's a difference between a nasty comment and a principled rebuttal. And if you genuinely believe a colleague is harming patients, keyboard bravery isn't the answer — the state board is. Public pile-ons don't change minds. They just give skeptical patients more ammunition.

The antidote to all of it? Study clubs. Mastermind groups. WhatsApp threads full of dentists from around the world actually helping each other. That version of dentistry exists too. Go find it.

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The hosts of a wellness podcast are here to tell you: you might be doing wellness wrong.

In this episode, Dr. Kyle Stanley and Dr. Martin Mendelson turn the lens on themselves and on the overachiever personality type that dentistry selects for to ask a genuinely uncomfortable question: when does healthy become obsessive?

Kyle doesn't drink, has never had a sip, tapes his mouth at night, won't bring his phone into the bedroom, and deliberately avoids tracking his sleep because he's watched friends develop anxiety over bad sleep scores that then caused the bad sleep scores. His sister-in-law used to get out of bed at 10pm to walk around the block just to close her Apple Watch ring. That's not wellness. That's a new form of perfectionism wearing wellness clothes.

The dentist brain measures success in tenths of millimeters. That same brain, applied to protein intake and step counts, can turn self-care into self-torture. Martin introduces the AimSmart framework to counter it: set a maximum, a middle ground, and a minimum for every wellness habit. Because one will always be greater than zero and giving yourself permission to hit the floor without shame is what keeps the habit alive long-term.

Grace isn't the same as making excuses. Know the difference, and give yourself some.

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If you'd like to chat with Martin about disability insurance, you can click here to find a time on his calendar. He's a licensed agent and happy to connect with you.

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Every dentist has one. The case that plays on a loop. The one that made you question everything.

In this episode, Dr. Martin Mendelson and Dr. Kyle Stanley get honest about the cases that shook them and what those moments actually reveal about the relationship between clinical identity and self-worth. Martin's was a root tip that snapped during surgery and wouldn't come out. Kyle's was a complex bone grafting case where nine months of healing and significant patient expense yielded barely a millimeter of bone growth and ended with a refund request.

Here's what neither of those cases actually means: that they're bad dentists. Complications happen in 2–3% of cases. That's not failure that's dentistry. The problem isn't the complication. It's the global story dentists tell themselves afterward. One hard case becomes I'm not good enough, and that narrative has a way of following you into the next chair.

Martin introduces the triangle of blame a framework that includes not just the dentist and the patient, but all the uncontrollable factors: genetics, anatomy, biology. Kyle's bone didn't grow. That's not always operator error. Sometimes it's just a patient who doesn't respond the way the textbook says they should.

The fix is reality testing. Look at your actual numbers. If your success rate is 97%, one rough case doesn't rewrite that story.

For more info or to join their live CE course, go to www.wellnessindentistry.com

Join Carabelli Club here and save $600 on your yearly membership: https://hubs.la/Q03QQGmD0

If you'd like to chat with Martin about disability insurance, you can click here to find a time on his calendar. He's a licensed agent and happy to connect with you.

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Dentists have a nickname for September. They call it Suctember. And Kyle and Martin think you can do better than just accepting it.

In this episode, Dr. Kyle Stanley and Dr. Martin Mendelson get tactical about one of dentistry's most dreaded months not to commiserate, but to actually fix it. The data usually tells the real story: if September is slow, look at June, July, and August hygiene numbers first. Lower hygiene visits mean less diagnosis, which means less treatment in the chair two months later. September didn't fail you. The preceding months did, and nobody was watching.

The fix starts before September ever arrives. Kyle breaks down the data points every practice should be tracking: new patient acquisition, hygiene production, unscheduled treatment, and patient churn. The average practice has a quarter million dollars in unscheduled treatment sitting untouched on the books. That's not a September problem that's a follow-up problem.

Then there's AI. Kyle's company Jazza can automatically re-engage churning patients, chase unscheduled treatment, and reactivate inactive patients every single week hands-free. Martin's contribution is equally practical: block CEO time separately from clinical time, front-load your goals during busier months, and build virtual snow days into your annual plan so September doesn't blindside you.

Stop accepting slow months. Start planning around them.

For more info or to join their live CE course, go to www.wellnessindentistry.com

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If you'd like to chat with Martin about disability insurance, you can click here to find a time on his calendar. He's a licensed agent and happy to connect with you.

Get Kyle's founder's discount for Pearl AI by scheduling a demo here: https://discover.hellopearl.com/referral/kyle-stanley/

Summer's over. And for most dentists, that means one thing: time to make up for it.

That instinct is exactly what Dr. Kyle Stanley and Dr. Martin Mendelson are pushing back on in this episode. The idea that you need to "make up" for summer assumes summer was a mistake. It wasn't. If you planned it, lower production in August isn't a problem — it's a data point you already knew about. The hustle spiral that hits every September isn't discipline. It's guilt.

Kyle puts it plainly: dentists have been hustling since high school. Grinding to get into college, then dental school, then an associateship, then ownership. At some point you're redlining in first gear — and that's how you blow the motor. The dentists who last longest aren't the ones who push hardest. They're the ones who figured out how to be sustainable.

So what does a healthy fall reset actually look like? Start with curiosity, not panic. Look at your patient base and ask who's actually worth keeping. Fall is a great time to quietly dismiss the patients who drain your energy — and if you have a mature practice, your numbers might not even dip. Then make one change at a time. Not everything. One thing.

Give yourself some grace. You've been conditioned since childhood to feel the weight of September. That feeling is normal. Just don't let it make your decisions for you.

For more info or to join their live CE course, go to www.wellnessindentistry.com

Join Carabelli Club here and save $600 on your yearly membership: https://hubs.la/Q03QQGmD0

If you'd like to chat with Martin about disability insurance, you can click here to find a time on his calendar. He's a licensed agent and happy to connect with you.

Get Kyle's founder's discount for Pearl AI by scheduling a demo here: https://discover.hellopearl.com/referral/kyle-stanley/

An unspoken expectation is a premeditated disappointment.

In this episode, Dr. Kyle Stanley and Dr. Martin Mendelson dig into one of the most quietly destructive forces in dental practice — and in life: uncommunicated expectations. The burned-out light bulb nobody changed. The treatment plan the patient rejected. The procedure that didn't go smoothly. Most of the frustration dentists carry daily traces back to expectations they never said out loud.

Kyle's framework is simple: expectations, communication, and boundaries. Master all three and most of the friction in your practice — with your team, your patients, your family — starts to dissolve. Miss any one of them and you're setting yourself up to be perpetually let down by people who never knew what you needed in the first place.

Martin flips the script on how to handle it when things don't go as planned: come at it with curiosity, not judgment. Not "why is this so hard?" but "what's actually happening here and what can I learn from it?" That single shift — from reaction to inquiry — changes the emotional cost of a hard day in the chair dramatically.

The real takeaway: people don't change until the cost of staying the same is higher than the cost of the conversation. Have the conversation.

For more info or to join their live CE course, go to www.wellnessindentistry.com

Join Carabelli Club here and save $600 on your yearly membership: https://hubs.la/Q03QQGmD0

If you'd like to chat with Martin about disability insurance, you can click here to find a time on his calendar. He's a licensed agent and happy to connect with you.

Get Kyle's founder's discount for Pearl AI by scheduling a demo here: https://discover.hellopearl.com/referral/kyle-stanley/

Get Kyle's founder's discount for Pearl AI by scheduling a demo here: https://discover.hellopearl.com/referral/kyle-stanley/

DSOs are collapsing. DSOs are taking over. Which is it?

In this episode, Dr. Kyle Stanley and Dr. Martin Mendelson cut through the noise around the DSO landscape and bring some actual data to a conversation that's been running almost entirely on emotion. Yes, some large DSOs are facing real financial pressure. Kyle breaks down why: a decade of overpaying for practices at inflated valuations, cheap debt that isn't cheap anymore, and private equity math that only works until it doesn't.

But the "DSOs are taking over dentistry" panic? The numbers don't support it. According to the ADA Health Policy Institute, 73% of dentists still own their practices. DSOs aren't taking over frequency bias is just making it feel that way.

Then there's the quality of care debate. Kyle and Martin have both worked on the lab side. They've seen substandard work coming out of private practices and DSOs alike. Bad dentistry isn't a DSO problem it's a human problem. The real concern with investor-backed models isn't necessarily the quality of the crown. It's whether the crown needed to be done at all.

The bottom line: make decisions based on data, not headlines. Control your emotions, build your business skills, and become a great leader or hire one.

And if you're ready to do the work in person, join Kyle and Martin at Light Side Live, November 6th and 7th in Phoenix, Arizona.

For more info or to join their live CE course, go to www.wellnessindentistry.com

Join Carabelli Club here and save $600 on your yearly membership: https://hubs.la/Q03QQGmD0

If you'd like to chat with Martin about disability insurance, you can click here to find a time on his calendar. He's a licensed agent and happy to connect with you.

Get Kyle's founder's discount for Pearl AI by scheduling a demo here: https://discover.hellopearl.com/referral/kyle-stanley/