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In this powerful episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse takes on a difficult but necessary topic—the use of the R-word and why it will never be acceptable. Mark dives into the word’s history, its dehumanizing impact on the autism community, and how language shapes public perceptions of disability.

Drawing from personal experience and historical context, he explores the dangers of normalizing offensive language and how it has been used to justify discrimination.

This episode isn’t just about calling out harmful language—it’s about education, advocacy, and protecting the dignity of autistic individuals and their families. Mark also shares practical ways to address the use of the R-word in everyday conversations, encouraging dads to stand up for their children with confidence and compassion.

If you've ever wondered how to respond when someone uses the term, this episode is a must-listen.

TOPICS

• The historical origins of the R-word and why it became offensive
• The real-world impact of dehumanizing language on the autism community
• How harmful language has historically led to discrimination and worse
• The importance of speaking up when you hear the R-word used
• Practical ways to educate others and advocate for respectful language
• The role of inclusion in shaping a better future for autistic individuals

QUOTE
“It doesn’t just dehumanize and devalue the autistic community—it also devalues everybody who supports the autistic community.” - Mark de Grasse

DISCLAIMER
Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.

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