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Something we always say on Dem Bois Podcast is that visibility = possibility, and in this episode, I get to speak with someone whose visibility showed my possibility and gave me the permission to show up as my authentic self, Tiq Milan. Tiq is a trans rights advocate, speaker, father, teacher, and leadership development strategist, and I am very excited to share this episode. We discuss the challenges of fatherhood, emphasizing the need for legal protections and the impact of his daughter's mother on their relationship. And, Tiq gives us advice on self-love and the power of chosen family.

We talk:

How Tiq’s family support affected him - 10:55

Trying to find other Black trans men online - 20:58

Tiq’s spirituality - 28:40

The Moth - 40:49

His experience with fatherhood - 48:58

Episode References:

The Moth

Middle Church

Read more about Tiq in his bio below:

Tiq Milan is a leadership development strategist, trans rights advocate and speaker. He shares his inspiring story about his experience in the world as a Black transgender man of faith who is also a father, teacher, and world traveler.

• IG: @themrmilan

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People have all these rules for how trans masc folks should think, act, and feel, but the truth is that we are all different. There are no rules to being trans and we talk about that more in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Today I sit down with E.C. Pizarro III, and we discuss his transition, the challenges of being a Black trans man, and his work in tech. He highlights the importance of visibility and representation, mentioning his 2024 awards and his role in the trans community.

We talk:

E.C.’s gender journey - 8:36

The gender journey for youth - 19:09

Going stealth - 31:29

His career in tech - 49:58

Marsha’s Web - 54:35

Episode References:

The Aggressives (2005)

The L Word (TV Series 2004–2009)

TRANSworld Atlanta

Edens Garden

Marsha’s Web

Read more about E.C in his bio below:

E.C. Pizarro III is a technology experience strategist, owner of 1Z2R, and founder of Marsha’s Web, a resource for TLGBQIA+ communities focused on BIPOC Transgender, Intersex, and GNC business owners. He led TransTech Social from 2021-2024 and has been honored with the 2024 Pioneer of Technology Award, 2024 Change Agent Award, the 2023 Marsha P. Johnson Institute Legacy Award, and was named one of the Out100 LGBTQ+ Policy Makers in 2022. E.C. is dedicated to empowering clients and communities for long-term success through strategic growth.

• www.ecpizarro.com
• IG: @ec.the.tird
• LinkedIn: ecthethird
• Facebook: ec.the.third

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Introducing a groundbreaking collaboration crafted by Emilio Perdomo (featured on Dem Bois Podcast episode 37). This isn't just merch--it's a movement! We're empowering trans men of color with creative freedom to design their interpretation of Visibility = Possibility™. Think of it like major brands collaborating with athletes, but this time, our community takes center stage. It will be great to have TMOC designing products that represents their community and that folks will feel proud to put on. Every purchase supports our vital programs!

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E.L. Winston is a father, husband, minister, advocate, and today’s guest on Dem Bois Podcast. In this episode he discusses his journey of transitioning later in life and the challenges he faced, including pushback from the trans community for not medically transitioning and not changing his name. He emphasizes the importance of service, hope, and helping others. And he puts his words into action by running his nonprofit, Transformation in Seat, which provides gender-affirming care.

We talk:

Transitioning later in life - 6:29

The Old Man's Corner in Blaqueout Magazine - 13:46

His career as a minister - 29:49

Putting help and hope into action - 38:23

Book therapy - 44:53

Episode References:

Dem Bois Pod Ep. 18

Dem Bois Pod Ep. 19

Blaqueout Magazine

TranZformation Center for Spirit

Monica Roberts Freedom School

Mahogany Books

Rivers Solomon

KB Brookins

Lambda Nu Dynasty

Read more about E.L. in his bio below:

E.L. Winston is a father, husband, minister and friend his heart for service fuels his advocacy to bring help and hope to his community he lives by the motto if you can look up you can get up!

• FB: E.L.Winston
• IG: @booktherapywitheelwinston
• TikTok: @booktherapywitheelwinston

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The Visibility = Possibility™️ Merch is here!

Introducing a groundbreaking collaboration crafted by Emilio Perdomo (featured on Dem Bois Podcast episode 37). This isn't just merch--it's a movement! We're empowering trans men of color with creative freedom to design their interpretation of Visibility = Possibility™. Think of it like major brands collaborating with athletes, but this time, our community takes center stage. It will be great to have TMOC designing products that represents their community and that folks will feel proud to put on. Every purchase supports our vital programs!

Craving more Connection?

Dem Bois Community Voices Facebook Group is a safe, moderated sanctuary where trans men of color can connect authentically, discuss podcast episodes, share powerful experiences, and build support networks.

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@demboisinc

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