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We hear about finding our purpose all the time. But what does that actually mean and how do we find it? If you’ve ever wondered that then this is the episode for you! Today on Dem Bois Podcast, I sit down with writer Avery Campbell, and we have a beautiful discussion around finding your purpose, living in your purpose, false purpose, and more! We also discuss bridging the gap between older and younger folks, and the positives and negatives of binding.

We talk:
Advice for listeners who want to legally change their name - 9:12
Avery’s transition journey - 15:03
His upcoming surgery - 27:56
His new book - 38:12
How Avery found his purpose - 43:24
Advice for finding your purpose - 51:34

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Episode References:
Caitlin Clark
gc2b
Your Life, Your Way, Your Purpose - Self Help Book by Avery Campbell
feel. forgive. Forget. - Poetry Book by Avery Campbell

Read more about Avery in his bio below:
Avery Campbell lives to change the status quo. He’s been writing professionally since 2018. His writing expands beyond genres as he has written poetry, self-help books, and now working on a sci-fi novel. Through his writing, Avery wants to help people feel seen and heard, and live life on their terms.

• https://msha.ke/averykane
• https://www.twitter.com/kanewriting
• https://www.instagram.com//thekaneavenue

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If you’ve ever listened to the podcast then you’ve heard me talk about the importance of loving your children. If a child has the love of their parents, it doesn’t matter what the world thinks, they can still conquer! In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, Krow sends out a PSA to all parents, telling you to love your children, no matter what. We also discuss the importance of good community and energy, finding yourself within your career and more.

We talk:
Krow’s transition journey - 6:55
Coming out to his mother - 16:49
Allowing some relationships to start over - 21:25
Krow’s experience with homelessness - 31:26
How his career helped him find himself - 42:35

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Episode References:
Three 6 Mafia
Metal Gear 2: Solid Snake
Iroquois People
Iroquois Mythology
Dem Bois Podcast Ep 3. Surviving Homelessness

Read more about Krow in his bio below:
Krow Iroquois is a black & androgynous transgender man that specializes in arts such as literature, sketching, graphic design, and website design. He also enjoys speaking and sharing his story with other people, in hopes that anyone who hears his voice may be inspired by his perseverance to be their best selves. He is the graphic design artist for Montgomery Pride United, a queer-led organization in his hometown, and also the Youth Coordinator for Montgomery's only active LGBT+ youth group, COLORS.

• https://www.instagram/krowiroquois
• https://www.facebook.com/KrowIroquois
• Tiktok: @grimoire777

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Trans people are not monolithic. We don’t all have the same story. But, if you choose to medically transition, this is a great episode for you because we talk about the best way to prepare for it. According to today’s guest BeyonD Sevright, it’s all about, first, being kind to yourself and realizing that you are not alone, and second, checking in with yourself to see how you feel. BeyonD is a 2023 Dem Bois Grant Awardee and in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, we discuss the complexity of identity, his transition story, feeling disconnected from his caribbean roots, and much more!

We talk:
BeyonD’s transition journey - 7:51
Dem Bois care packages - 18:07
His family’s reaction to transition - 21:41
Advice to mentally prepare for surgery - 29:45
Honoring his identity while upholding his Jamaican heritage - 36:15
His spiritual practice - 48:17

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Read more about BeyonD is his bio below:
Growing up as the eldest of eight siblings, BeyonD learned early on the value of resilience and strength, shaped by their family's disciplined approach to life. As a first-generation Jamaican immigrant, they've tackled life's challenges with determination. Their journey includes significant milestones like gender-affirming surgery and a comprehensive three-year medical transition. More than self-realization, it's breaking free from long-standing cycles and embracing their true self. Their story demonstrates the courage to transform life while honoring their identity and heritage. By sharing these experiences, BeyonD sheds light on the complexity of identity and the profound journey of living authentically.

• https://www.instagram.com/Sundriedjam
• https://www/facebook.com/BeyondSeivright

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We’ve talked a lot about medically transitioning on this podcast. We’ve talked about what our parents thought and how our children felt, but very rarely have we talked about how our spouses or significant others made the transition with us. In this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, that is a huge part of the conversation. We also discuss Micah’s adopted children choosing him as a parent, going against what society and religion say we should do, seeing your perception of yourself, and more!

We talk:
Becoming a parent - 4:23
How the name Micah chose him - 14:27
Taking his wife’s last name - 23:05
Not having the language to identify yourself - 36:59
Having the transition conversation with his wife - 43:28

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Read more about Micah in his bio below:
Hi! I’m Micah. I'm a 30 year old transgender man. I have a passion for discussing mental and emotional health within masc spaces. After the passing of my brother Jeffrey in June of 2023 who died by suicide I advocate even harder for IVP against men and men’s mental health.

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“What qualifies or quantifies, what is a man?” Kwasi Johnson asks that question in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast and it really made me think! Where do we get all these ideas of what a man should and shouldn’t be? Why can’t we define manhood for ourselves? Kwasi is a plant and animal dad, photographer, and Senior IT engineer, and we discuss masculine ideologies, the importance of duality, being a blessing to others, and more!

We talk:
The importance of duality - 8:03
How the name Kwasi chose him - 12:38
Advocating for yourself - 25:02
His transition journey - 31:03
What is a man? - 41:08
Advice for listeners - 55:39

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Read more about Kwasi in his bio below:
Peace, love, and light to you. My name is Kwasi-Raheem. I'm a fun, loving, and hilarious plant & animal dad. When I'm not working 1 of my 2 IT related daytime gigs; you can catch me photographing, walking my dogs, and or in your local Home Goods. I also keep a number of reptiles and am a budding "Lego-Brick Architect."

• https://www.instagram.com/kwasi.raheem

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Am I enough? This is a question that many people struggle with, but the answer is always the same. Yes! You are enough! You are exactly who you’re supposed to be, even if the world tells you differently. That is the message in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast. Today I sit down with Human Rights defender, Wegner Wilma, and we discuss the constant struggle between being who you are, losing the acceptance of loved ones, and finding others to replace those lost loved ones. Wegner is also a writer and they are our second guest from Uganda.

We talk:
How Wegner’s name was chosen - 4:31
Struggling with the question: am I enough? - 19:44
The Antihomosexuality Act in Uganda - 35:06
Safety for trans and queer folks in Uganda - 53:59
Wegner’s message to listeners - 1:00:02

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Episode References:
Ep. #47 HIV Activism and Trans Advocacy in Uganda with Ruthra Lubega

Read more about Wegner in his bio below:
Wegner is my name. I am a Trans Non binary Ugandan citizen. My pronouns are they/them and a dedicated Human Rights defender, great writer and a champion for the rights of queer individuals living in Uganda. I have actively participated in a number of Digital Safety and Security initiatives under Queer Women Leaders Uganda where I am currently working as a Finance Officer. Considering the Anti-Homosexuality Act 2023 passing in Uganda, queer advocacy is safest online and I commend QWLU's commitment in fostering secure online spaces for the queer community.

• https://www.twitter.com/Closeted_Africa

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How many black men do you think are in the medical cannabis space? I’ll even take it a step further. How many trans black men do you think are in the medical cannabis space? I’ll wait… It’s unfortunately no surprise that trans black men are lacking in this industry, especially at the executive level. So, in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, I sit down with pioneer and advocate, Shawn Williams, and we discuss it. We also discuss black culture and differences in experiences between cis men and trans men.

We talk:
How the name Shawn chose him - 4:01
Cis vs trans identity - 16:18
Lack of education on ftm transition - 26:06
Living by morals and values instead of tradition - 35:52
Shawn’s work in the legal cannabis space - 47:20
Advice for those looking to get into the legal cannabis space - 1:01:11

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Episode References:
Ep. 30 Creating Your Best Life Holistically with Bobby Walker
Ep. #47 HIV Activism and Trans Advocacy in Uganda with Ruthra Lubega
The Village (movie)
365 Recreational
Burners Block on Instagram
Burners Block website
The Grove (dispensary)
UMD Graduate Studies in Medical Cannabis
Dutchie
Cannabist (formerly Columbia Care)

Read more about Shawn in his bio below:
Born and raised in North Carolina, residing in Maryland. Shawn is a pioneer in the legal cannabis space. Shawn advocates for the rights of Black trans men in cannabis.

• https://www.instagram.com/Dr.biglungs

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People use anything as an excuse to be transphobic. They don’t want Drag Queens reading to children, or trans folks using their preferred bathrooms, or whatever else is the topic of the moment. And it feels like we have to work harder to amplify our voices and our joy, but that is what this episode is all about! Today on Dem Bois Podcast, I sit down with Cuee, recording artist, activist, and influencer, who embodies black trans joy! We discuss his music career, his coming out story, his relationship with his mom, and more.

We talk:
How the name Cuee chose him - 5:13
His relationship with his mom - 16:42
Becoming aware of himself in the body he was in - 27:44
How Cuee was introduced to music - 42:28
The dream retreat that he is creating - 55:46

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Read more about Cuee is his bio below:
Cuee, from Chicago, IL is a Black Trans Recording Artist, Activist and Influencer who embodies Black Trans Joy. His mission is to spread it across the world through his activism and music. His message is spreading across the world with the goal of reaching 100K LGBTQ+ / Allies that he calls, "Cueeties".

• https://www.twitter.com/cueemusic
• https://www.instagram.com/cueemusic

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