In this episode, Lisa and Kari sit down with Monica Lynne, AASECT-certified Sex and Relationship Therapist, for an open and insightful conversation about sensuality and sexual vibrancy through different life stages. Spoiler alert—it’s not about checking off milestones or fitting into stereotypes; it’s about knowing yourself, what you love, need, and want first, and embracing vulnerability and open communication, at any age. Monica breaks down how our desires and relationships evolve in our 20s and 30s, shedding light on how early experiences, cultural messaging, and personal exploration shape our sexual identities. Whether you’re in this stage yourself or want to better understand a partner or loved one, this conversation is full of wisdom, encouragement, and humor.

Tune in next week for Part Two, where Monica continues the conversation into the 40s and beyond, covering everything from shifting libidos to dating again in midlife.

Learn More about Monica and her groundbreaking work with couples:

https://www.balancinglifeonline.com

https://www.linkedin.com/in/monica-lynne-085a48253/

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In this episode, Lisa and Kari dive into what it takes to raise boys who grow into confident, kind, and socially conscious men. They explore how what society sold as “traditional masculinity” discourages vulnerability, why avoiding conversations about race reinforces privilege, and how to help boys build deep, meaningful friendships that ultimately inspires empathy. Drawing from books like Better Boys, Better Men by Andrew Reiner, Raising White Kids by Jennifer Harvey, and Decoding Boys by Cara Natterson, they share practical strategies for fostering emotional intelligence, modeling respect at home, and raising young men who embrace inclusion rather than feeling threatened by it. If you're raising, mentoring, or influencing boys, this conversation is a must-listen.

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Curious about coaching or working with Kari or Lisa?

Book a free discovery call and get clarity on your next steps and learn more about how coaching might benefit you and your wildest dreams:

Lisa: https://calendly.com/transformationforreal/60min?month=2023-11

Kari: https://www.cravevitality.com/get-started

In this episode, Kari and Lisa explore the subtle difference between being self-critical—a constructive approach that fosters growth—and self-deprecating, which can erode confidence and self-worth. Drawing on insights from Esther Apoussidis, Vaishali Patel, Heather Jones, and Trudy Horsting, they examine how discomfort with praise, fear of appearing arrogant, and ingrained social norms can lead to habitual self-dismissal. Kari and Lisa discuss reframing negative self-talk, acknowledging compliments with grace, and recognizing the “energy of lack” that emerges when self-deprecation becomes a default. By sharing personal anecdotes—including the value of humor rooted in self-acceptance rather than self-undermining—the hosts offer practical advice for cultivating balanced self-criticism while nurturing healthier, more affirming perspectives.

Are you done throwing yourself under the bus? Ready to receive compliments without downgrading them? Perhaps attending the Plot Twist! Getaway Retreat with us is just what you need! Learn more and register now to join us and other fabulous women like you: March 28-30, 2025: https://www.eventcreate.com/e/best-chapter-yet-plottwistgetaway25

Where to find Kari and Lisa:

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Curious about coaching or working with Kari or Lisa?

Book a free discovery call and get clarity on your next steps and learn more about how coaching might benefit you and your wildest dreams:

Lisa: https://calendly.com/transformationforreal/60min?month=2023-11

Kari: https://www.cravevitality.com/get-started