You Keep Me Sane

著者: Aileen Harvey and Julie Fahy
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  • For 8 years, Aileen and Julie have been each other's sounding board from opposite sides of the globe – Aileen in London and Julie in Melbourne.

    They have navigated everything – motherhood, relationships, menopause, health, grief, and everything in between – through daily voice messages. These exchanges often became lifelines, and now they share that space with their listeners.

    In You Keep Me Sane, Aileen and Julie hold honest conversations on life's challenges, growth, and connection. They lend an ear and share heartfelt insights, creating a space that allows both them, and you, to be human.

    Listeners are encouraged to write in with their own experiences and topics, becoming part of the conversation that feels like a chat with close friends.

    © 2024 You Keep Me Sane
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For 8 years, Aileen and Julie have been each other's sounding board from opposite sides of the globe – Aileen in London and Julie in Melbourne.

They have navigated everything – motherhood, relationships, menopause, health, grief, and everything in between – through daily voice messages. These exchanges often became lifelines, and now they share that space with their listeners.

In You Keep Me Sane, Aileen and Julie hold honest conversations on life's challenges, growth, and connection. They lend an ear and share heartfelt insights, creating a space that allows both them, and you, to be human.

Listeners are encouraged to write in with their own experiences and topics, becoming part of the conversation that feels like a chat with close friends.

© 2024 You Keep Me Sane
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  • The Art of Listening - How Being Heard is Vital to Growth, Health and Connection
    2024/11/20

    Episode Overview

    In this episode of You Keep Me Sane, we explore the art of listening and its impact on connection, growth, and health. Inspired by listener feedback, we discuss what it takes to be a good listener and how real listening strengthens relationships, helps us feel understood, and supports mental and physical well-being.

    Key Discussion Points

    • Listening as a Core Value: Inspired by listener feedback, we discuss the importance of listening thoughtfully and without interruption, highlighting its impact on connection.
    • Four Key Traits of a Good Listener:
      1. Safe Space: Offering a non-judgmental space for others to open up.
      2. Presence: Practising full presence, even in long-distance voice messages.
      3. Empathy Over Solutions: Prioritising empathy and understanding over advice.
      4. Holding Space Without Pressure: Allowing people to share at their own pace.
    • The Health Benefits of Being Heard: Studies show that expressing emotions without suppression benefits both mental and physical health.

    Listener Takeaways

    • The Power of Empathy: Real listening is about presence and understanding rather than problem-solving. Simple affirmations like “I hear you” can make a world of difference.
    • Creating Connection: Developing listening skills helps build trust and vulnerability, both for the listener and the speaker, making for stronger, healthier relationships.
    • Physical and Mental Health Impact: Allowing oneself to be heard has shown positive effects on mental and physical health, as expressed through studies on suppressed emotions.
    • Space for Vulnerability: Being a good listener can encourage others to open up and allow us to access authentic connections, benefiting everyone involved.

    Links From The Show

    Incredible holiday portraits for those in London (discount code YKMS24):

    https://www.gsixtysix.com/category/xmas24

    For more about the impact of suppressing your feelings and staying silent:

    https://time.com/6319549/silencing-women-sick-essay/

    Join the Conversation

    If this episode resonated with you we’d love to hear your stories of listening and being heard. Reach out through voicemail, DM, or in the comments to share your experience with empathy and listening—whether as a listener or someone in need of being heard. Connect with us, share your thoughts, and let’s continue building a supportive community grounded in presence and understanding.

    Links:

    • Join the YKMS Community: https://ig.me/j/AbZXqiuD7yYWwPg1/
    • Follow YKMS Podcast on IG @youkeepmesane.pod
    • Follow YKMS on FB https://www.facebook.com/YouKeepMeSanePod
    • Email us at hello@youkeepmesane.com

    Host: Aileen Harvey & Julie Fahy

    Editor: Allia Lenit Galos

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    Disclaimer:

    Remember, we’re two friends sharing our personal experiences and discussing everyday challenges. We’re not qualified coaches or therapists, and our content is for general information and supportive conversation only. If you need professional help, please seek advice from a licensed therapist.

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    27 分
  • Judgement - It’s Impact On Who We Are
    2024/11/13


    Episode Overview:

    In this episode of You Keep Me Sane, Aileen and Julie dive into the topic of judgement—how it impacts our lives, the fear of being judged, and the harsh inner critic within us. They share personal stories, explore why judgement holds such power, and offer practical ways to break free from its grip to embrace self-acceptance.


    Key Discussion Points:

    1. Introduction to Judgement:
      • The ever-present nature of judgement and its influence on self-perception.
      • The fear of judgement as a barrier to pursuing what we truly want.
    2. Fear of Being Judged:
      • Aileen and Julie share how childhood experiences and societal expectations contributed to their fear of judgement.
      • The link between fear of judgement and self-worth.
    3. Self-Judgement:
      • How self-criticism can be more damaging than external judgement.
      • Realising that most judgement we fear is self-imposed.
    4. Breaking Free from Judgement:
      • Practical tips for fostering self-compassion and choosing self-acceptance.
      • Recognising that others’ harsh judgements often reflect their own struggles.


    Thought-Provoking Quote:

    “Every time you judge someone, you reveal a part of yourself that needs healing.”

    - This powerful reminder encourages self-reflection, helping us see that judgement often stems from our own unresolved insecurities and fears.


    Listener Contribution:

    • A message from Samantha in Victoria, highlighting her experience with judgement.


    Listener Takeaways:

    • Notice when judgement arises and practise acceptance instead.
    • Speak kindly to yourself and let go of perfectionism.
    • Remember, most people are too focused on their own insecurities to judge you harshly.
    • Embrace imperfection and know you are enough.


    Join the Conversation:

    Judgement is a shared experience. We’d love to hear your stories—send us a voicemail or DM on Instagram, and we may feature your insights in a future episode.


    Call to Action:

    If you found this episode helpful, share it with a friend and leave us a review. Follow us on Instagram for more relatable conversations and support.



    Links:

    • Join the YKMS Community: https://ig.me/j/AbZXqiuD7yYWwPg1/
    • Follow YKMS Podcast on IG @youkeepmesane.pod
    • Follow YKMS on FB https://www.facebook.com/YouKeepMeSanePod
    • Email us at hello@youkeepmesane.com

    Host: Aileen Harvey & Julie Fahy

    Editor: Allia Lenit Galos

    See https://www.buzzsprout.com/privacy for privacy information

    Disclaimer:

    Remember, we’re two friends sharing our personal experiences and discussing everyday challenges. We’re not qualified coaches or therapists, and our content is for general information and supportive conversation only. If you need professional help, please seek advice from a licensed therapist.

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    24 分
  • Self Worth: Making The Shift From External Approval To Inner Strength | YKMS
    2024/11/05

    Episode Overview In this episode of You Keep Me Sane, Julie and Aileen dive into the topic of self-worth, exploring what it means, how we lose touch with it, and how to rebuild it from within. They share personal stories and insights into why self-worth is crucial for living authentically and setting healthy standards for oneself.

    Key Discussion Points

    • What is Self-Worth? Understanding self-worth as an intrinsic sense of value, independent of achievements or external validation.
    • Losing Touch with Self-Worth: How societal conditioning and early praise tied to accomplishments can skew our perception of self-worth.
    • Rebuilding Self-Worth: Personal experiences of separating worth from external achievements and valuing inherent qualities.
    • Cultivating Self-Worth Daily: Practical strategies like gratitude practices, setting boundaries, and self-compassion to reinforce a strong sense of self.

    Listener Takeaways

    • Self-worth isn’t something you earn; it’s inherent.
    • Focus on valuing your internal qualities and practising self-compassion.
    • Surround yourself with people who appreciate you for who you are, and learn to validate yourself without external approval.

    Join the Conversation We’d love to hear your experiences with self-worth. Where do you peg your self-worth, and how are you working to build it from within? Drop us a message or voicemail and, if this episode resonated with you, share it with a friend who might need it.

    Links:

    • Join the YKMS Community: https://ig.me/j/AbZXqiuD7yYWwPg1/
    • Follow YKMS Podcast on IG @youkeepmesane.pod
    • Follow YKMS on FB https://www.facebook.com/YouKeepMeSanePod
    • Email us at hello@youkeepmesane.com

    Host: Aileen Harvey & Julie Fahy

    Editor: Allia Lenit Galos

    See https://www.buzzsprout.com/privacy for privacy information

    Disclaimer:

    Remember, we’re two friends sharing our personal experiences and discussing everyday challenges. We’re not qualified coaches or therapists, and our content is for general information and supportive conversation only. If you need professional help, please seek advice from a licensed therapist.

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    30 分

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